i don't understand my father..

[voyager]

most of the time I'm feeling this intense hatred for him.

dghan factors: he yells right away when he's mad, make conclusions right away, great nagger..
but when he's in the mood, super ka sweet kunuhay, not remembering a thing na iyang gibuhat, how emotionally affected i got. this went on for many years na.. btw i'm 21.

during my school days, he told me to wait after graduation b4 mu-go into relationships. and i did. anyways i hardly have any suitors cuz di pod ko palaagon kanunay... if palaagon, gamay ra ang oras then mu-txt daun kwaon na ko. totally wa ko nag-enjoy sa ako social life.. I'm now a board passer.

now i have this good guy migo (naa xa GF).., hang out ragod me n when he knew about it, suko xa, ana xa find a job first b4 ko mangita daw og laki. nalain jod ko. even though frens rame, funny lang kaayo i-think na board passer nagod ko n at least i could have a bit of freedom. i'm not donig anything wrong. his MIND does. i know communication is the solution but im not used to talknig to him about such things. sad to say, di ko comfy mu-tok ana. he's not the friendly type of father.

that's my problem. i don't know how to deal with my own father na. i'm tired.

never hated him this much.

advice guys?.

[ethzneuron]

he is just protecting you.. if you say over-protecting, that could be your perception.
he trusts you but he cant' trust the people around you..

[voyager]

yea that's understandable........but im 21 na yet n he never trusts my own decisions. same2x ra with having no trust in me.

anyway thanks bro...

[francoise07]

basn la cya salig sa mga laki sis around you...
mb lain iya binuhatan sa una, mhadlok cya mhitabo sa imoha...
mb the best thing is to talk heart to heart...

[ryan_boy22]

hi mam, ako father nako and naa ko anak nga girl gamay pa hinoun.... protective gyud mi basta babae ang anak... hehehe lisod ampingon ang babae kay sa lalake... samot na gwapa kau SOS intawn, kung mahimo lang pa-bawnan gyud og mga bodyguard... kibaw naka sa panahon dili angay mag kompyansa..

[necrotic freak]

tingali sis imong father hadlok maka kita sa iyang binuhatan sauna..

[jntio]

tingali sis imong father hadlok maka kita sa iyang binuhatan sauna..

mao gyd........

[fingolfin]

.. here are some major pain in the arse things that parents are afraid of:

1. drugs
2. getting a girl pregnant ( son )/ getting pregnant ( daughter )
3. not having a job
4. a drunk and useless person



.. your father is just protecting you, it might be a little harsh on your part, but that's his style. All you need to do is to prove to him that you're an able and independent person and that you are responsible of your actions.

.. here's something to cheer you up, i'm 31, a professional, have a business and yet my father still tells me that i'm a no good son. that's what you call a freaking motivation, nyehehehe

[darkraven]

in my opinion, daghan nag kaagi or expirience imong papa. and he knows kung unsay dagan sa mga hunahuna sa ubang laki...

take it as a blessing nga gi protect kag pag ayo sa imong papa...

if really want to be free. find a job, buhia imong self, para ma prove nimo sa imong papa nga ur not daddy's little gurl anymore and you can stand on ur own not. and in the event you make a mistake, you can accept the consequence and deal with it...

its just a matter of proving to your father nga responsible naka sa imong kaugalingon...

i'm not yet a father nor a husband, but i do have little sisters... i have a 4th yr highschool sis, ing ana sad iyang feeling if dili siya sugtan sa ako papa og laag2 and outing... ako lang siya gipasabot sa side sa ako papa... makabaw raman nya tag ngano puhon if kita nay ma parent...

love your father as always... if masuko siya, ayaw basli og kasuko, i agi lang kumideya...
like if kasab an ka nga naa nanguyab nimo, ingna lang nga, ay si papa oist hadlok man magminyo iyang gwapang anak... hehehe.... nya pina hug dayon.....

[ryan_boy22]

.. Here are some major pain in the arse things that parents are afraid of:

1. Drugs
2. Getting a girl pregnant ( son )/ getting pregnant ( daughter )
3. Not having a job
4. A drunk and useless person



.. Your father is just protecting you, it might be a little harsh on your part, but that's his style. All you need to do is to prove to him that you're an able and independent person and that you are responsible of your actions.

.. Here's something to cheer you up, i'm 31, a professional, have a business and yet my father still tells me that i'm a no good son. That's what you call a freaking motivation, nyehehehe

tumpak idol!!