i don't understand my father..

[ethzneuron]

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in my opinion, daghan nag kaagi or expirience imong papa. and he knows kung unsay dagan sa mga hunahuna sa ubang laki...

take it as a blessing nga gi protect kag pag ayo sa imong papa...

if really want to be free. find a job, buhia imong self, para ma prove nimo sa imong papa nga ur not daddy's little gurl anymore and you can stand on ur own not. and in the event you make a mistake, you can accept the consequence and deal with it...

its just a matter of proving to your father nga responsible naka sa imong kaugalingon...

love your father as always... if masuko siya, ayaw basli og kasuko, i agi lang kumideya...
like if kasab an ka nga naa nanguyab nimo, ingna lang nga, ay si papa oist hadlok man magminyo iyang gwapang anak... hehehe.... nya pina hug dayon.....

someday, you'll miss your hated father.. you will miss how strict he is.
and in those days, you will find out that how important all he has done for you.

be thankful for he is there to protect and guide you.. you have achieve what you have right now b'coz of him. some people now are lost because no one is guiding them, and here you are hating the person who is doing a wonderful job.

[igiptomo]

Naa ko nahibaw an ingon ana nga amahan. One time nakit an sa papa iyang precious daughter uban naglakaw with her boy classmate after school padong jeepney stop. Sus naagian mas amahan, perting serbatos amahan sa iyang honda crv, nikalit ug dagan labang ang batang babae kay natarantar pagkita nya sa iyang papa nga nagdrive sa iyang auto. Nadasmagan ang bata sa jeep. Buhi ang bata pero gipakapinan ug dukol sa amahan kay nagdanghag. Agwantaha lang na imong papa mam. Bisan unsaon sya gyud ang matuman right or wrong.

[ryan_boy22]

swerte ka mam kay gibantayan ka sa papa nmo, ang uban dira gipasagdaan lang...

kung dili ka kasabot niya karon..... maybe inig successful nimo or in the long run or kung maka pamilya naka... dira paka maka realize kay nano gibantayan ka niya pag au..

[fingolfin]

swerte ka mam kay gibantayan ka sa papa nmo, ang uban dira gipasagdaan lang...

kung dili ka kasabot niya karon..... maybe inig successful nimo or in the long run... dira paka maka realize kay nano gibantayan ka niya pag au

.. tinuod gyud. sakto gyud ka diha brod. maybe by the time you'll have your own family to look after, that's the time that you'll understand your father. Just like me, now that i have a son, i am just laughing to myself and seeing myself like my father. Once my father saw me trying to discipline my son ( 6 years old ), he coldly commented MAS ESTRIKTO PA KA NAKO NAK .... nyehehehe

[voyager]

thanks sa tanan..

lageh naa nta toh job wa man sugti.....bisan lang ta steppingstone to independencethough not in line wid my kors...sayangan jud ko atoh. nurse mn ako profession so galisod jud og find related job with pay.

i can't wait to have a job na.

salamat guys,.. naa mo good point tanan.
vacation sako ugma sa province para ma-cool ako huna2x... hehe

[dexlimp]

mau gani la ka nag rebelde hehehe

[bbnescia]

most of the time I'm feeling this intense hatred for him.

dghan factors: he yells right away when he's mad, make conclusions right away, great nagger..
but when he's in the mood, super ka sweet kunuhay, not remembering a thing na iyang gibuhat, how emotionally affected i got. this went on for many years na.. btw i'm 21.

during my school days, he told me to wait after graduation b4 mu-go into relationships. and i did. anyways i hardly have any suitors cuz di pod ko palaagon kanunay... if palaagon, gamay ra ang oras then mu-txt daun kwaon na ko. totally wa ko nag-enjoy sa ako social life.. I'm now a board passer.

now i have this good guy migo (naa xa GF).., hang out ragod me n when he knew about it, suko xa, ana xa find a job first b4 ko mangita daw og laki. nalain jod ko. even though frens rame, funny lang kaayo i-think na board passer nagod ko n at least i could have a bit of freedom. i'm not donig anything wrong. his MIND does. i know communication is the solution but im not used to talknig to him about such things. sad to say, di ko comfy mu-tok ana. he's not the friendly type of father.

that's my problem. i don't know how to deal with my own father na. i'm tired.

never hated him this much.

advice guys?.

abi nimo sis, mura makita jd nako akong kaugalingon sa imong experience.though wala ko katiwas ug skwela kay rebeldihon lagi, ehehehe.mao ni jd ni ang style sa akong papa day masuko,nya syagitan ka nya ingon ana sad nga style kng naa sa mood sweet jd nya caring kaayo.all my life day, ako jd sya gikalagutan samot na mag away sila sa akong mama pero kato namatay akong papa adto ko ka realize nga ang gibuhat d i tanan sa akong papa katong masuko with matching syagit mura dala na d i to pagdala niya.mura mao na jd na iyang style ba, kay karon as a parent na nakita nako akong kaugalingon sa kinaiya sa akong amahan, kay sahay akong anak ma syagitan man nako nya masuko ko.though d jd ta na maayo kayo nga kinaiya iyang gipakita sa imoha pero hunahunaa day tanan ginikanan gusto ra jd nila makita ilang anak nga puhon maayo ang pagkabutang nga mawala na sila.mao ng sabta day nganong na ingon ana man imong amahan.basin too late lang nya mahibaw an nimo ang ka importante sa imong amahan.kung gusto ka mangutana sa imong amahan e try nag punchline like naa sa mood imong papa nya storya storya mo isingit ug pangutana ng naa sa imong hunahuna d ba tubagon ra pud ka.ug abi nimo sis since board passer man kaha ka, work na para makita pud nila nga naninguha ka ba d lang ka mura ka gasalig nga "ahh board passer man ko,saligan nako nilang papa", dili na ingon ana sis hinay hinaya lang kuha ang full trust sa imong mga ginikanan.d ba kung successful jd ka sa imong field, ipanghambug naka nila nga buotan ug maayo kang pagka anak.

[voyager]

@bbnescia: sakto jud ka sis...... pero countless times nako nangapply og work (waiting pa matawgan sa hospital) para atl least maka-help ko sa house expenses.. nya naa nata toh pero ala nisugot ako papa. mao karon, huwat2x nlng ko matawgan hospital...... private nurse sa hous... all around cleaner...

bitaw sis, ll try my best to succeed jud and live my own life...at the same time support my family.

salamat.

[voyager]

mau gani la ka nag rebelde hehehe

maayo lageh... pero usahay feeling nko silent rebel nako.
hehe

[tophat]

if you can not understand your father nga anak ka mismo, then dili sab mi. but you can always love him kay father gud na nimo. he is just after your welfare. karon nga board passer na ka, show him how responsible you are. find a job, or go for further studies. make him proud of u. intense hatred for ur father? please dont! you can choose ur friends but fathers and mothers you can not. they are there for a reason and if you did not choose them, who did?