do u think i should continue??

[chris_tata85]

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i like this certain girl.an officemate of my cousin but she seems to be attached with someone but i am willing to fight for her.help me please dont know how i can win her.but i am not sure if she got a bf already.pls help me.i dont want to embarass her by posting this but i am serious.

[diem]

[color=navy]I believe we would need more information about your situation in order to give you informed advices. Hoping that you would care to share what's what between you and your cousin's officemate~

Have you asked her out on a date?

[cj_mysunshine]

make sure first if she is attached or not. If she is not, then i guess make friends with her, get to know her better & eventually ask her for a friendly date ... you can start from there. I dont see anything wrong if you tell the girl how you trully feel towards her ...

[chris_tata85]

thank u bro.my cousin told me that she is having a relationship but seem not in good shape or i really do not know.i try to ask her but she eventually tells me that " not now" so i respect her decision.but i really like the girl.i dont want to miss the chance of having her.i tried to ask her but she is busy right now.we went out with my cousin and she is really really nice.hope she wont be mad at me.

[diem]

[color=navy]Mao ba bro?

Then I suggest that you please consider cj_mysunshine's advice seriously and do it. Take your time. Give her time. Maybe she's going through a tough time right now so please don't add any extra pressure on her.

What you could do if find some way to brighten her day. Make her laugh. Get her to have some fun and relaxation.

[b]But what is more important is that you should respect her wishes and give her the space she needs. Wait and observe and be a good sort of friend, as cj_mysunshine suggests.

[monrose29]

give her space my friend, if you really love her you should understand and respect her decision, and first don’t be so vocal or that kind of attitude to let all the community online know your feelings for her, because you might bring pressure to her or make her feeling not comfortable specially here in the forum,

seeking advice through online where she also active here in this site is not a very good idea your just like putting the situation in to a showbiz type, and u don’t even think that her current bf or the person who is currently attached with here is also active in this site, think of that scenario my friend, if you are serious and sincere with your feelings be patient with her, do it in manner like a gentleman do...

Thanks and good-luck

[chyganda]

long kaayo tong hair sa girl ron! kilig!!!

[akosabni]

if you dont want to loose her, continue to be friends with her

[Velvett]

give her space my friend, if you really love her you should understand and respect her decision, and first don’t be so vocal or that kind of attitude to let all the community online know your feelings for her, because you might bring pressure to her or make her feeling not comfortable specially here in the forum,

seeking advice through online where she also active here in this site is not a very good idea your just like putting the situation in to a showbiz type, and u don’t even think that her current bf or the person who is currently attached with here is also active in this site, think of that scenario my friend, if you are serious and sincere with your feelings be patient with her, do it in manner like a gentleman do...

Thanks and good-luck

i agree with monrose.

[Miss Mae]

make her feel special by being constantly "there" but not being pushy. kana bitaw'ng dili mangulit. casual lang but give her subtle hints like muingon nga, "you look good in that color." (kung ga pink or yellow or green or unsa ba na siya)

corny man ko oi. but that works.