HELP Should I stay or should I go?

[pls_fixme_imbroken]

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well, lets just say mga bati jud akong mga relationships from d past..it always turned out na akoi gi cheatan or maka cheat ko..naa sad tym na nahimo kog kabit..and its really hard to find a guy hu wud really take me seriously coz i dont know y..d man sad ko mu show nila na bigaon ko or anything..more like panan aw nila nko kay m innocent and mao na ilang e take advantage..

so ryt now nangita jud kog guy hu wud take me seriously najud na dili ra para "u know"...and i found dis guy...grabe au iyang respeto nko..d prob is..ako xa gisugot but m not in love wid him..i know its really bad of me na nganu ni sud paman ko sa relationshp na wala koi feelings sa guy but akong githnk na mayb ma develop rako nya sooner or later...so i gave our relationship a chance..ok naman unta mi magholding hands hug2x pero n public ra kiwawan ko kung kami ra duha and i cant stand it f mukiss xa nko...wala pa nuon mi nagkakiss but mao na akong kahadlukan..kay lud.an ko just d thot na magkiss me or any intimate acts...and ka2ng tipsy xa na turn off jud ko nya...

i dont know wat to do.. f ako xa buwagan maluoy man sad ko nya kay la bya jud xay nabuhat lain and he treats me like a princess bya jud..and lain sad panan aw sa iyang friends kay 1 week pami nagka uyab..but f d sad nko buwagan mag cge nlng man gud kog tiis...

ako naman unta xa ingnn karon na d nko pero tymingan sad lang jud nawala iyang wallet(license,atm,cash etc) so guilty au ko f buwagan nko xa doble na iyang problema...help... wat shud i do shud i stay or go

[yokam]

Just like what everybody is saying, follow your heart. You're actually "cheating" yourself with what you're doing, you're in a relationship that you don't even like.

Here's my tip: Tell him straight but in a subtle way about the truth and with what you want.

BTW, how long do you know this guy? If it's not that long, I don't think it's worth the risk. You're just creating a trap for yourself in either way.

[neekul]

i say you tell him the truth. ingon ka maluuy ka nya, mas luuy cya sa iyang situation karon. it's painful to know that your girlfriend doesn't love you but it's much painful to know that she even grosses out to kiss you. tell him now. the sooner, the better for both of you.

i suggest pud that you take your time. don't get into a relationship just for the sake of being in one. you're not only hurting yourself, but another person as well.

[hanamari]

teLL him d truth.
Its not easy pro dats d best way Ü

[shaxyra]

give it a chance and if d na kaya try to tell him in the most subtle way and offer friendship.. perhaps you both still need a little catching up.. getting to know lang gd.. hope it would be a lesson na for you with relationships..
never start one if you're unsure of it... basin in the end.. you'll feel twice as much pain..

[andch81]

ur reasons to stay is not enough.. the more you stay the more na imo ra sya gduwaan.. dont thnk na ur doing the guy a favor if u stay..jsut bec na luoy ka..cmon... think bout it!!... ur fooling urslef and esp ur fooling him... why stay if u cnt be happy...ITS BETTER TO TELL THE TRUTH .. THAN MAKE HIM SMILE WITH A LIE.. rmbr that..u wouldnt want guys to stick w u jst bec naluoy or bec naikog right?? do the right thing.. ur jst hurting him more if u stay...

[grlnxtdor16]

ut not only fooling him but ur also fooling urself into believing the lie. its sad but u have to DEAL WITH IT! asap! kai the more mag dugay the more masakitan xa ug ikaw pd

[pls_fixme_imbroken]

ya sakto jud mo i shud tell him asap... i thot f mu stay ko mayb ma develop rako nya ba...but i guess impossible jud kaau...

so unsaon nko pag ingon niya?? i know it shud b subtle para d xa masakitan...pero how??

do u have any suggestions on how?? like unsaon lang pagstart ug sulti ba..hehe clueless jud au ko ani...

[tintoy]

...darling, you've got to let me know

[andch81]

sis... there is no easy way to break somebodys heart.. hahahaa.. so u better tell him that it will never work coz it will take two to tango... and ur not gona dance w him anymore.. easy as that

--and if ur worries is that u might fall inlove w him in the long run my q wud be.. WHAT IF NOT?? but yeah what if nga u will like him then u will lyk him wthr u will be in a rel w him or not..it wud be betr if u part ways..and by that way alone u wil know if u wil love him or u might jst miss him if u do this...it wil give u an idea if u like the guy ba gyud...