question...

[quad]

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how do you keep a relationship going on when you reach to a point that you realize you guyz lost the "spark"?
when everything now seems to be a routine?

how do i resolve this?

[bokiratx]

quad man, i think you should be honest to yourself and her bro. if for you things are like this everyday routine nah you should do what makes you happy istoryai ang girl then be honest about your feelings better nah ingon ani kaysa sa imong pasakitan ang girl ug palaumon nimo na you really love her cuz in the end both of you guys would suffer.....you don't want to live the rest of your life with a lie don't you?.....

[quad]

i do btaw.. she even knws about it.. in fact we had a talk nha in ayala. im sooo confused na jd.. i dnt knw na nymore wat to do.. everything seems to be not right nymore..

[quad]

though i really want to keep her.. i js want to know how exactly can i still keep it going on? we are presently 2 yrs and 6months and spent soo much time together all the years. wat can i do to still keep the flame of love between us going on?

[diem]

though i really want to keep her.. i js want to know how exactly can i still keep it going on? we are presently 2 yrs and 6months and spent soo much time together all the years. wat can i do to still keep the flame of love between us going on?

@quad, then marry her. Have children, be parents and try to live as happily as possible.

If marriage is not yet a possible option, maybe some time apart could help you gain perspective as a couple and as individuals.

Hopefully, it would help you realize what is life without the company of the other and make the heart grow fonder for each other.

Hey quad are you evolving as an individual? Are you learning any new interests or hobbies? One thing you could do to break the routine is find something new that you can share with your loved one or puwede rin vice versa. It could be a sport, how about taking classes together in cooking? In ballroom dancing? Photography? Automotive repair?

Find yourself a new passion that you can share with your lady love in order that you have new common ground to built afresh the foundation of your relationship.

In short, to break out the routine, love each other, challenge each other, grow together, be together. Learn or do something new with the one you love.

[bokiratx]

@quad bro for as long as you are honest to yourself and to her, yes it'll hurt a little pero in the long run it whould be all worth it. gud luck bro!

[grlnxtdor16]

maybe marriage is not reli the option for me ha! i know nga maybe u want to take it to the next level but not that way sad oie. its really bad, usa pa u dont want to regret that decision. u shud talk to her and try to work things out. things are boring because they are too predictable. if you dont want to let go then work things out. when you have something truly great, do your best to keep it.
in order to rekindle your love, try to do things that you don't usuali do. or go back to the basics... life is getting too complicated.

[Hisuka]

bro question lang. Love ba nimo ang girl? kay kung wla na ang spark mura rasad ug nawala imo love?

[Zahara]

Simple lang...since naanad mog routine, then break it! :mrgreen:

I don't believe that just because you've lost that "spark" that you have no feelings for each other.

We all go through that. And it's normal. You have nothing to worry about. This is the stage where you're comfortable with each other na.

Join and take part in a new activity kanang dili siya apil. Encourage her to do find a hobby. Para when you meet up, you have something new to talk about. You're not yet married, so you both can still enjoy going out separately with your own sets of friends.

Ang ako lang masulti is this : Don't give up because of this lang. Break up for a reason. The grass isn't always greener at the other side gyud. Feelings is not a good indicator of love kay it's fickle.

[bokiratx]

bro i think murag sakto si Zahara basin you 2 need some space sad, like you have to do your stuff and she has o do her stuff usa pa nice man sad nang relationship na naay space para sili sad kaayo mo mabored bah...