5 LOVE LANGUAGES - Sekreto sa successful nga relasyon!

[Breakeven]

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Mao diay ni sekreto for a lasting relationship...........We have to fill the "LOVE TANK" of our partners

This is where the 5 languages of love come into play. Dr. Gary Chapman is an American marriage counsellor who has described and clarified these differences in a very interesting and useful way. In his book The Five Love Languages, he reveals the theory that there are five key ways of showing love and that every one of us has a preference for what makes us feel most loved. Understanding love languages leads to the ability to communicate with your partner in a non-judgemental way.

Here are the 5 languages of love:

· Quality time: For a person who speaks this language, things like eye contact, deep and meaningful conversations and shared activities are needed to feel loved. Bonding time with their partner is what is most important to them.
· Receiving gifts: When you are with a partner who love little gifts and surprises, this is precisely what you will get. You will constantly be showered with new clothes, flowers or even chocolates. This is how they want to be loved, so this is exactly what they do for their partners. Giving the gift of self is also an important symbol of love to these people.

· Words of affection: This works by giving your partner constant compliments, sweet love notes and lots of encouragement. This is important because those who speak this language are sensitive people and don’t take criticism as well as others. They may illustrate their frustrations by using sharp words or even by harassing you.

· Physical touch: If this is the language of your partner they will be very affectionate or, as some like to call it, touchy-feely. *** to them means much more than just an orgasm - it is a way to connect. If you deny someone who speaks this love language ***, they may feel unloved.
· Acts of service: Some people find pleasure in doing things for others. This may mean that they will feel loved when their partners help out with chores or doing things for them. However, acts of service should be done out of love, not obligation.

So which of the 5 languages of love do you speak and, just as importantly, which one does your partner speak?

If you love your partner using the right language, they will be happy and want to love you back. Love is deliciously contagious.

What do you think?

[Fri13th]

good read, thanks break, mas na inlove noon kos akong partner dah. hehehehe

[silent-kill]

agoy si breakeven nangita og pamaagi para mo spark iyang relationship sa iyang misis. hehhe

mao ni akong ma contribute bai para nimo.

1. Desire - desire to stay and make the relationship work, no matter the short comings.
2. Mutual Understanding/Sympathy - pada-oga pud imo missis panagsa kong naa mo mga lantugi nga di ma sulbad, learn to smile and accept "defeat" swallow your pride to protect her pride (ayaw pud pirmi... basin underon ka.. haha) let her know nga equal mo, partner mo sa decision making and stuff.
3. Appreciation - appreciate the big/small things, nga iya gi buhat para nimo, and let her know that you appreciate it (panagsa lang when you feel nga na touch jud ka teehehe). also reciprocate it.
4. Persistence - be persistent sa imong mga commitments, and your promises, although naa delays sa uban.. assure her/him that mao gihapon imong mga plans (unless na usab na)..
5. Contentment - although naa jud mas nindot sa kilid2x mga bago pa nga model... og barato pa.. be contented of what you have, love her like she's the only woman/man left on planet earth (bahalag bati pa imong nawng nya gwapa siya).

[noy]

unsa pay dugayan? i apply dayun na tanan imung gisuwat break ug kang silent-kill pud
para mubalik ang kagilok. Lol

[<SMILE>]

Versatile man pud diay ning
atong Migo. Lover boy man pud diay ni.

Kini maorag igo kaayo ni Break.

Words of affection: This works by giving your partner constant compliments, sweet love notes and lots of encouragement. This is important because those who speak this language are sensitive people and don’t take criticism as well as others. They may illustrate their frustrations by using sharp words or even by harassing you.

[Passport]

Languages of Love as indicated in my Passport:

1. BASIC. Lays out a solid foundation of the relationship, ensures efficient function of all input/output and adjustments of emotions.

2. C. A strong commitment is necessary, and both parties involved in a relationship must realize this. Both must be willing to invest themselves in this commitment.

3. C++. Commitment and much more. Commitment often draws upon the resource for sacrifice as well. There will be storms to rock the ship, siren songs threatening to break a relationship's journey, C++ speaks a language that strengthens.

4. JAVA. Instills into the relationship a zest of energy booster just like the coffee version, opening up for adventure, and thrill, or the simple joy of watching a sunset.

5. PYTHON. It crawls on the ground, reminding both partners the importance and virtue of humility. When pride is allowed into the relationship, it will eventually become a wedge, and drive a gap that will start as a tiny crack, eventually growing to become a huge chasm. Those involved in a strong relationship must learn the language of coiling up in a tight embrace like a python.

[ishmot0i]

wahahaha..

[Lex Sander]

perfect combination quality time sa physical touch

[Breakeven]

@ mga brods

Thanks kaayo sa mga comment hahha, nalingaw ko!
tungod lang tingali ni sa kamingaw bro kay lagyo mi sa akong pares ron kay naa ko nanrabaho sa layong dapit....hhehe.

Bitaw, sakto pud ni inyoha.....loving jud tingali kayo mo sa inyong partner ha!

[Passport]

naa pay usa ka language nga lisod sabton ts...

language of silence