I Need help..please

[lindsy]

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Everytime my husband and I got into an argument, he would blame me for everything. He would say that it's all my fault. I refuse to say anything back, because it would just make him even more angry at me. He's called me a few choice names, which I won't even say. Whenever I would try to tell him that what he says to me really hurts my feelings, he would tell me to get over it already. It's very hard for me to confide in him, because he made it clear that he didn't care. If I'm crying, he would ask me, "what the hell is your problem?". stop crying! Dramatorgo gyud ka!Everytime he would call me a name, or bring me down, I would feel so bad about myself..it really hurts.

[Hammer_and_Sickle]

file a case,..if you can't take the crap anymore,http://www.congress.gov.ph/download/ra_12/RA09262.pdf


or try mo pa-counseling if ganahan ka ma salvage inyung decaying relationship

[Marz86]

seek cousel to the right cousel. if possible, save your marriage. try to have a conversation sa imo husband nga wala cya naglagot or gisapot. express everything nga na feel nimo...

[THE KID]

i assume nga naa kai dghang bitsin diha maam?

[lindsy]

my heart really bleeds..it really hurts. everytime mag istorya mi tarong kay mu explain ko niya sa akua side kay mu ungin man siya na mag change daw ko sa akuang attitude,maminaw daw ko sa iyahang instructions..im just only "human" i cant read what is inside of his mind.

[ambokz]

unsa man jud d-i sala nmo sauna ts?or unsa na inyo marriage knang gi-boya rmo,inyo ra parents nagpa minyo ninyo?kay mura man gud ug wa xay love.

[cebu.opportunities]

counseling sa siguro. last resort nanang case2x.

ang kalisud lang ky murag close minded imu husband TS. he does not even care about your feelings as what you claimed. I don't know if this would be a good idea nga try to fight back ug yaw2x. 'kung di madaan sa "santong dasalan", idaan sa santong puspusan'. wa ko niingon ug mamisikal or maglabay-labay ug things ha. kana lang maingon jud nimo tanan imu na feel. If you just cry it out, di siya kasabot unsa mn naa sa imu mind. tungod pud sa iyang pride, instead duolon ka niya and ask you nicely, insultohon na hinuon ka. kung insensitive jud siya pagkataw, dako2x pakang antoson pra mkaamgo siya. pero ma hinay-hinayan mn sad hinuon ang pag change pero it really takes great time pajud. dapat strong sad imu personality TS ky dali rba mamatay ang kumkumon lang ang kasakit.

[fern-pewee]

ksluoy pd nimo TS..go out with friends...counselling pd..talk to your parents pra mka storya mo inbetween them

[eezychair]

One has only one life to live. Why waste your time with a person who has such an attitude? Where is love in such a situation? Some will disagree, but i'd say leave, let go and move on. Since you've been brought to a point where you had to bring this up in a forum, that only goes to show you don't have anyone else to confide with and are suffering by your lonesome self. Make a plan, disappear, and live anew. If he comes back looking for you and by then you still have feelings for him, then perhaps you were meant to be. If not, then that gives you the chance to move on and enjoy life as you should.

Sometimes, some people just need to be jolted with unexpected decisions and your cutting off could be that jolt.

[cloudduster]

Obviously, he has issues. The last thing I would want is to blame someone for what my life has become. There's always a choice.