How to know if you are just a rebound?

[Mavilou]

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I have a boyfriend. We will be going 10 months this month.
Nagka uyab mi 5 mos after sa break up sa iyang 2 year relationship.

this year lang . april nibalik ang girl from abroad . then from then makadiscover nalang ko nga
magkita sila. i dont know the real story if nagkakita ba or nagkita jd ug tuyo. idont know kay mo ingon mansad siya nga
wala daw.

i have this doubt. everytime ni. i want confirmation pero dili madayon perme kay everytime makig estorya ko
masuko man siya. sige daw kog balik balik.

Naglibog nako.

[RayGunz]

TS, if you put yourself nga nag gukod ka sa lalaki, you are standing on the losing side.
Treat life as a fair square.
Fairness for the guy, fairness for the other girl, and most of all fairness to yourself.

Kung gihimo kang panakip-butas, that guy doesn't deserve you at all.
Because you deserve someone better than him.

[Mavilou]

I am holding on into his words man gd nga love ko niya.
mao man gdnay makalagot kay nibuhi syag promise nga ingon ana.

[gibra'al]

di gyd na nimo mahibaw-an kung rebound ka, unless naa moy common friend ug kahibaw ka sa history sa imong ka date. akong masulti lng is, don't let your guard down easily. go with the flow lng, but don't get emotionally attached.

naa pud to case before nga ingani years back, but i knew his current situation that time ky naa mi common old friend. i just played along despite him saying nga he likes me etc. i can smell the BS seething through his words, so i was like "mmmkay, if you say so". no expectations whatsoever. kasabot ra kos iyang situasyon ky karelate rko. i did enjoy his company that time. no hard feelings ra. and we're still in good terms until karon, tho nihit nlng mi magcontact.

i ended up quitting nga mg meetup sa iya ato eventually ky busy jd kos akong klase, wa lng gyd koy time to waste. what the other party didn't know is i just ended a 1yr+ relationship around that time as well. lol. nahug ra gyd nga tabla ra mi.

[Mavilou]

that's the hardest . we don't have common friends .dili sad ko suodsa iyang mga friends.
i knew his friends and family kau gi introduce ko nako niya pero dili mi close

[diablo85]

TS, y man masuko kung confrontation something fishy...
nindot ang tambag ni @RayGunz....

[P-Chan]

simple ra nah TS if hot and cold siya usually signs nah of rebound

[janwounded]

simple ra nah TS if hot and cold siya usually signs nah of rebound

Ni tingog nang pinaka kusgan... Bwahahahaha

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naa juy AGAY... huwaaaahhhhh

[luff101]

Don't think too much of anything. Chill2x lng sa ta. Cheers!

[munchy88]

You will feel it, your instinct will tell you too. But don't rely too much on our instinct kay most of the time instincts sa girls are not always right..

Just let it go.. let it go..