Should i give up? she's really the one...

[darkpilas666]

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Mga bros og sis, tambagi ko?D naman nuon siya ganahan nako? i've said somethings but not like "gibalikasan" nako siya or unsa ba... but things like... "buwag" nata (pero kbaw siya wa ni know buang sad ko) i've been stupid jud saon sad gud ni akong hinampak nga pride... ga mahay.com 101% ko...all happened through text...

and to think d jd ko makiglalis or shagit unsa pana dha niya in person. kato rajud nga time kay napuno kos problema sa balay namo nga napuno sa utang gibilin sa ako mom... ako naman lang nabilin diri cebu and its rough not having your family jud... on and off ang depression nako...


gamay ra kaau rason nganu naabot mi ani... then murag napuno kuno siya... kay siya ang type nga girl nga ganhan jud ma ok mi... then karon ambot nausab siya tungod lang jud aning usa ka "rough" road namo sa among pag kuyog padulong nami mag 2 years karon Oct. 1, 2013 but gbuwagan ko niya kay napuno lagi siya pag Sept. 20, niad2 jd ko ana sa ila... laban iya parents nako pero i know it doesn't help... kay after ato niad2 kos ila dayun...


d naman jd siya... wala na kuno ang love... wa na daw siya time nako.... kay trabaho daw kay inig abot kapoy na daw kaau lawas diritso tog... and mao to ni hatag kog time niya and niana pud siya "Friends lang sa ta"... sige jud ko huna2 if fluke rana or typo mao wa lang sad ko kompyansa mura sd kog buang cge huna2... a week after...


Paramdam ko... mao rajd ghapon... went to her house wla pa siya nangayo kog advice sa iya mom... og nananghid ko para mag surprise inig oct 1... pero wa ko kaagwanta... ni huwta ko niya until maabot siya sa ila from work para magtalk napd... dli jud siya mutan.aw sa and i ask her about atong "Friends lang sa ta" ... ingon man nuon siya wala na... hayss... siya na biya unta mga bros og sis... kay siya rajud babae ni care nako ug maayo... exceed jd akong expectations niya... she was always there to support me in everything i do jud... pareha jd mig mga interest...from video games to anime and movies og kaon... she still cares for me daw... pero dha daw kutob? hays....

if i give up and just be "plain" friends...will there be still a chance sa future? like 1 year after? is love sweeter the 2nd time around? OR if i don't give up,... d ba siya makakuha og space nga makaginhawa? samokan na nuon siya sa? or she won't miss me?

salamat sa mga tarung nga reply... hinaot tarung jud thanks mga bro and sis... amping mo kanunay

fyi amo relationship kay ayahay kaau freedom...d jd tuok nga relationship...happy kaau mi...

[frust]

More than anything you guys should sit down and talk.
Ask her straight if somebody else is involved?
If she honestly says no one then maybe she just needs some time to think about everything.
Just settle it down and ask those questions.
If you get the answers you need then decide.

[darkpilas666]

no third party bro, thanks sa reply...we already did talk, she wont even look me in the eye. she keeps saying "wala nay love"...she has transformed na daw... , it isn't true is it?

[frust]

no third party bro, thanks sa reply...we already did talk, she wont even look me in the eye. she keeps saying "wala nay love"...she has transformed na daw... , it isn't true is it?

How come?
How sure are you na wala?
I mean, sorry if I will be straightforward but it's not normal for a person to just simply fall out of love that fast unless somebody else is taking the attention.
Naa pud possibility na she's outgrown you.
Maybe you're not one of her priorities anymore? or she's too tired of her work that all she needs is just to take a rest? cool off maybe? pero kana ingnan ka wala nay love? that displays a red alert!
Whatever her reason is you might need to just go with it.
Give her time but just let her know that you will still be there for her as a "friend".
Don't just expect bai kay basin wala na jud so while waiting do something good for yourself.
Slowly but surely move on and be a better man para marealize niya what she's losing.
If you really care and love her then give her all the time she needs to love and know herself.
Just expect the worst bai ayaw na lang expect about a 2nd chance soon.

[naglibog.nako]

kanang mga ingon ana nga rason bro, there are deeper reasons... naa basin ka na buhat niya dugay na.. then gi agwanta lang ka niya.. mao pud ni nahitabo sa ako-a brod...

also, na wala na iya attraction sa imo kai nagpa kita ka og insecurity. towards the end sa inyo relationship pari-parihas jud tag kahimtang.

the best thing to do right now is don't beg, cause nothing you can do can change her mind.

[darkpilas666]

salamat kaayo sa inyong replies mga bro, paet jd ni nga kahimtanga... mao lagi...hays mao na bya unta... sayang... and to think puro rajud to txt ako napagawas nga kalagot gamay... nya kausa pajud to... hays... paets...salamat again mga bro

[darkpilas666]

mga bro bag-ohay lang... mureply na siya... i texted her first... "Friends?" ni ana ra siya "OK but no more, no less." , does this mean wala najuy pag.asa? paeta pd aning wala daun ang gugma... hays... naa bya ta koy surprise unta sa among anniv karon oct 1, padaun pa kaha ko? d man pd ni butang nga makapugos niya... but instead... surprise ko niya og hatag scrapbook sa among memories... ug kantahan gamay buhaton ko ni without expectations ... pede ra ba?

[siopao1984]

hagbay ra na nahalin mga linya na "give me some time to think about it"... loslosa na oi

mas maau pa nag negosyo ko. naka kwarta pako daghan.

[darkpilas666]

How come?
How sure are you na wala?
I mean, sorry if I will be straightforward but it's not normal for a person to just simply fall out of love that fast unless somebody else is taking the attention.
Naa pud possibility na she's outgrown you.
Maybe you're not one of her priorities anymore? or she's too tired of her work that all she needs is just to take a rest? cool off maybe? pero kana ingnan ka wala nay love? that displays a red alert!
Whatever her reason is you might need to just go with it.
Give her time but just let her know that you will still be there for her as a "friend".
Don't just expect bai kay basin wala na jud so while waiting do something good for yourself.
Slowly but surely move on and be a better man para marealize niya what she's losing.
If you really care and love her then give her all the time she needs to love and know herself.
Just expect the worst bai ayaw na lang expect about a 2nd chance soon.

sa ako nasabtan sa iya storya bro kay, nawala na daw... wa jud ko kagets pero ni care pa siya nako... mao lagi... although she's tired pd sa work and samotan pa kani nga single away namo... ambot tiningob siguro bro? kay nangwenta man siya sa akong mga sala before...

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hagbay ra na nahalin mga linya na "give me some time to think about it"... loslosa na oi

mas maau pa nag negosyo ko. naka kwarta pako daghan.

hahaha mao2 bro, saon taman ning gugma, nganung ni sulod hehe

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kanang mga ingon ana nga rason bro, there are deeper reasons... naa basin ka na buhat niya dugay na.. then gi agwanta lang ka niya.. mao pud ni nahitabo sa ako-a brod...

also, na wala na iya attraction sa imo kai nagpa kita ka og insecurity. towards the end sa inyo relationship pari-parihas jud tag kahimtang.

the best thing to do right now is don't beg, cause nothing you can do can change her mind.

mao ba bro? hays paeta jud aning kahimtanga... unsa man nahitabo ninyo bro? friends nalang?

[sammedriano]

Give her some time to think bro. Give her space. Don't be a compete retard and pain in her ass.

If you continuously do that, she's gonna be pissed even more. It can't happen that she's gonna fall out of love that easily.
She just want to take some space. I've been there. We were almost in our 2nd year too when we broke up. It was kinda painful, in fact she and I found another person to love. Yet, eventually, I did something that no one will expect. I texted her one time and asked her if we can talk. We met somewhere in Colon, sat apart while we ate in Jollibee. We then talked for awhile and decided to do something about our relationship.

We are now in our third year, and we love each other more.

Why did it worked? That talk happened 5 months after we broke up. During those 5 months, we were completely out of any forms of communication.

Good luck bro.