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  1. #11

    nowadays, dili na big deal ang minyo , my opinion TS

  2. #12
    e open up niya imong ganahan naka magpakasal.. nakasabot man kos imong na feel kay we girls always needs reassurance sa atong partner.. basin dili pa siya ready financially or spiritually and emotionally.. igna xa na mas harmonious atong pag puyo if naay blessing ni God thru marriage..

  3. #13
    I think miss... naa pamo kulang duha... mao na di na magpakasal nimo ang laki... kai feel niya di pa mo ready duha... so work on yourself sa... but let him know in an assertive manner...

    Relationships is about growing together... and learning along the way... ang important ra is willing pamo duha. So be patient and keep a positive outlook sa life.

  4. #14
    thank your for your continous advice istoryans....i appreciate it much.... mejo makarelieve jud d i nga masabwag gyud nimo ug wagas imong gibati without them knowing ur identity..... much love istoryans! mwa! keep safe!!

  5. #15
    naay upat ka important questions ana miga para maklaro nimo kung ngano dili gusto pakasal ang aktor:
    1. unsa iyang rason nganong dili xa pakasal? naga usab2x ba iyang rason?
    2. pila inyong edad?
    3. naa ba mo stable na trabaho?
    4. pila mo ka years nag uyab before ka nabuntis?

  6. #16
    no offense TS,

    basin ang point na "Immaturity" ang reason ngano doubtful pa ang guy magpakasal nimo...

    my advice, try to initialize with your self first before opening it up sa imong partner. Once you are sure na wala ju'y problema sa imo, and once you are also sure na niya jud ka ganahan magpakasal... Then, talk it over..

    Communication is the key... But sometimes, we miss to communicate to ourselves first.

    diha na dayon ang mahay2 inig human...

    You don't want to blame yourself for insisting marriage that could result to nothing, do you?
    Last edited by iMallalone29; 11-12-2013 at 08:49 PM.

  7. #17
    Quote Originally Posted by _hizuka_ View Post
    naay upat ka important questions ana miga para maklaro nimo kung ngano dili gusto pakasal ang aktor:
    1. unsa iyang rason nganong dili xa pakasal? naga usab2x ba iyang rason?
    2. pila inyong edad?
    3. naa ba mo stable na trabaho?
    4. pila mo ka years nag uyab before ka nabuntis?

    heheheh maningning man sud ka aning mga pangutanaha @Hizuka ba hehehe, well lemme go ahead sa mga anwers..
    1. first reason, we agreed to have it on dec.2011, so ahead of time tigum daw mi, pero pila naka bonuses niagi niya till the last bonus is ang 13th month, wala as in wala gani xa ni.open up about saving some pennies for the said wedding, then nahuman nlng ang 2011, way nahitabo. second, this time ako na xa gi hatagan ultimatum, nga if no wedding will happen this 2012, better buwag nlang mi, lain sad kayg puyo.puyo.on lang ko niya, at least, professional bya ko, masters degree holder of a said course, registerd pajud, dli lang nako i.mention ang kurso basin naay makaila na nako hehehe.... so we agreed oct2012, and as the said date is fast approaching, i couldnt see any preparations from him, not even any savings effort since siya may nag.dala sa among budgetting... til september came, nangumusta ko niya, oy kumusta naman atong plano, next month naman, ana xa, walay kwarta...lisud makasave... naminghoy nlng ko, and days after, nitawag pud akong kuya nga i.postpone ang kasal kay sila sa daw, getting married pud d i sila that december, and niana pud ko, ok go ahead, d nasd mi madayon... so next year npud mi.... may or june of 2013, at least this time, kuyog najud mi adto sa city health, process sa requirements makita na nako ang willingness niya, nya voice out jud sad xa nga lami man d i ang feeling nga getting married namo.... til ring nalay kuwang, nanganvass nami sa sm, tag 15-20k gyud sad, faet... pero naa bya siyay budget, 20k lang nuon.... til nadiscourage napud xa kay bati kaau ang mga ring nga 15-20k, since everyday kuno na sul.ubon, ang mga nindot kay pwerting mahala man pud oy, tag 40-60k, niana napud siya, tigum sa lagi tag dako2 para matinuod akong dream wedding nga bongga, nya naminghoy napud ko, and he then kept on telling me nga , malipayon raman ta ba in.ani....til nadiscourage napud ko.....and few weeks after napud my mother approach me nga sila ni papa pakasal pud, so i.postpone sa daw amoa...haay.... pero my mother suddenly died because of heart attack this june.... samot dili mi pwede pakasal kay sukob.... so last plan kay next yr july2014, after my mother's first death anniversary....

    2. ma.obyus naman pud ta ani oy hehe, basta both of us are now 25+, im ahead 1yr heheh, pero far from 30 pa...

    3.regular employee xa sa isa ka well established ug dako nga call center dri cebu, 2yrs na xa dha, dako nag sweldo, ako housewife..kay way klarong katabang... pero makakita ramig tarong nga helper, sutoy jud kog pangaply....

    4. two years mi nag.uyab before nabuntis...

  8. #18
    Quote Originally Posted by iMallalone29 View Post
    no offense TS,

    basin ang point na "Immaturity" ang reason ngano doubtful pa ang guy magpakasal nimo...

    my advice, try to initialize with your self first before opening it up sa imong partner. Once you are sure na wala ju'y problema sa imo, and once you are also sure na niya jud ka ganahan magpakasal... Then, talk it over..

    Communication is the key... But sometimes, we miss to communicate to ourselves first.

    diha na dayon ang mahay2 inig human...

    You don't want to blame yourself for insisting marriage that could result to nothing, do you?
    sakto sad dah... bitaw sad, who would want to, at this very point of my life, all im thinking is the dignity and all.... u kno i came from a broken family as well, though tanan nako brothers pud nuon kasal sila pero they all ended separated except sa among eldest pero murag padung napud.... that is what my eldest bro is telling me as well, you need to get to know your partner pero mas matimbang karon ang dignidad since naa nami anak...hahay...

  9. #19
    Quote Originally Posted by sugarcakes_babe View Post
    sakto sad dah... bitaw sad, who would want to, at this very point of my life, all im thinking is the dignity and all.... u kno i came from a broken family as well, though tanan nako brothers pud nuon kasal sila pero they all ended separated except sa among eldest pero murag padung napud.... that is what my eldest bro is telling me as well, you need to get to know your partner pero mas matimbang karon ang dignidad since naa nami anak...hahay...
    sis... I feel you.. I came from a broken family too.. My brothers are not married but they both got separated from their partners. Naa na pud sila mga anak. I am the youngest and the only girl. But I stood up and strived hard without asking a single centavo from my parents.

    I really dreamed of a fairytale happy ending but since I got hurt so much, I no longer believe in marriage. I took time for myself. I enjoyed myself selfishly... <-- But not the wrong way. I feel freedom and enjoyed the status: Single for more than a couple of years. I never expected that I'll love again... But I did! I got pregnant, then everything went so fast! I never expected him to marry me. And I never asked for it. But hey! he proposed to me and now, we are soon to be married.

    What I'm actually trying to say sis is.. Everything happens for a reason. And the main reason should be yourself.

    I think, if he never found me ready for marriage, or maybe if he never found me mature enough... he will never ask me to marry him.

  10. #20
    Quote Originally Posted by iMallalone29 View Post
    sis... I feel you.. I came from a broken family too.. My brothers are not married but they both got separated from their partners. Naa na pud sila mga anak. I am the youngest and the only girl. But I stood up and strived hard without asking a single centavo from my parents.

    I really dreamed of a fairytale happy ending but since I got hurt so much, I no longer believe in marriage. I took time for myself. I enjoyed myself selfishly... <-- But not the wrong way. I feel freedom and enjoyed the status: Single for more than a couple of years. I never expected that I'll love again... But I did! I got pregnant, then everything went so fast! I never expected him to marry me. And I never asked for it. But hey! he proposed to me and now, we are soon to be married.

    What I'm actually trying to say sis is.. Everything happens for a reason. And the main reason should be yourself.

    I think, if he never found me ready for marriage, or maybe if he never found me mature enough... he will never ask me to marry him.

    im having envious tears falling down karon....hahay... heheheh pero mao lagi, i've always made up my mind and self nga i will never think of it, i will never ask it from him, i will never pressure him again, pero mukatok jud akong utok kalit...i guess need nako to get out from the usual daily routines i have, socialize as much as possible, kay i dont want to let go of whatever we have right now raman pud...so sakot jud ka, better think of keeping myself better and mature....then maybe and hopefully he will see it the same ur hubby to be sees it on you.....goodluck nako, unta dli lang ko mahutdan ug pasensya....

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