How do you handle Negative and sarcastic people?

[rosygemini]

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Hi istoryans! I dont know where to post my thread but since the story i will share to you is also about me, a person who wants nothing but to correct my mismanagement to my money and whatever experience that I should face to know more in the business industry.

Istoryans been posting my stories pod since the day I joined this forum. I met an old friend yesterday. She was with his future husband whom I know pod. Her fiance is a friend of my ex. So I can say that we really quite no each other but not anymore since my ex and I broke up 3 years ago.
I was with my friend pod. Niduol ko nila just to say hi but since they offer the chair nilinkod nlng pod ko ky naa mi s usa kafastfood bale ng 1 table nlng mi.

Si old girl-friend ky nistart na intriga nako bout my life, work and love life. nistorya ra pod ko paspas nga I dont have work na (I was a medrep before) since my mom doesnt liked it man pod but im doing business and sideline I dont have plans to go back to work yet since my priority now is to pass the pharmacy licensure exam.

I was a bit surprised when she directly throw me some sarcastic joke.
"Alangan di jud ka mapasar ky sige ra man pod kag inarte"
katawa lang ko ky for me twas just a joke. Then iya napod ko gipangutana. Curious ko sa imo business unsa klase. ako ra pod sya gitubag nga "Monkey business"
but she was a bit too pushy nga to tell her my business.
I just told her nga "I invested some of my money sa Pilmico since my parents is also a distributor sa samar then ginagmay nga business from manila to samar" ..
Tando ra sya.

The second attempt was when she had this very negative comment about people who's doing business at a very young age rather than working.
her: "Kahibalo ka para jud nako mas nindot jud na magwork ka compare anang maglingkod ra ka igo raka magdawat sa imong ginikanan. Para nako if someone is working in a big company that person is doing good and living in a very productive way. Dili wasted ang life sa taw in that way"
...(I was about to blow up when her bf mura nakafeel nga mura taklisa na sya)
bf: Ly, lahi lahi man mo pananaw sa kinabuhi. What if iyaha ky sa business sya mosuccess.
me: btaw Ly, not to mention the 3 banks nga naopen nako although tanan sila beyond maintaining balance lang. dili that dako but im happy.

3rd attempt.
her: U know what amiga man jud ta nuh! but I think mas di ta sayang imong life kung nagdayon mo sa imong x. Awa mi ron magpakasal najud mi.

After the third attempt. Thats it naka ana ko. I have to speak up na.
Me: Mao ba. Anyways Ly, where do u work gani?
Her: sa tacloban sa hotel.
Me: ahh.. unsa imo work didto?
Her: Front desk staff.
Me: Mao ba. Di ba lisod mo work didto? u know gamay sweldo unya ang kaprecho not to mention the branded clothes u really dying to save just to buy those kind of luxuries..

I was really pissed off yesterday. Maybe guys u might wonder nganu wa ko kaayo nidefend og maayo sa ako life considering the fact that she was actually looking at me as if I was just something so little compare to what she has. Im libog pod. I hate myself everytime di ko kaayo katingog sa mga ingon aning klase nga mga taw. Cos I was trying to figure out if I was really talking to an old friend which surprised me a lot like in my hilarious way nga I cant believe theres such person who could be such an asshole and such a bitch right infront of me, with my friend who they dont know and with her bf.

But in all fairness to me. If theres one thing I could be proud of myself is, I started doing ginagmay business when I was 6 or 7 yrs old and whatever I have learned I always try to apply it in my real life.
Like PATIENCE. be patient even at the edge of ur anger.
LISTEN AND OBSERVE. cos they might say something that could help you, it also lessen the mistakes and bad decision you could do.
FORGIVE forgive even not because you pity them but you care for yourself enough not to waste your time thinking about them.
MOVEON. theres a lot more in life than dwell on things you cant change anymore.

[chedzcorpse]

Love na tika TS..mwah! good job...hopw mag ila ta...hehheehe

[luff101]

She just made your day complete TS. hahaha. Fake smile and sabay pangutana "why are you in my shoes nga nakasulti man ka anang butanga? mao ta na imo gitubag ts... hehehe

Pasagdii to oi. She just know your name but not your story! Move on!

OT: dba ikaw man to ni suggest nako ug mga inspirational books like "The power of now"?

[cirext]

If ako sad naa sa sitwasyon nimo TS, I would likely be shocked considering she was your friend. A mix of anger caused by humiliation blocks your nerve to answer her right.

Your friend is still trapped in the wrong mindset. As schools and elders taught us to be good in school and one day WORK in great companies. We are brainwashed to be WORKERS. Entrepreneurs are not workers. We are MASTERS.

You can tell her this, "Friend, I could understand your comments because we belong in different worlds. But maybe you can understand our difference, when one day you will apply for work on a great company..and you will be surprised to know its mine. Or to let you understand more simply, we are of the same level as the owner of the hotel you are working on. We are both entrepreneurs." How's that?

The Worker's Mindset takes pride in company affiliation, in ranks, in reputation, in a world only their fellow workers would applause. In the Master's Mindset, we take humiliation, we do not care for ranks, we create our own name and we take pride in all our hardships. And we fail, and we rise, and fail and rise just like the AC Current. But our lives are never boring and dull.

[medwarc]

@TS, just accept the fact nga naa jud mga ingon ana nga tawo. Move on na lang jud.

And how I looked at it, mas edukada pa ka kesa niya mao wa ka ka/ni tubag.

[Terminatorn]

Sayop nang Mindset sa imung amiga TS. Agree ko ni bro @cirext
Mas higher ta'g mga Mindset kitang mga Entrepreneur.

[zyden112]

TS: murag para imu dyud ni nga quote,


WEAK people REVENGE
STRONG people FORGIVE

but

INTELLIGENT people IGNORE

[firestarter]

Kanang mindset sa imong friend, mao nang mga mindset sa tawo nga walay asenso.

[orchrd]

Ignore! Hahahaha!

[firestarter]

Hi istoryans! I dont know where to post my thread but since the story i will share to you is also about me, a person who wants nothing but to correct my mismanagement to my money and whatever experience that I should face to know more in the business industry.

Istoryans been posting my stories pod since the day I joined this forum. I met an old friend yesterday. She was with his future husband whom I know pod. Her fiance is a friend of my ex. So I can say that we really quite no each other but not anymore since my ex and I broke up 3 years ago.
I was with my friend pod. Niduol ko nila just to say hi but since they offer the chair nilinkod nlng pod ko ky naa mi s usa kafastfood bale ng 1 table nlng mi.

Si old girl-friend ky nistart na intriga nako bout my life, work and love life. nistorya ra pod ko paspas nga I dont have work na (I was a medrep before) since my mom doesnt liked it man pod but im doing business and sideline I dont have plans to go back to work yet since my priority now is to pass the pharmacy licensure exam.

I was a bit surprised when she directly throw me some sarcastic joke.
"Alangan di jud ka mapasar ky sige ra man pod kag inarte"
katawa lang ko ky for me twas just a joke. Then iya napod ko gipangutana. Curious ko sa imo business unsa klase. ako ra pod sya gitubag nga "Monkey business"
but she was a bit too pushy nga to tell her my business.
I just told her nga "I invested some of my money sa Pilmico since my parents is also a distributor sa samar then ginagmay nga business from manila to samar" ..
Tando ra sya.

The second attempt was when she had this very negative comment about people who's doing business at a very young age rather than working.
her: "Kahibalo ka para jud nako mas nindot jud na magwork ka compare anang maglingkod ra ka igo raka magdawat sa imong ginikanan. Para nako if someone is working in a big company that person is doing good and living in a very productive way. Dili wasted ang life sa taw in that way"
...(I was about to blow up when her bf mura nakafeel nga mura taklisa na sya)
bf: Ly, lahi lahi man mo pananaw sa kinabuhi. What if iyaha ky sa business sya mosuccess.
me: btaw Ly, not to mention the 3 banks nga naopen nako although tanan sila beyond maintaining balance lang. dili that dako but im happy.

3rd attempt.
her: U know what amiga man jud ta nuh! but I think mas di ta sayang imong life kung nagdayon mo sa imong x. Awa mi ron magpakasal najud mi.

After the third attempt. Thats it naka ana ko. I have to speak up na.
Me: Mao ba. Anyways Ly, where do u work gani?
Her: sa tacloban sa hotel.
Me: ahh.. unsa imo work didto?
Her: Front desk staff.
Me: Mao ba. Di ba lisod mo work didto? u know gamay sweldo unya ang kaprecho not to mention the branded clothes u really dying to save just to buy those kind of luxuries..

I was really pissed off yesterday. Maybe guys u might wonder nganu wa ko kaayo nidefend og maayo sa ako life considering the fact that she was actually looking at me as if I was just something so little compare to what she has. Im libog pod. I hate myself everytime di ko kaayo katingog sa mga ingon aning klase nga mga taw. Cos I was trying to figure out if I was really talking to an old friend which surprised me a lot like in my hilarious way nga I cant believe theres such person who could be such an asshole and such a bitch right infront of me, with my friend who they dont know and with her bf.

But in all fairness to me. If theres one thing I could be proud of myself is, I started doing ginagmay business when I was 6 or 7 yrs old and whatever I have learned I always try to apply it in my real life.
Like PATIENCE. be patient even at the edge of ur anger.
LISTEN AND OBSERVE. cos they might say something that could help you, it also lessen the mistakes and bad decision you could do.
FORGIVE forgive even not because you pity them but you care for yourself enough not to waste your time thinking about them.
MOVEON. theres a lot more in life than dwell on things you cant change anymore.

Kanang mga ingon ana nga klase sa tawo klaro kaayo wala nay alamag sa business and the challenges and the thrills of doing one.
Obvious kaayo the way siya mangistorya .. lol
makatawa ra ta ani..

Sakto gyud nang ilang gi quote nga "Genius Ignore".. lol