Need help: my father naa kabit

[blue_skyline]

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ngayo unta ko advise. dugay work akong erpat sa abroad. then ni-uli na cya kay gikapoy na daw. daghan man pud to cya kwarta kay nakatigum man, then naa man pud mi business.

he asked me to setup an fb account, so i did. but when i checked the fb account. nah, murag nibalik sa highschool life ang tigulang, naa mga sweet messages, and some are really serious stuff, like him and the other woman living together somewhere in bulacan.

i can't tell my mom cause she might suffer a nervous breakdown. what am i supposed to do? do i blocked the woman from his fb account? do i send some messages, do i talk to my dad?

please, need some advise

[angelgroove]

talk to ur dad

[beyee]

Best way is to talk to your Dad, TS.

[paploka]

i.block ang babaye.. dn storya.i imong papa..

[beyee]

^^ bisag iblock pa, they still can communicate via phone

[angelgroove]

talk jud. let him feel that ang anak wala kauyon

[trinalla]

talk to your dad, based from my experience from my dad also: a kabit will always be a kabit, and a kabit is for g-r g-r only, walay kabit nag dugay kay kung matiguwang na ang kabit byaan ra sad nah sa imo dad. my dad has a mistress for over 20yrs. but the only difference is that he never leave us in exchange for his kabit, u know nah ang role sa kabit, g-r g-ron lang kung kanus a nila gusto, and a wilfe will remain as wife till death. gi buwagan jud to ang kabit sa ako dad, wala sad sila anak. in fairness d man sad scandalosa ang kabit or hilas, not like d new generation kabit nga mo lihok ug mo storya murag wife.
our whole family knew about his mistress even his co-workers, but never came to a point nga nag scandalo ako mom or ang kabit, cguro ingon ana lang mi ka open minded or unsa bah. hehehehhee. bitaw, eventhough naay kabit ako dad, he still love us and provide us, not like sa uban mangabit nga murag ni balik pagkaba tan on ug kalimtan ang responsibilidad sa pamilya. mao sad cguro nah reason why we still have respect to our dad bec. we felt his love and he never take us for granted and to our mom. my dad before was assign to the province, weekdays cya wala, so it means weekdays cya nag kuyog sad sa iya kabit and he only goes home on weekends. time passes by, gi hinay hinay nya buwag iya kabit and, he goes home everyday eventhough layo. makahilak man sad ko maka hinumdum ko sa ako dad, he passed away last 2003 ;-(

[blue_skyline]

thanks sa mga response/advises. lisod man ang talk gud. i feel that we have grown apart. im thinking of blocking or sending the girl some messages, then that may spark some arguments between me and my dad, that's when the talking will start. maybe.

[gotnowheels]

talk to your dad TS. try do understand what's happening first.

[zHun]

kung unsa ang tambag sa uban ts mao nay unang buhata then pray...