Everytime I look at my self in the mirror, I beam with pride.
I grew up knowing what is wrong and what is right because I was taught so by two of the best parents in the world.
I might come out to be stubborn and opinionated because that is who I am and I want my point to get through to others.
I'am fulfilling my obligations to my parents as a good son.
I'am very sure that they are proud of me for the MAN that I had become because they brought me up in a normal, intact family who upholds the moral values of society, but most of all loves each other in a way that my siblings and I are brought up in a healthy family environment so that we mature right.
We are not having any issues with self-esteem nor identity confusion that unfortunately results in a dysfunctional family that confuses the orientation and emotional stability of their children. Thus, leaving them confused and unsure of making the right decisions in life.
My parents should be proud of themselves too for raising their children the right way, values and morals intact! I'm glad that I am raised in a happy home.
I'm sure that my father would be proud of me carrying the family name which I would proudly pass to my children.
I know that my family would respect my decisions because I have never once screwed up in my life because of their unfaltering guidance and love. I would never put my family's name in the scrutiny of society because I respect them so much that I always put them ahead before I do anything hasty and foolish for my OWN selfish satisfaction and gratification.
If I have doubts in the decisions I would take in my life, I could always turn to my loving family to ask for guidance so they can give me their VALUABLE suggestions to minimize my chances of screwing up.
Someday when I have a family of my own, I would raise them RIGHT! In a healthy, loving, normal, intact family.
I would marry a strong-willed, independent and emotionally balance woman to be the mother of my children.
If I have a daughter, I will show her how a man should treat his wife so she will grow up having an idea of what a perfect man should be so she knows that there is always a decent man out there for her to marry in the example of her father. Para dili cya mailad ug tomboy or dili cya ma tomboy!
I would encourage her to spend time with her mother so she would know what a woman's oligation in a family is and grow up knowing a woman's responsibility and duty in her family.
If I have a son, I would play basketball with him and give him quality father and son bonding so that he would grow up right with a decent father as a role model so that he would be ORIENTED on how a man should act and carry himself. Encourage him to pick himself up if he falters and be a stronger man than he once was. I would always be there for my son teaching him the lessons on life so that someday, he could find a great woman and start a normal, happy family of his own. para dili cya ma bayot!
Hey, I am just sharing my opinion. I'am not attacking anyone in particular. Bato-bato sa langit ang tatamaan wag magalit.
It is what I believe in and I stand for what I think is right. This is a forum sharing site isn't it?
Let's keep our discussions ON TOPIC because I'am in no mood to get personal.
wow!! for a couple of days being out-of-town, i didn't expect it would be this fiery and that things would go overboard...quoting:
honestly, i don't want to "question" how your parents brought you up and all that. i swear! and by that, i was sincere. but reading between the lines, you've gone beyond your limit for too much freedom of expression. how could one adjudge another person being "psychologically imbalanced" just because she's having an affair with a person of the same ***.And I want to have a wife like that someday and I would treat her like a queen. Dili pareha anang mga psychologically imbalanced women nga mupatol ug tomboy!
you've been pointing out, stressing that a woman should not sour-grape just because a guy failed her. it sounds to me you were the one sour-graping.
it's not a question of how parents brought their kids up, knowing that every parent would want what's best for their kids. it's not a question of what sport they should play, or which household chore they should do together.
medically, there are a lot of factors to consider (and reconsider) when bringing kids up.
if someone would question how my parents brought me up (wondering why i ended being a member of the third ***), i would come up to that person and ask him back how his parents guided him, why he became idiotic.
there shouldn't be a question on how parents take care of their children. again, every parent would want what's best for their kids.
it's never a fail that a good parent would teach his kid how to behave properly (in private or public), how to conduct oneself rightfully, how to be independent (in such a way one would grow maturely), and more importantly..HOW TO RESPECT OTHERS.
i don't think there are parents who would teach their kids how to discriminate, because for all i know, that's unrespectful in most ways.
remembering that line from Forrest Gump, "life is a box of chocolates. you never know what you get!"
now, no matter how parents bring their children up, the last call would still be from their children, depending on how they would like to live their lives. it's a choice...and the only person who makes that choice is you, yourself.
no matter how many basketballs you shoot or how many punches you take, if a person is a gay, then he will always be gay. relating to that, i remembered John Amaechi (ex-NBA player) when he came out of the open.
again, it's not a question of the way parents bring their children up. it's a matter of choice. and that choice is always made by one person...YOU!!
@pornstar: you sound so perfect! my god! we all have imperfections. ikaw man cguro nuon ang psychological imbalanced.
agree to this....
now the question is...how to make a good choice? let's ask ourselves...
--->is it to answer/satisfy our earthly desire? earthly pleasure?
--->is it according to what we should do/follow? as what the state/gov't required?
--->is it according to the Bible? guided by Christian virtues?
--->is it according to the Koran? guided by Islamic virtues?
--->is it according to thhe evil one?
blah...blah...
if you have something to add more...etc..etc...
the answers lies to whom?
@pornstar
if tym comz nga magka anak ka...pag ampo jud na wlay maBAYOT ug wlay maTOMBOY nila..unsa kahay bation nimo ug usa sa imong anak mabayot or tomboy..kay bisag unsaon nmo ..bisag pagduwaon pa nimo ug baskbetball or boxing ug bayot bayot jud..nya bisag palitan pa nimo ug pinakanindot nga doll kung tomboy tomboy jud ... unsaon nalang..
wla mana ga matter sa giunsa mo pag pagdako sa imong parents kay ang pagka bayot or tomboy choice mana sa tao .. bisag unsaon pa pag bali-bali sa kalibotan ana na jud na cla..naa lang jud niyagyag naa puy gatago tago pa...
en sa mga tao nga mopatol ug tomboy ug bayot .. it doesnt mean nga low self esteem na cla or mga naay frustration sa past ... kung ganahan diay ka sa tao or ma inlove ka mapili diayrespeto lng ayaw palabe sa imong gibati lisud na
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depende rana sa tao oi.na koy kaila na gay men ang usa american ang usa filipino..murag 4 years na sila..
the answer remains to OURSELVES, and ourselves alone! it's just that some people aren't satisfied with what we answer for our own questions. fortunately, never will i care about these people. they have their own beliefs, and i have my own. the only thing is, if they would respect my answers, then definitely i would give them the same kind of respect...but if they don't, then they shouldn't expect a little bit of respect from me for them. as simple as that!
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