Changes ..

[tonyYOUNG0310]

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Changes ..

Some say if you really love the person you need to change for the better. but d ba if mchange cah that means that lahi na ang gpa ngita sa imu partner. There is a saying d ba nga If you love the person, you'll accept them for who they really are.. then why the change ??

[neversaydie]

There is such thing as sacrifice as well, when you love you have to sacrifice, so dpat it should be balance, kay if you love, you are willing to give everything... this would include changing , but not totally the whole you, siguro naa lang mga things to be limited.. kasy it different from before na singel ka and naa naka partner, dina two become one, so kung naay bati ang isa bati nasad0ang partner, just like sa apple if lata na nag pikas, dili madugay madot pud ang uban part ana....

[aldrin89]

para nako if mo change ka lisod sad kaayo kay bsan unsa on mobalik ra gyud na kung unsa gyud ka.

[imyourninja]

Toioioioioioionk!! Accept them for who they really are? Pero mu accept ra pud ka kung adik2 ang tao? di ba gnhan pud ka muchange na nga tao para rapud sa iyang kaayuhan?!

[geo25]

Accept what is given. It can't be helped though, that we would wan't them to change for the better but we also need to accept na lisud pud sa ilaha na part ang pag-change.

[burikoy12]

If I love my mate, I'm willing to change to make our relationship flourish. Ang di pwede, mochange ko nga mawala na ang akoang identity.

[yvonne6]

depende, ug for the better ang change, why not? from tapulan to kugihan, from bakakon to honest. i really dont think these changes would lose someone's identity, it would make them more lovable. depende ug unsa nga change atong gi mean diri ts. there are changes for good and not for the worse

[tonyYOUNG0310]

yea. like, i know he wanted me to change for my betterment but d jd xa lalim. But sometimes bsa'g unxaon ug change mblk jd ang unxa jd coh kay mao nmn gd nature ncoh .

[yvonne6]

does that mean kung naanad ug barkada, adik2, laag ang taw, mobalik jud kay mao nay naandan? ug gusto jud sa taw, mabuhat niya kay kung ang reason nga mao nanay nature nato is just too selfish. we dont live in this world just for ourselves. we have to realize nga naay mga laing taw sa atong palibot nga basig masakitan tungod sa atong mga binuhatan. for example, parent naka, wether u like it or not, imong anak imong responsibilidad, ug irresponsable ka, u just cant tell you kids, sorry ha, mao naman gud ni nature nako, irresponsable ko ug tapulan. the world is such a competitive place, compete or rather be called a loser. nara nimo

[krishnu shivaq silquin]

the fact na ni admit ka na mobalik jud kung unsa ka or lagi nature jud na nimo is a sign na your willing to change... btaw ts ayaw jud i.define ang word or every word when it comes to love or relationship... even nature itself mo change... and it is not advisable na imo ip.hon or mangkwenta ka kay lagi ni usab ka or pugson nimo for the sake nga ni.usab ka... ang realization imong gi.ingon na mobalik jud ka kung unsa ka says something nga imo gbantayan ang imong pagchange... then kung mag.away mo sa imong ka.relationship... kana na idea nga ni change kunohay ka will act as a burden, instead of a positive thing... though normal ra jud na sa usa ka taw nga mo.agi ani... someday makasabot ra ka ana... ani nalang ts, to give you an idea... the best example would be you parents... you can ask your mom... unsa iya gbuhat or unsa ang na.usab para magkasinabot sila sa imong papa... or maskin unsa ka maldita nimo sa una pero love ghapon ka nila.. that itself shows that your mom has changed... mas taas na iya pasensya... lagi kay anak... mao sad na ang relationship... accept you for who you are... hahahaha... daghang kaau nag.tinagu.an ts.... number 1 mo kontra ana is money...we all know na ma.accept man jud na basta love... it is easy to accept a person who has lots and lots of money... diba.. kung pangutan.on ka unsay ideal nimo na ma bana... number 1.. love nimo siya syempre... 2. daghan kaau ni ug pasumbingay ang number 2.. others would say security... responsible... ug unsa pa... pero it all boils down to money... that's reality... kabantay ka paghighschool.. kung naa ka crush wala jud nang money nga aspect oi... love ra jud tawn na... pero karon... utot... accepting someone for who they are involves a lot of change.... the fact na imo gidawat sya dapat kbaw naka sa consequences and responsiblities... kay kung dili... mao nay gsulti nga ubay2x pa jud ang imong kan.on nga bugas.... maturity of a person says it all... pero careful ka ts.. ayaw sad palabi ug change na to the point nga nato.ok naka kay kabit jud resulta ana... hehehe...