To learn just what your name reveals about your *** appeal - what turns you on, off, and over - look
to the definitions below for both the first and last letters of your given name and/or first name used.
While you're at it, why not see what the letters have to say about your mate or lover?
A:
You are not particularly romantic, but you are interested in action. You mean business. With you,
what you see is what you get. You have no patience for flirting and can't be bothered with someone
who is trying to be coy, cute, demure, and subtly enticing. You are an up-front person. When it comes
to ***, it's action that counts, not obscure hints. Your mate's physical attractiveness is important to
you. You find the chase and challenge of the "hunt" invigorating. You are passionate and sexual, as
well as being much more adventurous than you appear; however, you do not go around advertising
these qualities. Your physical needs are your primary concern.
B:
You give off vibes of lazy sensuality. You enjoy being romanced, wined, and dined. You are very
happy to receive gifts as an expression of the affection of your lover. You want to be pampered and
know how to pamper your mate. You are private in your expression of endearments, and particular
when it comes to love making. You will hold off until everything meets with your approval. You can
control your appetite and abstain from *** if need be. You require new sensations and experiences.
You are willing to experiment.
C:
You are a very social individual and it is important to you to have a relationship. You require
closeness and togetherness. You must be able to talk to your *** partner - before, during, and after.
You want the object of your affection to be socially acceptable and good-looking. You see your lover
as a friend and companion. You are most sexual and sensual, needing someone to appreciate and
almost worship you. When this cannot be achieved, you have the ability to go for long periods without
sexual activity. You are an expert at controlling your desires and doing without.
CH:
You are a romantic and a fantasizer. Moonlight and candles are your thing. You don't always see
your lovers as they really are, but as you wish them to be; you idealize your lovers. You're attracted to
intellect, wit, and loquaciousness. You require your lover to be as much a debating partner as a ***
partner. Your relationships tend to be not only dramatic, but traumatic. You are an intense individual
and lover.
D:
Once you get it into your head that you want someone, you move full steam ahead in pursuit. You
do not give up your quest easily. You are nurturing and caring. If someone has a problem, this turns
you on. You are highly sexual, passionate, loyal, and intense in your involvements, sometimes
possessive and jealous. *** to you is a pleasure to be enjoyed. You are stimulated by the eccentric and
unusual, having a free and open attitude.
E:
Your greatest need is to talk. If your date is not a good listener, you have trouble relating. A person
must be intellectually stimulating, or you are not interested sexually. You need a friend for a lover and
a companion for a bedmate. You hate disharmony and disruption, but you do enjoy a good argument
once in a while - it seems to stir things up. You flirt a lot, for the challenge is more important than the
sexual act for you. But once you give your heart away, you are uncompromisingly loyal. When you
don't have a good lover to fall asleep with, you will fall asleep with a good book. (Sometimes you
prefer a good book.)
F:
You are idealistic and romantic, putting your lover on a pedestal. You look for the very best mate
you can find. You are a flirt, yet once committed, you are very loyal. You are sensuous, sexual, and
privately passionate. Publicly you can be showy, extravagant, and gallant. You are a born romantic.
Dramatic love scenes are a favorite fantasy pastime. You can be a most generous lover.
G:
You are fastidious, seeking perfection within yourself and your lover. You respond to a lover who
is your intellectual equal or superior, and one who can enhance your status. You are sensuous and
know how to reach the peak of erode stimulation, because you work at it meticulously. You can be
extremely active sexually - that is, when you find the time. Your duties and responsibilities take
precedence. You may have difficulty getting emotionally close to a lover, but no trouble getting close
sexually.
H:
You seek out a mate who can enhance your reputation and your earning ability. You will be very
generous to your lover once you have attained a commitment. Your gifts are actually an investment in
your partner. Before the commitment, though, you tend to be frugal in your spending and dating
habits, and equally as cautious in your sexual involvements. You are a sensual and patient lover.
I:
You have a great need to be loved, appreciated ... even worshipped. You enjoy luxury, sensuality,
and pleasures of the flesh. You seek out lovers who know what they are doing. You are not interested
in an amateur, unless that amateur wants a tutor. You are fussy and exacting about having your desires
satisfied. You are willing to experiment and try new modes of sexual expression. You are bored easily
and thus require sexual adventure and change. You are more sensual than sexual, but you are
sometimes downright lustful.
J:
You are blessed with a great deal of physical energy. When it is used for love making, there is
nothing to stop you, except maybe the stamina of your partner. (You could have danced all night.)
You respond to the thrill of the chase and the challenge of the mating game. You can carry on great
romances in your head. At heart you are a roamer and need to set out on your own every so often. You
will carry on long-distance relationships with ease. You are idealistic and need to believe in love. The
*** act seems to satisfy a need to be nurtured deep within.
K:
You are secretive, self-contained, and shy. You are very sexy, sensual, and passionate, but you do
not let on about this. Only in intimate privacy will this part of your nature reveal itself. When it gets
down to the nitty-gritty, you are an expert. You know all the little tricks of the trade, can play any role
or any game, and take your love life very seriously. You don't fool around. You have the patience to
wait for the right person to come along.
L:
You can be very romantic, attached to the glamour of love. Having a partner is of paramount
importance to you. You are free in your expression of love and are willing to take chances, try new
sexual experiences and partners, provided it's all in good taste. Brains turn you on. You must feel that
your partner is intellectually stimulating, otherwise you will find it difficult to sustain the relationship.
You require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know that you're appreciated.
M:
You are emotional and intense. When involved in a relationship, you throw your entire being into
it. Nothing stops you; there are no holds barred. You are all-consuming and crave someone who is
equally passionate and intense. You believe in total sexual freedom. You are willing to try anything
and everything. Your supply of sexual energy is inexhaustible. You enjoy mothering your mate.
N:
You may appear innocent, unassuming, and shy; but we know that appearances can lie. When it
comes to ***, you are no novice, but something of a skilled technician. You can easily go to extremes,
though, running the gamut from insatiability to boredom with the whole idea of ***. You can be
highly critical of your mate, seeking perfection in both of you. It is not easy to find someone who can
meet your standards. You have difficulty expressing emotions and drawing close to lovers.
O:
You are very interested in sexual activities, yet secretive about your desires and shy. You can rechannel
much of your sexual energies into making money and/or seeking power. You can easily have
extended periods of celibacy. You are a passionate, compassionate, sexual lover, requiring the same
qualities from your mate. *** is serious business; thus you demand intensity, diversity, and are willing
to try anything or anyone. Sometimes your passions turn to possessiveness, which must be kept in
check.
P:
You are very conscious of social proprieties. You wouldn't think of doing anything that might harm
your image or reputation. Appearances count. Therefore, you require a good-looking partner. You
also require an intelligent partner. Oddly enough, you may view your partner as your enemy ... a good
fight stimulates those *** vibes. You are relatively free of sexual hangups. You are willing to
experiment and try new ways of doing things. You are very social and sensual; you enjoy flirting and
need a good deal of physical gratification.
Q:
You require constant activity and stimulation. You have tremendous reserves of physical energy. It
is not easy for a partner to keep up with you sexually or otherwise. You are an enthusiastic lover,
being attracted to ethnic people. You need romance, hearts and flowers, and lots of conversation to
turn you on and keep you going.
R:
You are a no-nonsense, action-oriented individual. You need someone who can keep pace with
you and who is your intellectual equal - the smarter the better. You are turned on more quickly by a
great mind than by a great body. However, physical attractiveness is very important to you. You have
to be proud of your partner. You are privately very sexy, but you do not show this outwardly. If your
new lover is not all that great in bed, you are willing to serve as teacher. *** is important; you can be
a very demanding playmate.
S:
For you, it is business before pleasure. If you are in any way bothered by career, business, or
money concerns, you find it very hard to relax and get into the mood. You can be romantically
idealistic to a fault and are capable of much sensuality. But you never lose control of your emotions.
You are very careful and cautious before you give your heart away - and your body, for that matter.
Once you make the commitment, though, you stick like glue.
T:
You are very sensitive, private, and sexually passive; you like a partner who takes the lead. You
get turned on by music, soft lights, and romantic thoughts. You fantasize and tend to fall in and out of
love. When in love, you are romantic, idealistic, mushy, and extremely changeable. You enjoy having
your senses and your feelings stimulated, titillated, and teased. You are a great flirt. You can make
your relationships fit your dreams, all in your own head.
U:
You are enthusiastic and idealistic when in love. When not in love, you are in love with love,
always looking for someone to adore. You see romance as a challenge. You are a roamer and need
adventure, excitement, and freedom. You deal in potential relationships. You enjoy giving gifts and
enjoy seeing your mate look good. Your *** drive is strong and you desire instant gratification. You
are willing to put your partner's pleasures above your own.
V:
You are individualistic and you need freedom, space, and excitement. You wait until you know
someone well before committing yourself. Knowing someone means psyching them out. You feel a
need to get into their head to see what makes them tick. You are attracted to unusual, eccentric types.
Quite often there is an age difference between you and your lover. You respond to danger, thrills, and
suspense. The gay scene turns you on, even though you yourself may not be a participant.
W:
You are very proud, determined, and you refuse to take no for an answer when pursuing love.
Your ego is at stake. You are romantic, idealistic, and often in love with love itself, not seeing your
partner as he or she really is. You feel deeply and throw all of yourself into your relationships.
Nothing is too good for your lover. You enjoy playing love games.
X:
You need constant stimulation as you are bored quickly. You can handle more than one
relationship at a time with ease. You can't shut off your mind. You talk while you make love. You can
have the greatest love affairs, all by yourself, in your own head.
Y:
You are sexual, sensual, and very independent. If you can't have it your way, you will forgo the
whole thing. You want to control your relationships, which doesn't always work out too well. You
respond to physical stimulation, enjoy necking and spending hours just touching, feeling, and
exploring. However, if you can spend your time more profitably making money, you will give up the
pleasures of the flesh for the moment. You need to prove to yourself and your partner what a great
lover you are. You want feedback on your performance. You are an open, stimulating, romantic bed
mate.
Z:
You are very romantic, idealistic, and somehow you believe that to love means to suffer. You wind
up serving your mate, or attracting people who have unusual troubles. You see yourself as your lover's
savior. You are sincere, passionate, lustful, and dreamy. You can't help falling in love. You fantasize
and get turned on by movies and magazines. You do not tell others of this secret life, nor of your
sexual, fantasies You are easily aroused sexually.
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Taken from the Book:
Your Name Is Your Destiny
By: Shirlee Kiley And Rochelle Gordon