Pag-ibig na kaya? LOL... please help

[cat_inthehat]

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Guys please don't be rude just give advice. This is how it started:

'Me' just survived a break-up. Its been almost a month. I was devastated and broken. I have a friend, let's just call her 'Ann' and I confided to her about my failed relationship. She shared my pain and even cried with me. She also told me (months before and I was still in a relationship that time) about her friend who also suffered a lot of pain because of a romance that went wrong. She told me how this friend of her and lets call her 'Jane' cried and endured the tormenting pain of broken love.

To make the story short, Ann introduced me to Jane. She also told me to text her for her not to over think of her ex-boyfriend. So I was told to be some sort of diversion. I was hesitant at first, because I was not comfortable giving my number to just anyone else, but as an act of courtesy to my friend I agreed. I exchanged few text messages with Jane that day and we started talking about ourselves. She was fun to talk with but I still missed my ex-gf that time and texting with her did not help.

We continued to text each other for two weeks. We texted a lot everyday especially if we were not too busy from work. During weekend we text each other from morning till we fell asleep (seems like we went back to being 16-year olds haha!). I started to like Jane because of her outgoing personality and confidence plus her witty punchlines. Not to mention she was a total knock-out fashionista but always kept her feet on the ground. She made me smile and she was the one I think of, each morning when I woke up. I kept checking my phone for her message.

I don't know if I truly like her or I am just craving for closeness because I am very sad and lonely because of the break-up. Another problem is I don't know if she really likes me. I think she was just trying to be friendly and nice. She has a lot of guy friends and I think I'm not that special to her, though she tells me that I was the only guy she was texting with. Right now I stop contacting her because I am not ready for another disappointment. I still receive some texts from her (general messages), in fact I recently get one GM, from her number.

[kenniku_you]

Give it more time, but don't expect something though.. Go with the flow and just be patient..

[cat_inthehat]

Give it more time, but don't expect something though.. Go with the flow and just be patient..

Salamat bay.

[kageron]

move on sa oi before ka mag uyab2x og lain pero ayg gamit og bae para maka move on ka

[ayki]

Just continue the friendship but don't rush things. If you realize one day that you can't live without this person in your life, then that's when you decide to move on to the next level (that is, if she feels the same). Let your heart recover first so that if you fall in love again and get rejected, d ka maka think ug hikog to deal with the pain. hehehehe. Good luck TS.

[arcadian]

just go with the flow ayaw lng sd pg put ug pressure and ayaw e.rush and tanan.. just enjoy what you have right now.. maow n ako kaagi b4.. naa ko frend nga broken pd same nako dn we hang-out together share2 sa mga experience in life.. no expectations lng s jd bro.. for almost 6mos namu cge ug kuyog maow p mi nakadecide nga kmi nah ready nami.. krun 1yr kapin nami and counting..

[bellah]

mao jd ts go w the flow nlang,basin nahan pd xa nemo...text2x pana human ana meet2x na dayun

[m_a_r_k_u_z]

ayaw nalang panguyab TS, para way problema...

[kokoytoyi]

Text lang mo TS. Now may not be the right time but maintain lang inyong contact with each other. Let the feeling bloom.

Eventually a new kind of love will flow through you. Dont think about disappointment, love is a business worth investing. You cant love truly without risking.

"Love is giving her the power to destroy you, but trusting her that she wont"

[THE KID]

bakit di nalang tutuhanin ang lahat.....