What it feels like to be a second choice?

[frequency000]

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I had a girlfriend. I dunno if ako ang naay problema or siya. She never invited me mag laag2 gyud. Ako gyud most of the time ang mang invite. She always prefer mag laag kuyog iyang friends kay sa sa ako. I mean, Dili gyud siya mananghid or atleast e-invite ko niya kuyog sa iyang friends ba. Pero Wala raman na sa ako kay naa man pud siya iyang life. Di man pud siya mo decline sa akong mga invite so dre ko nag libug dapit if priority bako niya or second choice ra.

She never make plans to go out with me. Ako lang sige himo. It feels like she dont need me. I need to be needed bya pud.

And another thing is dili kaayo siya expressive. If mag serious talk mi kay e-liko niya ang storya or himoon joke.
I ask her if she love me and she always said yes. She never initiate to talk to me and say I love you.
Murag one sided ang relationship.

What should I do?

[Su-Hae]

Feel nako d ka nya love. It's easy to say that 3 words. Action speaks louder than words.

[gibra'al]

welcome back, @Su-Hae !

hala oi, 2010 ko last kita nimo pa. hahaha. naa japon ka davao?

[jntio]

post daw piktyur nimo ts

[rapchuy]

Pila edad nimo TS ug sa imong GF? Feel nko wa na nka like ang girl nimo or d kaau siya serious sa inyo relationship. Suwayi kuno ayaw ug communicate niya for atleast 1 week. If d siya mangita or mo communicate nimo ug una aw alams na..

[jerkric]

Rather than reading the situation, why not tell her TS? Total, uyab bitaw mo.

[slabdans]

ok tams ap ko ts

[beyee]

You guys should talk it out.
Everything you've mentioned here.
Not just "Do you love me?"

If she's unresponsive, give her time
to tell you what's on her mind.

Sometimes people shut others in times
of confrontation because they don't know
what to answer to the question or worst
they don't catch your drift. So if you're
going to ask her bai, keep it simple.

[pussylover]

been there. she has a live in partner. that's a full of shit. hahahaha

[raissah]

If she treats you like an option, leave her like a choice.