Inlaws

[keerthi]

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usa ba sa reason ang mother/father inlaw sa broken marriages??



kay nganu man? or unsay mostly problem sa mother inlaw and daughter inlaw relationship?






i need ur comment here for both parent inlaws and daughter/son inlaws..

[pinkpumpkin]

i would say di man unta ni xa sakto nga reason pero naa lang gyud instances nga maka-cause gyud xag broken marriage. mao gyud ni problema kaau. as the husband/wife u need nga makisama sa imong inlaws pero wa jud kay mabuhat if dili sila ganahan nimo.

reasons:
-di pa sila ganahan magminyo ilang anak
-di na sila matagaan ug allotment
-simply di sila ganahan sa na-asawa/na-bana

sa akong experience, grabe kalisud. idk maybe naa lang gyud mga tao nga di kahibaw mo-appreciate kay nganu lagi sa pamilya sa akong x,ok ra lagi ko nila. pero ang karon,di gyud magkasinabot.

[Eve's Apple Project]

In laws should never be the reason. The reason will be between you & your partners ego.
In laws are your extended family. They could help you in times of trouble or they could also make your like a living hell. My in laws hated my gut when i started dating their daughter, but maabot ra sa panahaon nga makita nila nga tarong ko nga tao. I was first judge by my appearance kay kesyo di man ko hilig anang pormalay. Labi na ang akong father in law, he used to hate me but karon magkasinabot jud mi. We respect each other.

Mother in law/ daughter in law relationship?! Medyo lisod ni da kay di man ko babaye. Bt sa akong nakaton-an on how i dealt with my in laws, i think time ra ang answer & support from your partner. It was not easy dealing with my in laws pag una. What made it easy is ang ako wife would talk good things about me to my inlaws ( later ra ko nakabalo ani). She would talk about my good habits & plans, then my inlaws will see it being realised. Maong they would see the consistency of what i do. It took time just like planting a try but later on they will see your good intentions. Daghan paagi on how to win your in laws ts. You just have to learn it yourself. Learn how to be respectful sad. Dont demand for their respect kay impossibly kaayo na nga moabot. I believe nga you can't change the world, but you can change how you see the world. Think of this ts, you have more or less 4 inlaws (depende kung unsa kadako ang pamilya sa imong partner), you want the 4 to change for you? Lisod kaayo na ts, mas dali kung ikaw ang mo change para nila. Accept them, then adjust.

[brian joshua]

wa pa sad ko ka exoerience ug ingun ani pero di sad gyud ni mahitabo namo...

[sarge]

mag lain gud aron di ma problema sa in laws

[burikoy12]

Ayaw jud i-blame ang in-laws. Ug dili mo magkasinabot, pila ra'y paglain ug puyo. Ako gani bespren gihakot sa Canada iyang pamilya aron di na magsamok samok iyang inlaws.

[quirkychinita]

according to my parents, 99% of inlaws di jus makasinabot ang asawa or family sa asawa... reason? their differences.....

But it's not something that leads to a broken marriage...

It even spice it up....

For me, I don't have problems with in-laws. Dali raman pud sila ma-close for me. One thing I noticed for the mother in laws, they're all about cook offs! They like sharing recipes... Oh yeah, they're into soap operas too.... So better be updated with those soap operas cuz that's one of the number one topics you'll be talking about kung kamu rang duha sa imung mommy in law ang mag uban.

for the father in-laws, they're all about machines and they like to tell stories about their son... They want to be listened to, I noticed lang.

[noy]

mura man ni ug kadtong monster in law nga salida..hahaha...
mas maayo jud mag lain..kay kasagaran in laws kay mangigi...

[alloring]

mura man ni ug kadtong monster in law nga salida..hahaha...
mas maayo jud mag lain..kay kasagaran in laws kay mangigi...

true jud ni. been there.... pangigi jud ang main reason.

[loamejan]

In my opinion it is normal ra jud nga ang mga mother/father inlaws are feeling superior towards sa ilang mga son/daughter in laws. dili paman gud usahay andam cla nga minyo na diay ilang anak. I hink time kay make things better raman jud ang pakisama lang sa jud for awhile. then kung mau gihapon ( dili nindot ang treatment) now it time nga maglain jud.