give up or stay martyr.... girls and guys, drop an advice, thanks..

[gabs]

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aw taasa oi,... pero miga, murag naay pagkatapulan na imong partner,..
ani nalang, para masure inyong kasal unya para dili pud niya magasto ikaw gunit sa iyang giipon para sa kasal,. kay murag tapulan na klase na ang lalake pina go with the flow tirada na, walay force hehe....

kung dili mosugot eexplain sa iyaha kung ngano ikaw mogunit... kung dili jud gihapon aw klaro na, wa nay plano makigminyo nimo,.. gikuyugan lang ka sa cityhealth para lang malahi nasad ang outcome sa pagpostpone, klaro na sa pattern..

agree ko ane bro. RING nalang ang kulang nya mi atras pa jud!

kay sa iya gi mention. 2 yrs nya regular nya dako og sweldo. kanang 40K+ nga ring dili jud na unta na ma issue.

if ako palang ay, mangutang ko oi or mo loan if kulang ang budget. nya todo higpit sa jd sa expenses nga dili jud needed og mga pangarte.

if there is will, there is always a way.

[raingelcute]

The important thing to consider for me miss nuh, is asa man ka? Sa kanang masakitan ra ka if padayunon pa na nimu or kanang masakitan raka pero wala nakai huna2xon. I've been there done that, but dili same situation sa imo. Akong ex, he cheated on me three times, pero martyr lageh, bisag kaybaw na gud ko naa syay lain, ako gipadayun. Pero wala nakoi makuha kai sakit jud.

Basta, think about this. Which is the lesser evil?

[sugarcakes_babe]

The important thing to consider for me miss nuh, is asa man ka? Sa kanang masakitan ra ka if padayunon pa na nimu or kanang masakitan raka pero wala nakai huna2xon. I've been there done that, but dili same situation sa imo. Akong ex, he cheated on me three times, pero martyr lageh, bisag kaybaw na gud ko naa syay lain, ako gipadayun. Pero wala nakoi makuha kai sakit jud.

Basta, think about this. Which is the lesser evil?

....and so u left, saludo kos imong courage.... bilib gani pud kos mga single mother dira, i don't how're theyre able to cope, pero for sure makaya na nako d cguro dha2 dayon, pero i know god will be give me that coping courage to get over with him, pero as of now, agwanta lang sa tah, need to find work--- para ipakita inawng sa iyang dagway nga kaya nako, d sad ta pataka ug layas2 nya salig ra d i gihapon niya, hopefully mahitabo nani before pas iyang next nga gisaad nga date, wa nako nag.expect pa nga matinuod pa na iyang sunod nga saad, yopak na actually....

[sugarcakes_babe]

you guys might wanna check me out sa fb.... alex.simmons69@yahoo.com

[raingelcute]

....and so u left, saludo kos imong courage.... bilib gani pud kos mga single mother dira, i don't how're theyre able to cope, pero for sure makaya na nako d cguro dha2 dayon, pero i know god will be that coping courage to get over with him, pero as of now, agwanta lang sa tah, need to find work--- para ipakita inawng sa iyang dagway nga kaya nako, d sad ta pataka ug layas2 nya salig ra d i gihapon niya, hopefully mahitabo nani before pas iyang next nga gisaad nga date, wa nako nag.expect pas nga matinuod pa na iyang sunod nga saad, yopak na actually....

Cge that is a good decision. Pangita sa ug stable job. Show him na you can manage on your own. BS kaayo na " dili na uso ang kasal karon panahona". That's total CRAP!

I know naa pa mas deserving nimu na lalaki out there miss, na would accept you as who you are, WITH your child of course. People na walai ambition sa life, kanang go with the flow, dili jud na maayo.

My prayers are with you, friend.

[tee_dee]

....wala rapud ni.demand akong parents nga magpakasal mi, kay lagi from the exp sa akong mga kuya, i got three kuyas, two of them got separated and had problems dealing with annulment, since klaro na kaau nagbinuang sila, todo tnt ang show nila sa mga asawa, kay u know ang bigamy naghuwat sa korte... haay.... pero honestly my parents asked me back then when our daughter is still months old pa lang nga why wala pami magpakasal, and i think they already smelled something fishy bout my bf's behaviour ug nganong wa pami makasal, nigawas nalang ang bata, cguro pride nalang ila, wa nalang namugos ug gi.kebs sa akong parents and all they told me was, ah mas better way kasal para kung naay magbinuang buwag and go ahead start my profession, d bya pud lalim akong kurso guys maong, deep inside super dismayed sila of what happened to me, i guess my parents are just praying cguro that we'd rather separate ways, pero sa ako ra nang huna2, they don't actually entertain my bf that much.. haaayyy... as of now, im preparing myself for that big day nga makigbuwag najud ko niya ug bongga, like apply ko work, rent an apt, bring my daughter with me, and say goodbye to everything what we had, tan.awn nato naa bay buhaton ang kugtong, lech! so hopefully before na nako buhaton, maka.propose na xa hahaha we'll for sure not.... and im stickin' to that decision... bahala na nang gugma2, anyway, my daughter will surely understand our situation in the long run, kesa naman pud , kuyog lagi mis iyang papa, pero cge pud ug away kay wa koy peace of mind...

ai murag mu.agree jud ko anang mind set nimu ron TS hehehe bitaw, you always have a choice girl, as in ALWAYS. so for me, sakto na imo thinking, think of your daughter and of yourself. do things nga makapa.grow nimu as a person, spiritually, emotionally, physically, etc. and it sure pays to listen to your parents 'cause been there done that na nah sila. heheh but of course since it's your life, ikaw jud mag."set sail", kay down the road, ikaw rajud mag.dala sa imong life. wish you the best TS!

[bellah]

puola ana ug sakit kau na sa boot ing anah ts cge lng storya.nya wa d.i to...

[ayeeel]

Daghan minyo pero nagbulag gihapon. MArriage contract is not an assurance TS, Basta responsable, wala lain babaye og dili manapat wala man guro problema.

[bot_yok]

Daghan minyo pero nagbulag gihapon. MArriage contract is not an assurance TS, Basta responsable, wala lain babaye og dili manapat wala man guro problema.

how much more kung live in ang relationship? anytime you can leave each other, i still believe in the blessing of marriage.

[gamatoy]

ako pa nimo TS pwede raman mo mag pa civil aron less ang gasto ug effective pa kaau na....if dili ang laki agpakasal nimo pasabot ana naa pa syay plano na either mangita pa sya lain ug mag duwa2x sa lain...lisud gyud kaau na klase na laki na walay padolngan inyong pag live in....usa pa naa moi anak na,daku kaau na na QUESTION gyud ug ngano dili pa ka nya pakaslan.... nway mao rana ts good luck sa imong mga plans sa inyong future...