Doing two roles is stressful. A mother is deemed as the light of the family while the father is a pillar. Imagine playing both. Many of us are very much aware of what a mother does. Now let’s take a look at what a father is.
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In a family, the father takes on the responsibility of the leader. He leads the family to a better life. As the pillar of the family, he sustains and supports the entire household. He works hard to support his family financially. He gives his family everything they need (and even want) – food, shelter, clothing, toys, books, education, etc. As the mother is responsible for taking care of the children, so should the father. He mostly acts as the disciplinarian and provides guidance to his children. He is also the protector who will protect his family from whatever crisis they endure. They protect his children from harm and secure them with love and support.
Having to take on the role of a father can be difficult. As a woman, I tend to be emotional especially with my son. At two, my son can turn a great morning to a wild night filled with unnerving tantrums and whines. With that comes the disciplinarian in me. My heart gets confused sometimes on being strict and being sensitive all at once. As a pillar, I have to be strong in my decisions. Another thing is that I have to work. I tried to do homebased jobs but unfortunately, it is not enough for my family’s needs. I have to get a regular job. Being away from my son and let someone else take care of him at home can be frustrating. But then as a father, I have to provide him with everything he needs.
Although difficult, I appreciate how it is to be the strength of the family. It gives me a deeper perspective of what a father should be – a person who is strong enough to protect his family and to lead the way for a great future to his family. Having dual roles has made me a better person. I make mistakes on the way but with these come lessons to be learned.
Father’s day is coming and I dedicate this article not only to fathers but most especially to single parents who are working hard for their children’s future. Cheers to us!!!
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tiwtiw is a proud mom to a little boy
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