breaks my heart

[yvonne6]

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earlier today, my 7 year old boy said, mom, uli ko cebu (since ni relocate naman mi sa manila). i asked him, asa man ka mopuyo didto? ilang papay (his lolo), then, ni ingon siya with teary eyes, i text mo si dadi, papuntahin mo siya rito. huwag mo siyang aawayin ha? huwag kayong mag away. kasalanan mo mommy eh. bakit niya ginawa yon? bakit niya ako iniwan? mura gyud nadugmok akong kasing2 hearing him express his desire to see his dad who doesnt even care to call and check on him. its not right for me sad to communicate with his dad kay pasanginlan kos bag ong gf nga ga after pas akong ex but i hope he realizes that his relationship with his son does not end when we ended our relationship. i let my son talk to his dad over the phone ug manawag iyang grand parents. bata jud ang mag suffer ug mag buwag ang parents. i wish there is a better way i can comfort my son and assure him that he is so love nga dili na siya mag desire sa iyang amahan nga wala ga care. i've done my part in the last 8 years. never na jud nako ibutang among selves like magpakalimos ug gugma sa iyang amahan akong anak. im just so frustrated that my innocent, sweet boy have to endure the pain caused by his dad's selfishness. grrrrr.

[havaianatic01]

aww sis *hugs* kasweet sa imuha anak. di nko mapicture out akoa self sa imuha sitwasyon sis. payter kaau ka, ingun ana jud atua bation sah basta bahin satua anak na. ipapadayon lang na iya commu sa iya papa sis, mangeta man jud na mga ingun anah na edad ky wa pa man kasabot ang dala na sab siguro ibog2 sa friends or classmates nya na naay mama og papa. pagdako anah nya kana makasabot na xa, xa na sab mismo ang molikay sa iya papa. Be strong and ayaw jud echange imuha pagtreat sa iyaha bisan man gani og magkaanak kag utro sa imuha new guy.

[neversaydie]

It would really break your heart kung ang imo son dghan questions bout asa iyaha father... kay he missd how they were before... if only mapuno nato ang love nga yaha gipangita sa isa ka father, but let your son feel that you loce him most, and let him communicate and bond with his father, okay ra man siguro mohangyo ka sa yaha papa to spend sometime with his son, just like before.. kay if nasanay gud ang bata spending time with his father, panitaon man gud na nya until such time na makasabot na sya sa situation. Ako gani still asking myself unsaon kaha nako, kay we are on the stage na padong nasad magseparate, nya they have a very strong bond sa iya papa ug ako anak..

[yvonne6]

i texted his lolo immediately para siya na ang mag sulti sa iyang anak (akong ex) nga gimingaw iyang anak niya. unfortunately, i never got a response. ang nakadugang sa sakit kay ang bata pa mismo ang magpa abot sa amahan nga mangumusta niya and mao ni nga part ang dili jud nako mapasaylo sa akong ex, the fact nga siya mismo walay effort to lessen the pain that our son is going through. ang iyang gibuhat nako, i have dealt with that and i know the relationship has failed a long time ago. happy nako karon ug thankful nga wala na juy stress caused by him sa akong life. kay atong kami pa, grabe jud ang kasakit

[trinalla]

heartbreaking jud, the child is the one who is very affected in the situation, and madala ni nya hantod inig kadako ;-(

[mamasell77]

poor little boy.. he's nothing to do with this..mao lisod sa bata pasabton why every relationship end's up with break ups.

[melovesushi]

The child will always be casualty of the war between parents.. yes it's heartbreaking but it will have more impact on the him if he sees the parents together but not in good terms.
I hope things will be sorted out without causing anymore pain on the child and I hope too that sooner or later (better sooner) the father will realize he still has the responsibility of loving and caring for his son...

[farmboy]

these are all about choices and consequences...

at a very young age, looy kaayo ang mga bata nga affected

in my line of work.. we call them - collateral damage

this is heart breaking...

do your best TS.. do what you feel is right..

[yvonne6]

and there is no effort from the dad. grabe kaau. i have nothing to do with him but his son needs him as a father. im not surprise at all because he is now with a woman who also left her son just to be with my son's dad. nagpares jud silang duha

[jxm1311]

earlier today, my 7 year old boy said, mom, uli ko cebu (since ni relocate naman mi sa manila). i asked him, asa man ka mopuyo didto? ilang papay (his lolo), then, ni ingon siya with teary eyes, i text mo si dadi, papuntahin mo siya rito. huwag mo siyang aawayin ha? huwag kayong mag away. kasalanan mo mommy eh. bakit niya ginawa yon? bakit niya ako iniwan? mura gyud nadugmok akong kasing2 hearing him express his desire to see his dad who doesnt even care to call and check on him. its not right for me sad to communicate with his dad kay pasanginlan kos bag ong gf nga ga after pas akong ex but i hope he realizes that his relationship with his son does not end when we ended our relationship. i let my son talk to his dad over the phone ug manawag iyang grand parents. bata jud ang mag suffer ug mag buwag ang parents. i wish there is a better way i can comfort my son and assure him that he is so love nga dili na siya mag desire sa iyang amahan nga wala ga care. i've done my part in the last 8 years. never na jud nako ibutang among selves like magpakalimos ug gugma sa iyang amahan akong anak. im just so frustrated that my innocent, sweet boy have to endure the pain caused by his dad's selfishness. grrrrr.

lisuda ani TS uy, di jud lalim...