making friends with your boyfriend's ex-lover

[elijahmicah]

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First of all, I am not sure if I am in the right section/forum. I just want to ask your help, suggestion, or opinion generally. Well, I have boyfriend/partner for 2 years. He has a son and is now living with his mother in the neighboring province. Right now, the only communication they have is through calling each other by phone every week. Gusto unta sa akong partner ma borrow ang bata this Christmas so he can spend his time with the people who he grew up with since born. But thinking that this would be hard ky bsn dli musugot ang mama sa bata. I also want to make friends with the EX since past is past and she has a special someone na karn. I am not just sure if this is appropriate ky basn ma misunderstand sa EX if mgmessage ko sa FB or whatsoever. What do you think?

[obelisk]

Why not give a call? And approach and talk in a kind and calm manner.

[bahiista]

First of all, I am not sure if I am in the right section/forum. I just want to ask your help, suggestion, or opinion generally. Well, I have boyfriend/partner for 2 years. He has a son and is now living with his mother in the neighboring province. Right now, the only communication they have is through calling each other by phone every week. Gusto unta sa akong partner ma borrow ang bata this Christmas so he can spend his time with the people who he grew up with since born. But thinking that this would be hard ky bsn dli musugot ang mama sa bata. I also want to make friends with the EX since past is past and she has a special someone na karn. I am not just sure if this is appropriate ky basn ma misunderstand sa EX if mgmessage ko sa FB or whatsoever. What do you think?

nindot na imong plano te, reach out pra ma builb balik ang nindot nga relasyon. ayaw lang gyud pag expect sa imong gi expect nga result. the point is ni reach out ka.

[noy]

why not be civil rather than friends. also, I think your bf should be the one to send her a message kay after all, ilahang anak man pud to

[elijahmicah]

Thanks sa imo idea. They have communication mn sd sa girl but everything is about lng jd sa bata ky mama mn ng gunit sa phone. Siguro nahan lng ko nai mahatag nga support sa iya

[elijahmicah]

Mao lgi, I asked my bf.if pwede ko mg message , sports lng gud pro murag nay something sa girl mn gud nga lisud ika communicate. Naa xay doubts nga bsn dli na nmo iuli ang bata, but sincerely, nahan lng mi mkakita sa bata. Nka bond nko ang bata for a while before sila ni moved sa ila province. Her relationship with my bf's entire family was not really well after they found out something sa iya nga very private au, so cguro either ma olaw xa ana or sa iyang doubts lng jd kahadlok nga dli na mauli ang bata. Mghatagay ra akng partner og ginagmay nga susyento ky interisland pmn

[marius]

First of all, I am not sure if I am in the right section/forum. I just want to ask your help, suggestion, or opinion generally. Well, I have boyfriend/partner for 2 years. He has a son and is now living with his mother in the neighboring province. Right now, the only communication they have is through calling each other by phone every week. Gusto unta sa akong partner ma borrow ang bata this Christmas so he can spend his time with the people who he grew up with since born. But thinking that this would be hard ky bsn dli musugot ang mama sa bata. I also want to make friends with the EX since past is past and she has a special someone na karn. I am not just sure if this is appropriate ky basn ma misunderstand sa EX if mgmessage ko sa FB or whatsoever. What do you think?

noble ang imong intention. but so far base lang sa akong mga nakita tulo ang possible result

one, ang EX is receptive enough na mo grab sa imong pag reach out sa iyaha. all is good. the best possible result

two. ang EX kay mahilasan sa imohang intention and she will get angry at you.

three. si EX kay mag selos sa imoha and dili niya gusto na ipa vacation ilang anak sa imong partner/papa sa bata kay mahadlok na magka close mo.


akong suggestion. sorry for my harsh words i'm always like this, but since you're not dying soon and you don't have a deadline to meet. let this opportunity to meet with the EX ( xmas 2019 ) ... slide. just forget about it. it's better you focus on supporting your partner on how you three will spend christmas, well, granting the EX will allow the child to be with his father. even though the EX already has a partner, always remember or try to look into yourself coz you're also a woman, a woman is always fickle minded. a woman can never be trusted when it comes to emotions ................. maybe one day, by chance you'll be able to meet the EX, but not now.

[THE KID]

kung ang imong partner mo himo og move nga magka ilaila mo sa iyahang ex ... oki ra mo try kag pa civil2 ngadtu niya pero kung walay move ang imong partner.... ayaw nalang dai....

[diablo85]

ok ra na, yaw lang unhi...
paabot imong bf mao molihok...

[jamesperales]

In a way, I appreciate her honesty. And I understand her reaction. I’m a 63-year-old white male married to a beautiful woman from the Philippines more than three decades my junior. We met on an Internet dating site https://filipino-women.net/ aimed at fostering international marriages. My neighbor is expressing openly what others convey with scornful stares. But then, that’s just one of the hazards of living in Orange County with a “mail-order bride.”