How to say "NO"

[cherrylescartin]

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ingna next time nlang.

[Scott Bernard]

The best thing to say NO is to Ignore... and never to talk about it again.

[dimplesheaven]

TS..



I agree.. there are no abusers if there are no person to be abuse to.. first thing you need to learn before loving other people is TO LOVE YOURSELF first.. How can you really love others when you yourself doesn't value yourself... for what your worth as a person..

Judging from your personality.. the persons you love are really lucky to have you.. your one of a kind.. but your not lucky to have them.. that's my take...

I hate martyrs because they are the reasons why there a lot of abusive persons in this world.... Persons who oppress tends to be more opressive because they are being driven by people who let them be...

I pity you TS... you don't really love yourself jud.. (you may have a low self esteem when your a child, and because of this low self esteem, you just allow others to treat you this way inorder for them to just stick with you..bisan sakit na kau sa imong self)


wanting and hunger to be love... is okay.. as long as that persons you tend to love.. does not violate your human dignity as a person na..

again TS.. I pity you... Love yourself first.. before you can give love and let someone love you in return... Its the last thing you can ever give yourself to... Loving you for who and what you are

Bowee.....thank you for this wonderful message, it helps me to understand myself more and yes I agree with you at one point.. I agree with your rationalization about my childhood....This post was years ago, and now, I'm finally loving myself more and careful of not repeating the same situations in my relationship with people. Again, Thank u...

[rayice]

just say "NO" TS, but with feelings...
btw TS, pangita lang og chempo nga maka.sulti ka and wudn't hurt his/her feelings.

[azaleayve]

lisud jud na siya TS, aku kay kapila na pud ni try, pero wan.a kabalo man gud ang someone how to make you say yes... mao na sige ka og YES

[vizard09]

hahahaa. karelate ko ani dah. . . . but ive set my limits. you may be an option but your the best option man sd. why man ara siya nemu mo duol?why man ikaw sa tanan? pero ayaw lng sad palabi TS. . draw the line. . . Guts rjd na. know your place.

[flanker]

dont waste your time.. just walk away and focus on your career.