Is it considered an illicit affair?

[naftal]

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What if you have a text mate or chat mate whom you have a relationship but never meet in person. You already build a good foundation thru exchanging of messages. The problem is you are already taken. Is it considered an illicit affair?

[xavisimao]

yes...non physical illicit affair

[naftal]

I know one married girl in this situation. Her hubby is a seaman. She has a lover thru text. Her text mate always insisted to meet her but she always turned down the offer. She said she is setting a limitation and will not cross the border line. Is she considered a cheater?

[xavisimao]

yes she's a cheater and she's stupid... why would she enter in a cyber relationship? (barring married life), i don't get what's the benefit of having an affair thru the wires

[walker]

I know one married girl in this situation. Her hubby is a seaman. She has a lover thru text. Her text mate always insisted to meet her but she always turned down the offer. She said she is setting a limitation and will not cross the border line. Is she considered a cheater?

Yes, she is. She has a lover other than her hubby, what limitation is there to talk about?

Are you the lover?

[naftal]

she said out of boredom

such a stupid reply

[xavisimao]

so you're the husband...

[naftal]

nope. the girl is my close friend since birth.

so you're the husband...

[naftal]

no sir. she is only one of my closest friends. the reason why she will not meet the guy is not to fall into temptation. i think that is what she meant for ''limitation''.

Yes, she is. She has a lover other than her hubby, what limitation is there to talk about?

Are you the lover?

[walker]

no sir. she is only one of my closest friends. the reason why she will not meet the guy is not to fall into temptation. i think that is what she meant for ''limitation''.

She has already fallen into temptation when she had a lover other than her husband. Obviously, she NEVER loved her husband.