is it important?

[yvonne6]

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is it important to choose your friends carefully? the reason i ask is because im not the type nga barkadista. infact i just have one best friend for more than 10 yrs now. i used to have a female friend years ago, infact kumare pa nako eventually maoy gikabit sa akong ex.ouch. wala na kaau ko mo trust sa mga babay after atong hitaboa.my best friend is bayot. naa koy naamiga taud2 napud, babay siya, and i was very sincere, loving, supportive and even generous to her. i took her sa leyte where my dad is, ako siya gilibrehan. nakapuyo siya kadali sa amo and i helped her explain sa iya mom atong nabuntis siya wala sa plano. mga special occasions, naa siya sa amo. i even gave her my old cp. naminyo naman siya ug ni relocate sa dipolog pero mag chat2 japun mi. i only found out about the betrayal atong feb lang.nabasahan nako ang chat log nila sa akong ex kay na hack man nako ang fb acct. friend sad sila sa akong ex. ug wala jud ko nag expect sa akong mga nabasa. pulos jud dautan. to make it worse,birthday pa jud nako siya nag sulti ug dili maau didto sa akong ex. as in i was devastated. wala nako siya gi unfriend sa fb kay gusto ko makabasa siya sa akong mga ibutang pero wala jud nako siya panganli. eventually naka gets siya nga siya akong gi mean. ni private msg nako ug igo lang ni ingon nga dili ko mo deny nga nakasulti ko ana, pero dili na lang ta mag tigi (sa fb) kay kahibalo ko galagut ka. wala man lang ni ask ug apology.i know daghan naka experience ug betrayal sa ilang mga friends. pero how important ba para ninyo ang pag pili sa inyong amigohon, amigahon? ang friends have a big influence in our lives. naa man gani uban madaut tungod sa mga friends, just like my ex. kamo, mo pili bamo sa mga taw inyong i welcome sa inyong life? kanang naay maayo nga contribution sa inyong life or inyong mga friends maau lang ug naa moy kuarta. share pud mo

[labyrinthbw]

so far, wala man koy problema sa akong mga friends, whether long-time friends or those i just recently got to know...
importante man mamili oi
maski gani kanang fb, i-add ra nako whom i think are worth adding...

Anyway, it's always good to run into these kinds of situations coz later on you will learn na how to properly choose your friends...
As they say, you learn from ur mistakes..

[godsaint]

Lesson in Life:trust no one because even your shadow leaves you when you're in darkness..

[pinkpumpkin]

yeah it's impt nga mamili sad ka. naa man gud uban nga wa juy au.. maau lang mangwarta,maau lang moduol kung naay problema. i have a lot of friends pero dili gyud ka-close. storya2 lang gyud pero they dont know anything about my personal life/problems except that am married. akong gi-consider nga friends kay akong sisters ra -- immediate family.

[tenda]

sis yvonne, dont get me wrong. until now wala ka maka get over sa imo ex? why you are still following him? even iyang fb imo gi hack? for what reason? better leave them IMO.

[labyrinthbw]

@tenda it was probably a blessing in disguise nga nag hack cya sa fb account. She wouldn't have known that she was backstabbed by the girl she calls her friend

yvonne, now u know na that u shud be careful in choosing ur friends. U were mostly likely to be too preoccupied with urself, u forgot to look at how sincere the people around u are. Dont give up on making new friends ha. Its good to have them around actually, only if u have the right ones

[tenda]

my apology.

@tenda it was probably a blessing in disguise nga nag hack cya sa fb account. She wouldn't have known that she was backstabbed by the girl she calls her friend

yvonne, now u know na that u shud be careful in choosing ur friends. U were mostly likely to be too preoccupied with urself, u forgot to look at how sincere the people around u are. Dont give up on making new friends ha. Its good to have them around actually, only if u have the right ones

[hans josefina]

yah..choose your friends wisely..but depende raman gud naz taw naa may uban friendly kaayo..

[labyrinthbw]

Mao jud..
Actually kana mga friends, dli mana pasabot nga you run to all of them if you have problems or if you want to express urself to. From among ur circle of friends, lahi lahi na sila ug roles sa imong kinabuhi. Naay isa nga imo jud madaganan kung naa kay troubles with ur heart, naa pud kanang pwede nimo kautangan, etc.
So ayaw i-whole package na imong mga friends kay lahi na ila style if u need them

[KDThunder]

they say u can judge a person by the FRIENDS they keep.. and it's true on two levels.... The obvious meaning is that you can tell a lot about someone by knowing who they keep as friends.. But many life coaches know that the friends u have also shape who you are... u spend a lot of time wd your friends, and you look to them for approval and support... So their influence can be large.. If you look at your friends, you'll see the major influencers in who u currently are..