Ikaw?will u stil accept her?

[kalansay]

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Hi guys,this is my first time sharing or even posting something online so forgive me if there are some errors or what not so anyways

It's bin a year that we've bin together with my gf and something about what she told me surely changed my life forever....no wonder before when we were just starting she kips on telling me that i shouldnt go too far like invest too much of my feelings on her, in lay man's term "dli palabi og padala sa tama" coz if i will know her secret and her past kay i will just be disappointed and be crushed.....

Truth be told we can't control or dictate our emotions...even her can atest to that...day by day we found ourselves longing for each other in short we found ourselves falling in love...at that time she kips on reminding me about her secret and i beg for her to tell me coz for me if u truly love that person u hav to accept her for what she was,for what she is and for what she will be....i told her that but still.....

not until last wik when she went home at her hometown ( leyte) for christmas it was when she decided to tell me thru txt and indeed it rily was crushing for me.....she already had 3 kids from her first bf since she was 20yrs old...reading that txt i was like shocked,crushed.....and thats when she told me that we couldnt be together because of that...and that she was thankful that somehow i made her feel special and that she experienced what tru lov is all about...even for that short period of time....

I was hurting reading her txt,i kept on calling her phone but she wouldnt answer...i beg for her to answer but she wouldnt....after knowing her secret after feeling crushed and dissapointed,i came to realiz that still i could not go on without her....so i went to her hometown and told her how i truly feel and even i didnt thought that id be able to say this and to do this to her....i told her that i love her no matter what,no matter what she did on her past.....i accpeted her for what she has now and i hugged her and told her thta i will never leave her...she cried and cried....

i for one never thought that i'd be able to accept her for what she had but then again i think this is what it means like to truly fall for that one person, at least for me......


kamu?could u say that im in love?or just plain stupid?

[kenniku_you]

Both.. You just love her, and that makes you stupid..

I'm not telling you bro nga ay nag padaun, naa rana nmo.. Sakto man ka, kay imo man gdawat tanan naa niya..

[vahnhelsing]

maayong gutom nga udto sa tigpasiugda ning kutay..
way paksiw diha?

sa dili ko pa sugdan ang paghatag sa akong panahom palihug togtog sa kantang
nag ulohan love will conquer conquer all by lionel richie.

Bugtong ikaw lamang ang makahibalo kun tukma o angay mo bang dawaton ang
maong kamatooran. Bugtong ikaw lamang ang nasayod kun ang gugmang imong gibati
andam modawat sa sudya sa imong palibot puhon. Ang tiunay nga gugma maunongon,
dili maantigo molantaw sa mga butang nga bati lamang. Apan sayod kita nga, kining
atong palibot mapintason ug masudyaon sa mga kahimtang nga susama niana.
Dili tiaw nga sa kalit nahibaw-an mong may kabilinggan na diay siya sa kinabuhi. Tulo
ka mga anghel, mugna sa kanhi niyang gugmang mahimong buta o nagpakabuta.

Tugkara ug maayo imong kaugalingon ug ang tanan, ang hinungdan usab nga ang imong
hinigugma nagpahilayo sa amahan sa iyahang mga anak. Makiangayon kini aron makabaton
ikaw ug igong panghuna-huna kabahin sa iyahang tiunayng kinaiya ug panglantaw sa kinabuhi.

[kalansay]

maayong gutom nga udto sa tigpasiugda ning kutay..
way paksiw diha?

sa dili ko pa sugdan ang paghatag sa akong panahom palihug togtog sa kantang
nag ulohan love will conquer conquer all by lionel richie.

Bugtong ikaw lamang ang makahibalo kun tukma o angay mo bang dawaton ang
maong kamatooran. Bugtong ikaw lamang ang nasayod kun ang gugmang imong gibati
andam modawat sa sudya sa imong palibot puhon. Ang tiunay nga gugma maunongon,
dili maantigo molantaw sa mga butang nga bati lamang. Apan sayod kita nga, kining
atong palibot mapintason ug masudyaon sa mga kahimtang nga susama niana.
Dili tiaw nga sa kalit nahibaw-an mong may kabilinggan na diay siya sa kinabuhi. Tulo
ka mga anghel, mugna sa kanhi niyang gugmang mahimong buta o nagpakabuta.

Tugkara ug maayo imong kaugalingon ug ang tanan, ang hinungdan usab nga ang imong
hinigugma nagpahilayo sa amahan sa iyahang mga anak. Makiangayon kini aron makabaton
ikaw ug igong panghuna-huna kabahin sa iyahang tiunayng kinaiya ug panglantaw sa kinabuhi.

Maaung udto usab kanimo higala nga ngbasa ni ining akong gamayng pasundayag, sa dli pa nko sugdan ang tanan dawata kining akong pasalamat sa imong mabulahanong na ambit nga tambag og nang hinaot nga ikaw dra nabusog sa udtong ng dilaab nga init...

Tuod man iyaha nang gi sugyot sa ako ang iyahang mi agi nga higugma nga puno sa kalbaryo og ka antos kay tunogd ang maong amahan sa 3 ka anghrl kay usa ka adis2x og laking babaero...dugay nyang gi buhian ang maong tawhana tungod og alang sa tulo ka mga anghel...sa unahan pa nga wala pa nya gisugyot ang maong sekreto dugay ko nang gi pangutana sa iyaha og nganung ni padayon siya og 6 ka tuig atong hinampak nga tawhana og krn ko lang nasayran nga gumikan diay sa iyang maong 3 ka mga anghel...samot ako nga nasuko og nglagot niadtong hinampak nga taw apan wala na akoy mahimo ky nahuman na ang tanan...

[jeff_bonz59]

@TS kaw ray makatubag if your going to accept her or not...

though she has 3 kids.. well, if love jud nimo cya.. dawaton nimo tanan ug tibook jud nyang pagkatao... that includes her 3 kids already...though as a guy.. I know your male ego is hurt... and this might hunt you back sooner or later and muabot nya ang time mangwenta ka sa imong mga gbuhat nya...


If you think you ready for the big responsibility in shouldering her and her kids... then GO FOT IT!


But if your still uneasy about being a DAD and a FATHER all too soon..... then DON'T FORCE YOURSELF TO HER WORLD... not just yet...

[THE KID]

mao ra jud ni akong masulti

[hdayono]

naa na nimo bro... kung unsay mka palipay nimo, adto ngadto... pero huna2 a sag tarung ang mga consequences...
sa akong side pud, lisod na ky ma tandog imong pride, tandog man ganeng ex nako nya nkakita daun ug uyab nya makigbalik napud,WTF...

For me na igu jud ka atung bayhana... pero if I will put myself in ur place... mangita kog lain ue bahalag igu kay ko anang bayhana, naay daghang babae(mao pud na akong opinion). Kasabot man pud ko nimo, I think imong kalibutan nagtuyok ra niya... try to divert to something or someone else...

[jyanmperez]

You accepted her for what and who she was. But the big question this time is the responsibility that comes together when you will be with her. If you have no plan of settling down with her then that will be okay. But, if your thinking of having her as you lifetime partner there are a lot of things you need to consider.

First, are her kids ready for you to become their father? Second, are you emotionally, financially ready for that responsibility? Third, they have three kids men that means the root of their relationship is quite deep.

Now what would you do if the guy would suddenly appear and he would claim that he is now ready to be a father to her kids and a husband to her?

What would you do then? Remember her kids is not just one, but three. I'm not scaring you brother, but if that love of yours is willing to accept her and if your ready to face the responsibility and consequence that comes along with it then MAY THE FORCE BE WITH YOU.....

[chill_angel25]

dili kaayo tantong sakit ang imung nahibaw.an sa imung uyab, ang pina ka sakit jug kung ang imung nahibaw.an kay ang imung uyab bayot!!.. kana.. hilak jud ug popcorn!!!..

ahhahahaha.. just kidding

anyways, naa rana nimu bro!.. kung asa ka mas comfortable ug tan.aw nimu asa ang mas maayo.

peru e analize sa, kay basin mag mahay ra unya ka.

para naku move on na jud. later on kung imu ng gukoron ng bayhana, permi lang jud mo lalis bcuz of her past. <-- only my opinion

[naglibog.nako]

I don't know TS but i think you took the bait, she could have told you from day 1 but she didn't she wanted to feel special for a brief moment... which i think it's kind-of selfish.

there are lots of possible complications here TS, like:
- Her previous BF what is their status?
- Her family, how would they perceive this relationship?

What you have right now for each other is strong attraction, and thats about it.