Just got married

[DeepwateR]

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hi guys, just want an incite.... i just got married last year, and though we had plans to supposedly marry in the future with my current husband, nasayo-sayo kay I got pregnant. I just delivered my baby and he is now 4 months old. The thing is when i delivered na my baby, my husband hardly touches me in bed. its been almost 3 months na. and i am fully recovered and went back to my prepregnant figure. i know he is probably afraid of getting me pregnant again but if i talk to him about family planning options, he shuts me out saying abstinence is the only answer and yes i do agree but come on... we are married. and he is a guy. i just am so confused sometimes and all the more makes me insecure that he hardly touches me. am i not attractive to him anymore?

[hayden]

be aggressive sis nakalitan rana imo hubby sa situation that naa na cya family ^_^

[moy2]

more adjustment sissy.naa pa mo sa between na adjustment coz sgru lng krn lng xa naka incounter ing.ana na situation try 2 understnd lng sa for the maintime but kun dli na jud mau iyaha.aw its a matter of inuha nana duha problema.ahihih.lol

[estoyra]

yap... prepare ur body sis... ika nga palamia jd imong lawas den 1day mashock lng k basig adlaw2on k ana... toink hehe...

[syphoon]

basin naay lain reason y dili jud xa oi

[DeepwateR]

thanks guys... haay... hope adjusting lang ni and not anything else..

[d`monyita]

ur hubby reminds me of elvis presley... i read somewhere before that when priscilla gave birth to lisa marie... he would not touch his wife because he cannot have relations with someone who has had a child already.

ay sorry --- wala pala advice noh? hehehe. my take on this is.... give him time. the stress of the expense of having a child too soon might have caused his libido to go way way down. does not mean he does not love you anymore... just that he does not want to add to his problems by adding another expense. (sorry but it is true naman...ang MAHAL MAHAL MAHAL magka-anak sa panahon na ito)

[DeepwateR]

ayt... I hear you on that one.

[unspeakabLe]

hmmm.. very weird lagi imo husband noh? ang uban gani makigsex pah while pregnant ila wife nya kana hinuon nga dili naka pregnant and nibalik na imo figure dili na nuon xa..

if you were not able to notice mga lahi nga gipangbuhat niya, mga milagro bah then maybe nabag-uhan pa jud na xa.. nakabasa baya ko somewhere, new dads -- it's hard for them to connect sa ila baby or murag malain sila nga while nag-make love mo naa ang baby..murag feeling niya naa lain tao nga nagtan-aw bisag kahibaw xa nga ang baby xempre wa nay paki sa gbuhat sa iya mom n dad.

it should not be a reason nga d lang xa ganahan kay tungod basin ma-preggy napud ka.. there are a lot of ways man 2 avoid getting pregnant..

[Sol_Itaire]

ur hubby reminds me of elvis presley... i read somewhere before that when priscilla gave birth to lisa marie... he would not touch his wife because he cannot have relations with someone who has had a child already.

ay sorry --- wala pala advice noh? hehehe. my take on this is.... give him time. the stress of the expense of having a child too soon might have caused his libido to go way way down. does not mean he does not love you anymore... just that he does not want to add to his problems by adding another expense. (sorry but it is true naman...ang MAHAL MAHAL MAHAL magka-anak sa panahon na ito)

"postpartum _______"

what's a good term?