I'm badly HURT. Bipolar or what???

[riansuzini]

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[slabs7]

Lisoda ihatag sa among opinion ani imo setwasyon ui, labi na bag-o pa kaayo mo kasal, murag wala pa mo naka adjust to married life, ang labing makasabot ninyo ani ang inyo rajud masig ja ginikanan kay sila ang mas labaw nga nakaila ninyo sa matag usa

[lifebook11]

Seeing the pic, Holy cow bells! I do not know what to say.. Maybe I feel sad for you, specially that you just got married this year.

Either he used you as a stepping stone for his ambition, or he is just trying to show that he is a man that can support you and your family. I am no financial expert but business and relationship should totally be separated. He is using your relationship as a leverage to get what he wants, which is unfair on your end. I cannot say to fight or end this relationship, but maybe try to make a cup of awesome coffee, then talk about this issue. Be honest with each other, as him if he really loves you or not. If not, mao na ni panahon mag alsa balota namo.

But what do I know, I'm a sucker for girls with enticing looks and assets. lol

Whatever happens, iinom rana... then look on the bright side, there is always someone better out there. Maminyo pa man gai nang mga 60's ug 70's ikaw pa nga presko pa ang paninda.

[riansuzini]

Lisoda ihatag sa among opinion ani imo setwasyon ui, labi na bag-o pa kaayo mo kasal, murag wala pa mo naka adjust to married life, ang labing makasabot ninyo ani ang inyo rajud masig ja ginikanan kay sila ang mas labaw nga nakaila ninyo sa matag usa

I know brad. I actually ga libog gani ko kay gi shut down man ko sa ilang parents. The last thing I heard from his Dad was same daw ug sakit akong husband ug iyang kuya. Nakuyawan ko kay wala ko nila gi aware before mi na kasal. Unta kabalo ko mo adjust ba.
I am not sure sad kung bipolar ba sya unya naay bisyo or bipolar lang jud sya.

[slabs7]

I know brad. I actually ga libog gani ko kay gi shut down man ko sa ilang parents. The last thing I heard from his Dad was same daw ug sakit akong husband ug iyang kuya. Nakuyawan ko kay wala ko nila gi aware before mi na kasal. Unta kabalo ko mo adjust ba.
I am not sure sad kung bipolar ba sya unya naay bisyo or bipolar lang jud sya.

Unsa may advice sa imong parents?

Anyways sakto pud ka...dapat gi aware kas iyaha parents pud

[riansuzini]

Seeing the pic, Holy cow bells! I do not know what to say.. Maybe I feel sad for you, specially that you just got married this year.

Either he used you as a stepping stone for his ambition, or he is just trying to show that he is a man that can support you and your family. I am no financial expert but business and relationship should totally be separated. He is using your relationship as a leverage to get what he wants, which is unfair on your end. I cannot say to fight or end this relationship, but maybe try to make a cup of awesome coffee, then talk about this issue. Be honest with each other, as him if he really loves you or not. If not, mao na ni panahon mag alsa balota namo.

But what do I know, I'm a sucker for girls with enticing looks and assets. lol

Whatever happens, iinom rana... then look on the bright side, there is always someone better out there. Maminyo pa man gai nang mga 60's ug 70's ikaw pa nga presko pa ang paninda.

Thanks brad @lifebook11, pero dili ingon ana ka sayon sya e talk karon. It seems he is really out of his mind. Actually nag talk mi last week (Tuesday) then I thought OK nato.

All of a sudden, nag wild na sad sya sa ilang balay kay dili daw e hatag sa iyang Mama ang iyang pin ug class ring (Nurse, USRN, PRN ni sya BTW). He said it is worth 40K daw and iyaha daw tong property. Magamit unta daw to nya for business. So after ato, ni tawag sya nako and didto na among last convo with a fight again kay it seems iya jud ko pugson nga mo loan sa akong Pag-Ibig.

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Unsa may advice sa imong parents?

Anyways sakto pud ka...dapat gi aware kas iyaha parents pud

His Mom replied this after a couple fo weeks:
"OK, Mag talk lang unya ta. Pero not now. Just wait for the right time"
His Dad never replied to me after atong gisapot sya sa case sa akong husband.

[slabs7]

Murag nag duda naman noon ko anang behavior sa imong bana. Unsa nga business man daw ang ma put up sa 40k? Shabu? Mag imagine ko niya mura man ug akong maguwang, tanan support gihatag na namo. Ang ending way nahimo kay puros ra plano nahurot nalang ang kwarta

[lifebook11]

Thanks brad @lifebook11, pero dili ingon ana ka sayon sya e talk karon. It seems he is really out of his mind. Actually nag talk mi last week (Tuesday) then I thought OK nato.

All of a sudden, nag wild na sad sya sa ilang balay kay dili daw e hatag sa iyang Mama ang iyang pin ug class ring (Nurse, USRN, PRN ni sya BTW). He said it is worth 40K daw and iyaha daw tong property. Magamit unta daw to nya for business. So after ato, ni tawag sya nako and didto na among last convo with a fight again kay it seems iya jud ko pugson nga mo loan sa akong Pag-Ibig.

Tagay ta ni dayon if naa mo dre. hehe Naa cguroy lain underlying cause ngano nag ingana cya. I hope maka istorya nimo iyang mama or cya mismo. If bipolar jud, aw mada rana ug meds.

[ingkiang]

adjustment stage pa mo, take ur time lang gud...
let it cool down first then, you two talk...lahi ra jud ang manag-uyab ug kasal na...

[slabs7]

Kung ako ana pasundan nako ng activity sa imong bana.basin naa kay ma diskobre...same sa ako gibuhat sa ayko maguwang, gipang contact nako ako mga kaila ug paryente sa amo ug unsa gyud iya bisyo...ayun kaluoy sa ginoo mao way nahimo kay kubg naay kwarta adto ra bilyaran mag puyo

Istoryan man jud to imo husband. Pasudla to ngari bi basin naa mi mabuhat nga maka pausab sa iya huna2x. Syaro nagpatabang paman gani to siya diri just for you unya karon sa ana kasayon mausab siya