Corporal Punishment?: Angay ba bunalan ang bata?

[Xian120]

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Kinahanglan ba nato bunalan ang mga bata kong atong disiplinahon?

If so ngano man?
Kong di mo uyon, why?

Please share your ideas guys,
Im against Corporal Punishment.. but i still do need some good reasons (if there is any) nganong kinahanglan ni nato buhaton ang pagbunal.

Let this be a guide to parents and future parents.. if you have problems regarding discipline please share also..
The future starts with our children..

Dont worry dili makita inyong name sa poll for anonymity sake, so feel free to vote.

Thanks guys.

I dont know if there is a thread nga parihas ani and if this thread is right for this place..
but i do feel i can get the right audience for this matter..

[maiden_asj]

para nako NO...
dili jod angay bunalan ang bata tungod kay sayop sya or what..

bata paman na.. ipaagi nalang sa saktong istorya..
unya pasabton sya sa iyang sayop na nabuhat...

kung dili gyud malikayan na mabunalan ang bata.. dapat nasabtan niya nga naa syay sayop nabuhat.. kay mao ni ang mga common reasons nganong mag-rebelde ang bata..
wala diay sya kasabot na sayop iyang gibuhat...

char.. mura pod kog nanay

[GuillerBat]

Yes, But not to the extent where the child actually gets really hurt.

Kay mao man buhaton sakong mga parents sa-una,
Me now? A 3rd year H.S. Student never gets off the 1-3 Rankings, A Highly disciplined student.
But it's only IMO (In my Opinion) also from my experience.

[Tenchu]

Spare the rod, spoil the child.

The child should be disciplined well by the parent. However, it should not be to the extent that it becomes abuse.
I grew up in a family where my father who was a former soldier strictly enforced discipline to me and my siblings.
I grew up to the almost iron hand of my father, now I am successful and a well-disciplined individual. It worked for me,
it may work for others too.

[Breakeven]

Both Yes and No @TS, depende...

The Key to discipline a child....
Children learn by example and by observing godly attitudes in their parents' lives.

How Should A Christian Discipline Children

[cebu.opportunities]

Both yes and no depending on the extent or how grave the mistake is , how your child acted towards you when you reprimand him/her, ...

Kung kasab-an nimo or bunalan, make sure way makakita and makadungog. dako mn gud impact sa bata kana mauwawan siya in front of many people unya chisms rba ta, manglingi jud.
After pangasaba and/or bunal, talk to your child in a calm manner dayon ipasabot sa iya ang reason of such action. di ky byaan na lang nimo ditso, igo ra nagpagawas sa imong kalagot.

[Xian120]

Thanks for sharing guys... tinuod jud na, ang ubang ginikanan di tuod mo bunal pero grabe sad kyo mobalikas sa ilang mga anak, kana one form of bunal nana if not mas grabe pa..

[yvonne6]

puede man kanang dapion ang kamot or lubot ra jud pero dili katong parehas niadto paludhon kas asin, monggos, padupahon pa with matching libro sa mga kamot, over ra or kanang hanger mabali, or bakos, thats too much. nakasulay ko niadto perti nakong bunal sa akong anak kay gikuha ang kuarta nga mao2 na lang pero bata pato siya, na bali2 jud hanger ug nagka labhag2, perti nakong hilak pud pag human kay naluoy ko. gikan ato, wala na jud ko mamunal bahalag unsa nako ka pungot sa mga bata tutal inig daku nila, they will understand unsa ang feeling ug ikaw parent na pud

[AVriLRockZ!!!]

yes para matagam but di sad ingnon na super bugno na

[android_james]

akong 2yr old bb pirming piti jud.. mao kron nig tingog nako hadlok na..

kinahanglan jud bunalan ang bata aron maka hibaw cya nga naay silot kun magpa badlong.. sabayan ug istorya pasabot sa iyang sayop nig taod2x sabay blow out ug ice cream.. hehe