How to deal with an extrovert girlfriend, being an introvert male?

[LadYKilleR8520]

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I'm an introvert, I don't go out and I don't like to party. I like to keep to myself. If society is to be followed I shouldn't have a GF, but I do. Since the start of our relationship, wala pah gyud mi kasulay mag night out coz I feel stressed if m.adto kog mga bars or party places. But every once in a while m.go out cya sa iyang friends. but lately, shes been wanting me to go out with her.. I don't really know what to do.. any advice mahatag sa mga istoryans?

[santario101]

brod kung di ka ganahan magbuwag mo sa imo uyab, laag pud panagsa.

Going out with her doesn't mean you have to drink tons of alcohol kung mao na imo prob. Pwede ranang magbitbit lang kag usa ka bottle ok na na.

May pud nang maka experience ka anang party party, live a little bah !

[LadYKilleR8520]

LOL, wa ka idea unxa ang pagka.introvert noh? ahahah.. Introverts dont do well in crowds and noisy places..

[silent-kill]

get out of your comfort zone boss, introvert pud ko... so kasabot ko ana imong feelings (high stress jud).. sacrifice pud ginagmay..
ma wala rana imong stress, og ma anad naka..

[luff101]

TS, I have an introvert friend. Medyo maka relate pud ko gamay.. Dili jud to siya nahan ug daghang taw. Malipong to siya ug makakita huge wave of people.. hehehe..


Mostly akoy mag adjust para niya... Once mang lakaw or mang laag mi... siya akong una pa storyaon and dili jud nako siya biyaan nga mag inusara..

Try ug go out niya TS. Maanad ra niya ka ana..

[silahis]

gawas, ts. introvert pd ko, but i don't feel stressed sa type of crowd nga puro strangers lng. lingaw cya, bcause they dnt knw about me personally... so i feel secured. as long as ang attention wala sa ako tnan, i'll be fine. ksuway nko ug apil ug event nga langas/bibo ang crowd. nag.enjoy rman pd ko mskan wa koy kaila ddto.

pero if ang crowd ky pulos mga nakaila nko, ay nlng pag.expect nga naa ko anang lugara.

onT:
i think dpat pud ka mu adjust, nd dili lng imo gf pirmi. if she's aware nga introvrt ka, then prolly she knws what to do to keep you comfortabl.

[my_hEaD_isBIG]

I'm an introvert, I don't go out and I don't like to party. I like to keep to myself. If society is to be followed I shouldn't have a GF, but I do. Since the start of our relationship, wala pah gyud mi kasulay mag night out coz I feel stressed if m.adto kog mga bars or party places. But every once in a while m.go out cya sa iyang friends. but lately, shes been wanting me to go out with her.. I don't really know what to do.. any advice mahatag sa mga istoryans?

Gawas pud uban sa imong uyab bai, daghan raba maaung laki sa mga bars and party places. Okay rana ug dle ka mu participate, tan.aw2 lang sa mga tao, hapit lang pud imong mga mata sa mga party girls. Maanad ra lage ka ana. Ang importante nakigkuyog kas imong uyab kay mapul.an gane na ug hagad nimo nya balibad japon ka, lain ang hagdon ana.

[femchien]

I'm an introvert also .. my husband is an extrovert .. katong wala pami naminyo , mouban jud ko niya bahalag di ko kahibaw makig socialize sa mga taw .. sa disco bar , sa mga practice ug sa mga gig niya ..first time nko nakasulod ug discohan , gi migraine jud ko ug maglisod kog ginhawa .. nalipong ko .. kay nakauyab man kog extrovert , dapat sabayan lang sad nko sya kay mas malipay man siya basta naa ko permi..

[Wynna]

Super to the highest level akong pagka extro while ako partnr kay intro... Mao na amo awayan pud panagsa kay mag cgeg in O A... Murag tiguwang maot! Hahahahaha

[LadYKilleR8520]

I don't get it really, why go somewhere crowded where conversations turn to shouting and moving becomes a challenge.. I'll set a schedule para mag.night out, maybe it's not that bad, I just hope d q kakitag sinumbagay ingkaso tripan aqng uyab. any introverts here know how to handle the stress?