Afraid to be happy ;-(

[trinalla]

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Naka try mo ani nga feeling nga ma hadlok mo ma happy kay for sure naay coming tragedy or bad things ma happen. I've been experiencing this one, many times, i dunno if coincidence lang. kanang happy kaayo mo sa family, walay problem, smooth ang flow sa life but suddenly naay tragedy ma happen or accident with in your family. When my father retired from his job, we went on a family vacation, happy kaayo mi, he put up an apartment para naa mi monthly income but suddenly nasunog amo house, wala pa ma fully homan ang apartment. nag sunod2x na amo malas, for how many years naka recover mi sa mga gastohon, nag sideline ako dad, daghan money mo sulod sa amoa, and we're happy, stable nasad among life/status, sad to say my dad past away, he was diagnosed with cancer and late na nahibaw an. we struggle for life, mag apas mi sa mga gastohon, nabaligya amo mga sakyanan para lang maka tiwas amo manghod and ma tiwas ang apartment, after how many years we slowly recovered. until i got married, of course adjacement sa life, and was happy, and suddenly i remember, when im happy basin naa nasad mahitabo.... days & months past by i thought everything is fine when my mother in died from heart attack, it was again a sudden death like my dad. my hubby is soo depressed bec. he stopped to work, always drunk, always out of the house had a misunderstanding with his siblings .... for almost 1yr. he slowly accepted what happen, they are now in good terms with his siblings, he was given a small business for us to start. when i think of this again, it suddenly came into my mind, ok nasad tanan, happy na mi, basin naa nasad bad mahitabo, i even share this gut feeling to my friend. i was right, just recently when our friend went to visit our house and waiting for my hubby, nag park cya sa eskina amoa, they were carjack, the carjacker pointed a gun to his friend, my hubby wants to do something, but na picture out nya ang amo nawong if simbako naay mahitabo nila. thanx god nothing bad happens to them.. Now i was thinking, ok ra cugro mag guol ko for the rest of my life, kay mahadlok nako ma happy kay naa nay bati mahitabo nasad. mura nako ma phobia nga ma happy because of the experience i had. kamo unsa nyo ika sulti ani.

[kayeekahmeel]

I haven't felt that though, na mahadlok ma happy. I'm a happy person even if naay problema ma abot. Don't think negatively of what happened to you. Thinking negatively attracts negative factors. Dli tungod kay happy ka rn naa dayon bad ma happen. Maybe those bad experiences are there in order for u to grow, to be strong. Life is not easy, if dli sd ka hatagan ug bad experiences how will u cope up with life's challenges d.ba? Sometimes u were given those challenges kay gi test r sd s Ginoo imo faith niya.

[ALBS-lover]

permi ko ani.. 1 year happy ko kay naa koy work og uban pa nga good things. then next year wana pud work and all malas comes along.

but in the end wala man gud malas og mga bating butang. naa ra gud na sa how you see the situation og unsay imo gibuhat to make them right

so don't be afraid to be happy just smile and everything will be okay.

[kit_cebu]

i believe it's called LIFE...and these are the constants...you'll realize that soon enough...

[trinalla]

paranoid lang cguro kaayo ko

[nausicaa]

Just have faith Ts.
Love the Lord your God
with all your heart
with all your soul
with all your strength.
God will come and wrap his arms around you regardless of what you've done or where you've been or where you find yourself now.
He loves you boundlessly. Cry out to Him, He will answer. A prayer will guide you to HIM. You must trust God and everything will be given to you.

[suguwih]

ts. every thing that is here materially will be gone one day.
the saddest part would be imo sila ma limtan.
memories are the happiest thing we humans have.
i know money also is one of the problem.
but think about it. your not the only one who is struggling.

[vanzkie]

Everything happens for a reason. Live your life to the fullest. Kanang kalipay ug kahadlok part jud na sa kinabuhi. Depende na daun na sa imoha kung unsaon nimo pagdala ana nila.