help...

[jaynith avila]

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i got pregnant and i dont know what to do cause im afraid of telling it to my family....
i cant afford abortion...
how am i going to tell them?when they expected too much from me...

[huryhoy]

I know it's hard for you to inform your family, but just take the risk in telling them. You did take the risk in getting pregnant because of this "LAMI THING".

Say sorry for they expect too much from you.

Dawata tanang kasaba sa imong ginikanan ug unsa pa nang ilang ipang sulti. kay nasayop man jud ka sa imong dalan nga pa adtuan.

Peru I tell you. If you're baby is already out in this world, you're family will easily forget what you've done and will love you, especially your baby.


One more thing, I know nga dli nimu kaya i.abort ang baby, and that's a good and ideal decision you made. But if ever your family are going to suggest it, please... please... please.. Ayaw jud padala.

[Renz8]

Don't ever think about abortion TS kay dako ayo ng sala face the consequence of your action tell your parents about your situation they will get angry it's normal but I'm sure they can accept you.....walay parents maka antos ug anak!!!!!

[princess]

ayaw pag-ing ana kung mag ing ana ka aw "AYAW"....hahaha bitaw inday...sa pirmiro ranang pag antos ug kasuko sa imo pamilya pero ig gawas sa bata pinangga kyna nila.....imo mana gibuhat ayaw apila ang anghel kay kana gitobo na diha sa imong tiyan naay purpose ang ginoo..advice langko kay dako pakog edad nimo klaro kay galibog mnka so it means bata pajud ka karun napa ksa 20's ako sa hapit na man sa mid 30's.....hehe.....imo noon na ipa attempt ug abort unya dili matangtang so unsa resulta ana ig mabuhi judna adto sa bata ang looy kayo nga kahimtang.....din maghilak hilak dayun mo ig dako sa bata kay nay deperensya kay imo ipa abort...padayuna na pirmiro ray uwaw ana basin dako expectations imo ginikanan nimo mao na mhadlok ka din wala psad ka kahuman skuling wala pka work pod..kay kung stable naka ok ra gani single mom ka...bye

[DEMENTIA]

hi TS sakto gyd na ilang mga advice para nimo..samtang sau pa sultie na dayon imong parents para maka prenatal naka or unsa pa dha nga needs para sa imong baby..TC nalang dha TS ha..we know nga mo accept ra gyd na imong parents nimo..

[psychologic]

hhmmm.... uncommon issues here.. bitaw TS.. dawata nalang gud ang kasaba sa imong mga parents.. total naana man jd ka ana na situation. always remember that the child ur bearing right now needs a mom.. so, as better as NOW, tell them. if di nimo kaya, basin naay mga istoryans na willing mo help ug pagpasabot sa imong parents.. congrats MOM!

[aubz_0716]

TS, mintras sayo pa sultie na imo parents para matabangan ka nila ug imo baby... kinahanglan jud ra ba nmo magpaprenatal ug mag inom ug vitamins... unya sa 1st trimester sa pregnancy daghan au na mga tests kinahanglan au na mo undergo ka ani kay para ni sa inyong duha sa imo parents...

ang importante, mo acknowledge pud ka sa imo sayop, magpa ilom jud ka... dawata lng jud ila kasaba... nasuko na cla sa imo g.buhat but wa na cla masuko nmo ug sa bata... and kung unsa man gani ikasulti sa mga tao sa imong palibot, ayaw paminaw ana nla... naa man jud na ikasulti ang mga tao... ang importante mibarog ka after sa imo nabuhat...

ingatz TS and eat daghan and inom daghan water...

[Intruder26]

Hmmm been there done that! But I made the mistake no point in making another mistake. Tell your parents about it and I hope you have already told your partner about it because I've noticed you've left him out.

Abortion? Ikaw...easy to do but the consequence could be fatal. Kaya man kaha sa imong consensiya? To kill an innocent being who already has his own heartbeat on the 18th day that he was conceived? Will you not wonder how he would look like had he been born?Its a secret that you shall keep for the rest of your life.

Do not ask HOW...because no matter unsaon nimo pagpahimotang ug storya ani nga issue usa ra ang ending masuko jud na. They will hate you, judge you and cast you away. But you know what? Time heals all wounds and you will make peace with your past sooner or later.

Good luck in your decision TS, even if your muted....

[psychologic]

hhmmm. goodluck TS

[yvonne6]

^^if u were brave enough when you did it, have the same courage of telling your parents about it. im sure you have heard so many times nga once mamabdos ang babay, anha tanang problema mogawas. problema naman gani ang pagpahibalo sa imong parents, unsa na lang kaha ang responsibilities that comes with the pregnancy and being a mother eventually. you cant blame anyone else for what happen, im no blaming you because its a waste of time. be prepared sa consequences sa imong gi himo. lesson: ug dili ta gusto mapaso, dili ta mag duwa ug kalayo. be wiser next time ts, use protection ug d pa man diay ready. ayaw pa irala permi ang gugma, k rana if kaya na nimo on your own, ug dili pa, mas maayo nga maminaw sa parents kay magkinaunsa sila ra gihapon ang mahabilin nimo. bf would sometimes leave you incase magka problema but your parents wont. masuko man sila sa una pero mahuwasan rana. andama lang imo self sa kasaba basig napay sagpa2 portion or kulating portion but thats all because of frustration.good luck. pabaw a lang mig na unsa naka. NEVER consider abortion, basig mao na imong ikamatay ug malas malason ka