A good friend turned lover.. what to do. <sigh>

[PebblesandKisses]

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unsa inyu buhaton when you have this so-close friend that you are so comfortable being with. You know, the one you can joke around, hold hands, hug brotherly, talk about anything under the sun, check on each other daily, pinch on each other's faces--sort of a brother jud.. and suddenly.. asked you for a date. (meowk!)

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* lakaw ta inig 14 ha.
# friday nlang para dghan ta.
*kita rman duha.
# ha? ngano man? toweweng!
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-mao to. murag dili na friendly iya moves towards me the past days, sort of romantic na. napay text nga kung dili gani ko kareply, mag-luod².. tsk². wa jud ko ganahi.

akong problema:

-Di ko ganahan muprangka kay bcn ma-offend cya, mawad-an pa nuun kog suod nga migo. I respect him man gud, nya I value him jud as a friend. he's one of the guy friends nga super comfi jud kau ko.

-Di pud ko gnahan makig-date nia coz wala lang. I just dont feel like it. migo rajud ako tan-aw nia.. period! He's the funny guy type man gud. di ko kaimagine mag-date mi nya serious² ang dating ba. naah! hahahah
awkwardan na nuun kau ko motagad nia ron, or if tagad gani, cold na (though trying to keep it the usual way).

So what I do, whenever he reminds me gani of our so-called date.. (nga wala koi plano modaun), moana rako "ay cgeg binuang diha, gara² sad ka dah.. pangetag laing kabinuangan didto!".. nya mokatawa ra sad cya.. muana. "binuang man nuun."..

<sigh> I just hope whatever he feels would just die a normal death. Napressure ra sad guro c manoy kay hapit na ang v-day. haha! LOL

[kensui]

Why dont you just give him one date? Just One date...

[PebblesandKisses]

Why dont you just give him one date? Just One date...

di ko ganahan. di ko comfi. murag lain jud. haha btaw, maybe i just dont wanna give him a chance to reveal whatever romantic feelings he has for me. (if naa)

[slackboy]

friendzoned diay ni padong

[inyourface]

wa jud diay chance TS? paeta jud aning Friendzone wuie . .

[babolgam]

nindot na i-feature sa TFTZ ni Ramon B. Bitaw, kung wa pa xa mo sulti sa ia feelings jud ay lang sugot gud lain sad pugson ka niya. =))

[kensui]

di ko ganahan. di ko comfi. murag lain jud. haha btaw, maybe i just dont wanna give him a chance to reveal whatever romantic feelings he has for me. (if naa)

You wont know that unless you give him a chance. Sus,wala namang mawawala sayo..isang date lang naman

[Rigor Mortis]

A moment of silence for our brother who is the "friendzone".

[Vanillaskies]

Maka-understand raman guro na sya kung imu lang sya sultihan sa tinuod. Matud pas kanta.. "thats what friends are for.. For good times and bad times i'll be on ur side forevermore.." nyahah!

Well, ana jud na TRUTH HURTS.

[Lovefreak]

uneasy situation, huh? i used to feel bad for the guys in this situation....especially if the guy has good or sincere intentions. it can be heartbreaking on the part of the guy to be rejected, to be told " i can be friends with you."

i know what its like, but a guy cant really blame the girl to "friendzone" him if he got himself in that situation to begin with.

so guys, if u like a girl in a romantic way, let her know early on. earning her trust in a friendly, brotherly way and turning 180 degrees to try to start something romantic....its like betraying the friendship. some very good friendship end this way.

TS, he'll get the message. if he knows you enough it should be clear to him...and he should understand.