
Originally Posted by
laagan_si_organizer
wow!! for a couple of days being out-of-town, i didn't expect it would be this fiery and that things would go overboard...quoting:
honestly, i don't want to "question" how your parents brought you up and all that. i swear! and by that, i was sincere. but reading between the lines, you've gone beyond your limit for too much freedom of expression. how could one adjudge another person being "psychologically imbalanced" just because she's having an affair with a person of the same ***.
you've been pointing out, stressing that a woman should not sour-grape just because a guy failed her. it sounds to me you were the one sour-graping.
it's not a question of how parents brought their kids up, knowing that every parent would want what's best for their kids. it's not a question of what sport they should play, or which household chore they should do together.
medically, there are a lot of factors to consider (and reconsider) when bringing kids up.
if someone would question how my parents brought me up (wondering why i ended being a member of the third ***), i would come up to that person and ask him back how his parents guided him, why he became idiotic.
there shouldn't be a question on how parents take care of their children. again, every parent would want what's best for their kids.
it's never a fail that a good parent would teach his kid how to behave properly (in private or public), how to conduct oneself rightfully, how to be independent (in such a way one would grow maturely), and more importantly..HOW TO RESPECT OTHERS.
i don't think there are parents who would teach their kids how to discriminate, because for all i know, that's unrespectful in most ways.
remembering that line from Forrest Gump, "life is a box of chocolates. you never know what you get!"
now, no matter how parents bring their children up, the last call would still be from their children, depending on how they would like to live their lives. it's a choice...and the only person who makes that choice is you, yourself.
no matter how many basketballs you shoot or how many punches you take, if a person is a gay, then he will always be gay. relating to that, i remembered John Amaechi (ex-NBA player) when he came out of the open.
again, it's not a question of the way parents bring their children up. it's a matter of choice. and that choice is always made by one person...YOU!!