Pa help mga istoryans about my situation:
We have a 3 y.o. son right now.. My wife's age is 33.. Nitaas bya iyang BP paglabor sa among anak.. so far OK ra siya krn nag-maintain ug meds sa BP.. We both work.. We wanted a second child, baby girl.. Ang apan lng ky moend na ako contract next year, june.. Ganahan ko mo-apply ug laing country with many requirements and financially dako2x pd gasto and I dont know how many months/year ko mastandby... i dont have that much savings especially dependent ako papa sa ako because of his stroke...my remittance, mabahin gyd.. if I continue to work here (or magdugay dre) sa middle east with small salary on this unstable company(20K, small in compare sa mga classmates nko), basin kulangan na ako credentials or courses to work on my target country if i move. Or dli na sila modawat ky taas na ila requirements..
if someone can enlighten me (if is it ok to have a second child or only child nlng), I appreciate it very much... TIA!
(mahala na pd sa gatas krn oi... nya wala ka produce ug milk ako asawa before. puro formula mi ato sauna)
(pasensya na, gadali ug type ky limited nlng oras, feel free to ask)