R U dependent on ur bf/gf?

[wea]

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are you dependent on your boyfriend or girlfriend? In what way are you dependent and do you like it?
how can you prevent yourself from depending on him or her?

cge go... post na ur views or experiences or violent reactions...

[tikboy]

Hmm dependent in what way? in what aspect sa relationship? For me ther are just two (2) aspects in a relationship that you can depend sa imo bf/gf...
1) financially
2) emotionally

On the former Nope am not dependent, dont depend on my gf financially.... like dli lang ko ganahan heheh i have to rely on my own if it comes to financial matters... hehehe also as (man) daw mura amo na jud na sa bills kami jud mo pay.. maoh if la ko money dli na lang ko maglaag laag haha puyo naalng.. Bitaw seriously..It feels good to pay for the one you care for...Ako i can't say i can spoil my Gf with just the income that i have but if naa ko then priority xa.Though sometimes mao pana awayan ninyo sa imo gf/bf.. hehe mag ilog hus gonna spoiled hu....wee nice... heheh they just dont realize that they loved each other that much


on the later... hmm this you can't avoid.. sorry to say that.. not unless you dont love your gf/bf then you safe..Its like wether you like it or not.. you will.. depend on that person you're with.. the person whom you give your love to.. emotionally that is.. coz he/she's the one hu's always there when your down, when you need someone to talk to.. dba? If you need a shoulder to cry on.. basta stuff's like that... .. Thats if your BF/gf's always there....If they are not then thats another story.. heheh....You might not realize that you already are dependent to the guy/gal ur with..But one's their gone for certain there's this emptiness youll feel inside... Then just then you'll realize..


uhmm just my two cents worth i maybe wrong...

[louie007]

emotions-wise, i always thought she was the dependent one.. but when she's not around.. i look for her.. i must be with her.. maybe i'm the dependent one.

[splendid moonlight]

used to.

[wea]

yah.. me too.. i used to be so dependent but it didn't do me any good... u see that's why it's so hard for us to let go coz of this..
any suggestions on how not to be dependent?

[sLeePeR]

kung kasama ko gf ko im so confident emotionally with her, and sometimes dependent emotionally but not financially

[sHe]

Well, in terms of decisions naturally dependent ko kay laki man siya..but it doesnt mean na all the time diba......it also depends on some situations......and i guess there are also some consequences na independent ko kaysa akong bf ...

[mabel888]

yes very as in very very very inde.......grabe jud...

[shrekpower]

i can do to everything, everything that makes our relationship better! im not dependent...kasi wla nko gf rn...

[The Dreamer]

OT: char2x sad ni c shrekpower ai...knsa man d.i 2 imo kyog gabii?