The Nature of Attraction
1.What is the major attraction? what is your main interest?
RL - the total peronality whole person
RI - the person physical appearance
2.How many things or factors attract?
RL - many or most and it overlooks its weaknesses and accept him/her and you become her/his strenght
RI - though some may very strong but there is only few.....
the more things you have in common, the more you will have a better foundation and succesful relationships in the future..
The Course of the Romance
3. How did the romance start?
RL - slowly months or year pa -igot sa gamay ba pa thrilling gud bisan ampay abi pa lang easy bopy or easy girl....
RI - fast maybe minutes hours or a day(makuha ka lang sa kidhat o smile bakah hinuon trjak na dayon...bad cheetah!!!....pranka lang wla juy love at first sight unsa ra naa? mao ni " UWAG SA UNANG PANAGKITA"....sowe am i mean?
4. How consistent is your level of interest?
RL - you stabilize your feeling, get to be dependable and can be predicted
RI - it varies, comes and goes, not consistent uyab lang kon mag kita if dili gani mag uban dali kaayo mu function basta maka kita ug mga mamorges.....
5. How does it affect your personality?
RI - disorganizing, destructive, you act strangely like dili naka ganahan moka-on tulala kanunay mag sigi na lang og imagine....
RL - organizing, constructive, you are a better person you will be much more inspired in everything your schooling carrier or profession even in your life....mag bago ka?!...
6.How and when does it end?
RL - slowly, takes long time social scientist say it is imposible to love to person at the same time.
RI - fast, dali ra jud kaayo gawas lang kon naanay ****** nga nahims..hmhmmmm!!the early it start the early it ends...mura sa kanta nga " I remember the boy but i dont remember the feelings anymore"...
TWO VIEWS OF YOU TWO
7. How do you view each other?
RL - you are more realistic, admitting others fault but loving anyway. YOur BF/GF is not a replacement of your family, but an addition to your family
RI - you live in a one world, you see the other erson as faultless, you are idealizing him/her...
8. How do others view the two fo you/specially your friends and family..
RL - most or all approve the relationship. you get along well with each others friend and parents
RI - few or none approve dili bitaw sila ang mag puyo unya kamo bitaw but its like two against the world...social scientist says peers and parental approval tend to indicate real love...
DEALING WITH DOUBLE TROUBLE
9. What does long distacne(long separation) do to the relationship?
RL - survive and it may even grow strong...the test of love is the test of space and distance...
RI - romantic infatuation if mamatay dayon dali ra mawagtang ang gibati kita dayon ka ug lain....nya kiringking dayon....
10. How do quarells affect the romace/relationship?
RL - they grow less frequent and less severe...
RI - mag kagrabee!!!ug magkanunayon ang lalis ug away sigi selos wala pa gani auhan,...sowe ha pero ang nakapadayon sa relasyon ug dugay usahay moabot ug daghan pa nga tuig labing taas kay 5 or 10 years tungod kay nanay jir jir nga nahimmmmsss.....pst pst away away dayon ... oi oi oi
bad cheeta mao if mag buwag mo buwag na lang jud pag mata na!!!!mahal na ang bugas...
THE INNER WORLD OF LOVE
11. How do you feel about and refer to your relationships?
RL - speak of we, us, ours dili ka mahimutang nga mokaun o mag pahayahay nga dili nimo siya kauban
RI - much use of I, me, mine, iya, siya gamay ra jud kaayo ang feeling of oneness..selfish jud kaayo peri lang ask unsa kaha ako makuha ani niya ?....may unta ug librehon nasad ko niya oi
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12. What's your ego responce to the other?are you selfless or selfish
RL - unselfish, realesing kayou are concern equally to each others plans hope, and dreams......imo siyang e let go bisag sakit og dili siya ma imo "bisag iyang kalipay imong kasakit" kaysa ma antos siya uban nimo ikaw ray nalipay siya nag antos...
RI - selfish ka, nya dili ka gusto mokoyog sa iya mga barkada amiga o amigo gusto nimo ikaw ra permi iya kuyog
13. What's your overall attitude toward the other?
RL - attitude of giving, sharing, want to serve others needs
RI - attitude of taking, exploit, ...gamitan lang,,,pahungawanan
14. What is the effect of jealousy?
RL - less frequent, less severe
RI - more frequent, more severe.
Jealous mao ni ang bildo nga ali sa bintana... he he he it is a sign that we are insecure and unsure of ourselves, low self image...
is it okey to make your BF GF jealous or is jealousy is hte measurement of love? ang tubag ani duha kay "NO" dili never ....kay love never tries to hurt the beloved. as your love grows, so does your trust and confidence.
ang kini tanang 14 ka clues dili lang maoy basihanan sa tanuod nga gugma o sa pipila nga naka pontos ang inyo relasyon dili gihapon......ambot lang... he he he he he
14 clues of real love or infatuation
Originally Posted by cute_6423
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