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    Default Insecure of my bf's ex-gf!


    Hello Istoryans taas2x jud ni nga storya but akong e-share kay basin naa mo ma advice.


    I was a fresh graduate from high school when I met Kyle in USC last Oct 2007. After few months of getting-to-know-you and text buddies, he started inviting me to dinners and drinking sessions Wala pa ko nka uyab sauna but sa sige namo ug kuyog I thought mao na jud ni and kailangan lang ma formal nga mag uyab nami. Come April, bsan wala pa mi label I gave him my first kiss and everything pero after a month, I found out nga pa largahon na d.i ko sa akong Papa ngari sa US. When I left Cebu, we still kept in touch thru skype everyday but after 2 weeks he confessed something to me, something he wanted to tell me before I left but did not have the courage and said how sorry he was as he did not expect that we would get this far. Iya ko gi ingan nga naa siya girlfriend who is working out of the country and that lisud na kuno kaayo e-buwag niya coz they've been together for a while (5yrs I think). When he told me this, I was very upset but to make the long story a little bit shorter I chose to forgive him and told him we can still be friends. Padayun ra gihapon mi skype/chat everyday and kadugayan (about 2months) nagsugod na siya share sa iya problems sa iya gf, he said before daw ni larga iya uyab nasakpan niya naa kabit but he forgave her and pag larga iya uyab once in a blue moon ra ila communication coz si gf wala daw effort mag online and that her gf's family dislike him bisan dugay na kaayo sila. He also mentioned that everytime they have an issue or misunderstanding mu threat jud daw si gf "unya buwag nalang ta?" and dili lang siya mu tingog kay dili siya ganahan mag buwag sila. Crazy as it sounds, nkasabot ko ngano iya to nabuhat nko tanan maybe gi mingawan lang jud siya sa iya uyab. Ni stop na pud ko ug chat/skype after 3 months ko naabot ngari kay for me, wala naman gamit mag sige mi storya and I was starting to meet new friends here pud. Pag December 2008, my bestfriend told me that Kyle and his gf have called it quits and that Kyle applied for a renewal for his US tourist visa. Deadma ra ko kay I know naa man siya family ngari and nka anhi na pud siya sauna. To my surprise pag June 2009, 13 months after I left Cebu, nanuktok siya ngari sa among house to personally apologize and to see if I can give him a chance. Ni mention pud siya pag November 2008 sila nag buwag iya gf kay nag away sila over something nya iya gf ni ingon "unya buwag nlng ta" and he said "Sige".After ko nka kita niya ngari, mas nag libog na nuon ko ug samot. I was happy to see him but could not forget what he did to me. He chose her over me a year ago and abi nag buwag na sila mu anhi nalang siya nko?? Yes, he traveled across the world to win me back and he did. Buang jud tingali kaayo ko niya kay ako siya gi sugot bsan kahibaw ko LDR sa mi kay dili pa man ko mka uli for good sa ato.

    Base sa story nko mga pips, pasabta kuno ko ngano maglagot ko or mura mag lain akong buot about sa iyang ex-gf, I haven't met her and I know she's quite older than me. I saw some of her pics and I must say same2x ra mi, dili gwapa dili pud bati, karn gani dili ko kasabot ngano e-compare nko akong self niya. Naa pd ko fear what if magkakita cla, basin mag balik sila. Mag 4yrs nami hapit and bsan ka usa wa jd nka cheat si Kyle nko, nig mata nko and before ko matug nag online jd siya para mka skype mi. Makita sad nko ang effort niya nga akong family nahabilin dra sa Cebu iya jd bisitahon bsan wala nko sugo-a. Ako sd ni gi share niya ako mga insecurities, mu ingon siya wala daw ko angay ika guol kay dili na jud daw siya makig balik ato and ako na jud daw iya. Mag sige pud siya sorry nko and ingon dili na jd daw to mahitabo balik nga iya ko gipasakitan. Mag sige nsad siya mention sa iyang plans of getting married pero after aning tanan, I still feel nga for once, gibinuangan ko sa akong tao na gi love maayo. Nganong ingon ani man ko? Kamo mga istoryans nga naa ex.. possible jud d.i na nga mawala jd ang feelings sa inyong tao nga gi love at some point. Kay ako, mura dili jd ko mkalimot niya if maghuna2x ko magka buwag mi.


    Sorry kung taas kaayo ni, wala lang ko lain ma storyahan ani gud.

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    mawala ang feelings basta mawala ang connection sa skype labi na lag kaayo

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    Quote Originally Posted by guess_who View Post
    Hello Istoryans taas2x jud ni nga storya but akong e-share kay basin naa mo ma advice.


    I was a fresh graduate from high school when I met Kyle in USC last Oct 2007. After few months of getting-to-know-you and text buddies, he started inviting me to dinners and drinking sessions Wala pa ko nka uyab sauna but sa sige namo ug kuyog I thought mao na jud ni and kailangan lang ma formal nga mag uyab nami. Come April, bsan wala pa mi label I gave him my first kiss and everything pero after a month, I found out nga pa largahon na d.i ko sa akong Papa ngari sa US. When I left Cebu, we still kept in touch thru skype everyday but after 2 weeks he confessed something to me, something he wanted to tell me before I left but did not have the courage and said how sorry he was as he did not expect that we would get this far. Iya ko gi ingan nga naa siya girlfriend who is working out of the country and that lisud na kuno kaayo e-buwag niya coz they've been together for a while (5yrs I think). When he told me this, I was very upset but to make the long story a little bit shorter I chose to forgive him and told him we can still be friends. Padayun ra gihapon mi skype/chat everyday and kadugayan (about 2months) nagsugod na siya share sa iya problems sa iya gf, he said before daw ni larga iya uyab nasakpan niya naa kabit but he forgave her and pag larga iya uyab once in a blue moon ra ila communication coz si gf wala daw effort mag online and that her gf's family dislike him bisan dugay na kaayo sila. He also mentioned that everytime they have an issue or misunderstanding mu threat jud daw si gf "unya buwag nalang ta?" and dili lang siya mu tingog kay dili siya ganahan mag buwag sila. Crazy as it sounds, nkasabot ko ngano iya to nabuhat nko tanan maybe gi mingawan lang jud siya sa iya uyab. Ni stop na pud ko ug chat/skype after 3 months ko naabot ngari kay for me, wala naman gamit mag sige mi storya and I was starting to meet new friends here pud. Pag December 2008, my bestfriend told me that Kyle and his gf have called it quits and that Kyle applied for a renewal for his US tourist visa. Deadma ra ko kay I know naa man siya family ngari and nka anhi na pud siya sauna. To my surprise pag June 2009, 13 months after I left Cebu, nanuktok siya ngari sa among house to personally apologize and to see if I can give him a chance. Ni mention pud siya pag November 2008 sila nag buwag iya gf kay nag away sila over something nya iya gf ni ingon "unya buwag nlng ta" and he said "Sige".After ko nka kita niya ngari, mas nag libog na nuon ko ug samot. I was happy to see him but could not forget what he did to me. He chose her over me a year ago and abi nag buwag na sila mu anhi nalang siya nko?? Yes, he traveled across the world to win me back and he did. Buang jud tingali kaayo ko niya kay ako siya gi sugot bsan kahibaw ko LDR sa mi kay dili pa man ko mka uli for good sa ato.

    Base sa story nko mga pips, pasabta kuno ko ngano maglagot ko or mura mag lain akong buot about sa iyang ex-gf, I haven't met her and I know she's quite older than me. I saw some of her pics and I must say same2x ra mi, dili gwapa dili pud bati, karn gani dili ko kasabot ngano e-compare nko akong self niya. Naa pd ko fear what if magkakita cla, basin mag balik sila. Mag 4yrs nami hapit and bsan ka usa wa jd nka cheat si Kyle nko, nig mata nko and before ko matug nag online jd siya para mka skype mi. Makita sad nko ang effort niya nga akong family nahabilin dra sa Cebu iya jd bisitahon bsan wala nko sugo-a. Ako sd ni gi share niya ako mga insecurities, mu ingon siya wala daw ko angay ika guol kay dili na jud daw siya makig balik ato and ako na jud daw iya. Mag sige pud siya sorry nko and ingon dili na jd daw to mahitabo balik nga iya ko gipasakitan. Mag sige nsad siya mention sa iyang plans of getting married pero after aning tanan, I still feel nga for once, gibinuangan ko sa akong tao na gi love maayo. Nganong ingon ani man ko? Kamo mga istoryans nga naa ex.. possible jud d.i na nga mawala jd ang feelings sa inyong tao nga gi love at some point. Kay ako, mura dili jd ko mkalimot niya if maghuna2x ko magka buwag mi.


    Sorry kung taas kaayo ni, wala lang ko lain ma storyahan ani gud.


    Wew. . .long story with full of sad contents . Well, here's my share.

    The guy is serious about you, we'll that shows as how he cares about you. He traveled the world to meet you? Isn't that something BIG? To tell you the truth, guys (Not because I am a guy, but based on experience) are good at flattering women. Yet, if we cross the sea for one, we are DEAD FREAKING SERIOUS about that girl. I did that once, but wala lang nagkakami coz of some reasons...

    So, if I were you, keep the communication on, but don't pressure him too. Just do the natural thing that you normally do, and let bygone by bygone. He must have "NOT SAID ANYTHING ABOUT THE GIRL" before ka nag State, yet that doesn't mean that he is not honest nimo. It so happened that you weren't the "FORMAL GIRL-BOY" relationship at that time. Kung baga, fling-fling to nga natinood. Tehehe. . .

    So, settle down and relax, and trust him. Focus to what you're doing now, and hope for the better that someday magkakuyog mo again. But, as they say, lisod ang long distance relationship. So, might as well, expect the worst to come too para dili kaayo sakit if ever something went wrong man gali.

    Hope that helps.

    Sam.

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    relax lang TS...TRUST HIM...

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    Quote Originally Posted by guess_who View Post
    Hello Istoryans taas2x jud ni nga storya but akong e-share kay basin naa mo ma advice.


    I was a fresh graduate from high school when I met Kyle in USC last Oct 2007. After few months of getting-to-know-you and text buddies, he started inviting me to dinners and drinking sessions Wala pa ko nka uyab sauna but sa sige namo ug kuyog I thought mao na jud ni and kailangan lang ma formal nga mag uyab nami. Come April, bsan wala pa mi label I gave him my first kiss and everything pero after a month, I found out nga pa largahon na d.i ko sa akong Papa ngari sa US. When I left Cebu, we still kept in touch thru skype everyday but after 2 weeks he confessed something to me, something he wanted to tell me before I left but did not have the courage and said how sorry he was as he did not expect that we would get this far. Iya ko gi ingan nga naa siya girlfriend who is working out of the country and that lisud na kuno kaayo e-buwag niya coz they've been together for a while (5yrs I think). When he told me this, I was very upset but to make the long story a little bit shorter I chose to forgive him and told him we can still be friends. Padayun ra gihapon mi skype/chat everyday and kadugayan (about 2months) nagsugod na siya share sa iya problems sa iya gf, he said before daw ni larga iya uyab nasakpan niya naa kabit but he forgave her and pag larga iya uyab once in a blue moon ra ila communication coz si gf wala daw effort mag online and that her gf's family dislike him bisan dugay na kaayo sila. He also mentioned that everytime they have an issue or misunderstanding mu threat jud daw si gf "unya buwag nalang ta?" and dili lang siya mu tingog kay dili siya ganahan mag buwag sila. Crazy as it sounds, nkasabot ko ngano iya to nabuhat nko tanan maybe gi mingawan lang jud siya sa iya uyab. Ni stop na pud ko ug chat/skype after 3 months ko naabot ngari kay for me, wala naman gamit mag sige mi storya and I was starting to meet new friends here pud. Pag December 2008, my bestfriend told me that Kyle and his gf have called it quits and that Kyle applied for a renewal for his US tourist visa. Deadma ra ko kay I know naa man siya family ngari and nka anhi na pud siya sauna. To my surprise pag June 2009, 13 months after I left Cebu, nanuktok siya ngari sa among house to personally apologize and to see if I can give him a chance. Ni mention pud siya pag November 2008 sila nag buwag iya gf kay nag away sila over something nya iya gf ni ingon "unya buwag nlng ta" and he said "Sige".After ko nka kita niya ngari, mas nag libog na nuon ko ug samot. I was happy to see him but could not forget what he did to me. He chose her over me a year ago and abi nag buwag na sila mu anhi nalang siya nko?? Yes, he traveled across the world to win me back and he did. Buang jud tingali kaayo ko niya kay ako siya gi sugot bsan kahibaw ko LDR sa mi kay dili pa man ko mka uli for good sa ato.

    Base sa story nko mga pips, pasabta kuno ko ngano maglagot ko or mura mag lain akong buot about sa iyang ex-gf, I haven't met her and I know she's quite older than me. I saw some of her pics and I must say same2x ra mi, dili gwapa dili pud bati, karn gani dili ko kasabot ngano e-compare nko akong self niya. Naa pd ko fear what if magkakita cla, basin mag balik sila. Mag 4yrs nami hapit and bsan ka usa wa jd nka cheat si Kyle nko, nig mata nko and before ko matug nag online jd siya para mka skype mi. Makita sad nko ang effort niya nga akong family nahabilin dra sa Cebu iya jd bisitahon bsan wala nko sugo-a. Ako sd ni gi share niya ako mga insecurities, mu ingon siya wala daw ko angay ika guol kay dili na jud daw siya makig balik ato and ako na jud daw iya. Mag sige pud siya sorry nko and ingon dili na jd daw to mahitabo balik nga iya ko gipasakitan. Mag sige nsad siya mention sa iyang plans of getting married pero after aning tanan, I still feel nga for once, gibinuangan ko sa akong tao na gi love maayo. Nganong ingon ani man ko? Kamo mga istoryans nga naa ex.. possible jud d.i na nga mawala jd ang feelings sa inyong tao nga gi love at some point. Kay ako, mura dili jd ko mkalimot niya if maghuna2x ko magka buwag mi.


    Sorry kung taas kaayo ni, wala lang ko lain ma storyahan ani gud.
    base sa imong story... murag wala raka niya binoangi... iya lang gipa himutang og tarong.. mao iya ka gi ingnan although late na pag sulti niya..
    lets just say nga he is caught in "circumstance". nya base sa imong story diba ikaw man ning "first kiss" niya meaning ikaw ning initiate sa kiss? hahaha.

    goodluck, i think his serious.

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    mawala ra ang feeling ts basta makakita nakag lain,if wala paka kita sakitan pa jd ka...
    Last edited by bellah; 05-13-2013 at 07:41 PM.

  7. #7
    Quote Originally Posted by silent-kill View Post
    lets just say nga he is caught in "circumstance". nya base sa imong story diba ikaw man ning "first kiss" niya meaning ikaw ning initiate sa kiss? hahaha.

    goodluck, i think his serious.
    Ahahaha nice one boss. Agree jud au ko ani. Ikaw bay laki nga unahan og kiss makasulti pa ba ka nga naa kay uyab? ma-badshat og maulawan ang girl. Mao cguro to nga bisan late na gsulti gihapon niya -That show's he's supremely honest to u.

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    klaro kaayo TS wa ka confess d2 sa carolinian confession mao dire nalang hehehehehehehehe

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    Aren't all gf insecure of their bf's exes at first ? That's a normal feeling. That will just subside as you both mature in your relationship

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    Agree. My gf too had actually showed such insecurity as well. Bsta just keep on loving each other.

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