When Enough is ENOUGH

[l_a_t_i_k_a]

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There was this guy i fell in love with. He was so loving caring and thoughtful kaya
cguro na fall jud ko. Things went smoothly for the first year, we decided to live in
the same roof, bought things for our little family, going out for date but after that
things started to change.

There was one time i caught him trying to hook up with a girl sa internet. He had
multiple accounts of email. He was even on a dating site!
Bisan sakpan na deny to death kaayo cya. But i still forgave him.

Then i caught him texting with his Xgirlfriend planning on a date. WTH
Daghan jud kaayo xa rason and nadala ra pod ko.

And lately, he started coming home late and most of the times drunk. He wants to be with his
friends rather stay in the house with me. And if ever hes at home, he is always not in the mood
to talk and seems very irritant when i make lambing..
Everything changed and probably his love for me too.

Its very painful to the extent na the last thing i do in the night and the very first thing i do in the
morning is to cry.

So i talked to him face to face heart to heart, i told him everything from the changes to the pain
he is causing me. I told him i want to move out and leave him. And the most painful thing i heard
was "OK, anything you want". My heart just torn into pieces. The 3year relationship has ended.
Enough is enough, is what i have been telling my heart.

[*sludge*]

better now than never... it's a good thing you didnt decide to tie the knot..his actions are clear manifestations of loving someone else..i dont know if there is some part in you that made him change but, i dont think it matters anymore...just move on.. maybe the right guy for you still busy with work and have not found you yet

[l_a_t_i_k_a]

i dont know if there is some part in you that made him change but, i dont think it matters anymore...just move on.. maybe the right guy for you still busy with work and have not found you yet

In my part i think i did everything for him, I was a mom, a lover, a friend, a cook, a labandera, a housekeeper everything.
And to mention I am 10 years younger than he is.
But probably its not enough for him.
Sakit jud kaayo but I have to let go and move on na jud.

[muchacha00]

na sobraan ra nimo TS.. wala naka nag bilin para imo........

na wala na cguro imng pag ka sexy TS.. og na pasagdaan na nimo imong figure .. kaka labada.... basin og maid naka para niya.... paets... ana klaseng taw oi.. mag mahay rana siya TS>...

[*sludge*]

In my part i think i did everything for him, I was a mom, a lover, a friend, a cook, a labandera, a housekeeper everything.
And to mention I am 10 years younger than he is.
But probably its not enough for him.
Sakit jud kaayo but I have to let go and move on na jud.

10 years younger in age pero 10 years older in maturity siguro ....ok rana miga, at least you made a good decision, maybe in time mag mahay siya, and maybe mo attempt siya makigbalik..usually mkahibaw lang ka sa value sa butang/person if wala na sya nimo ....good luck sa moving on

[l_a_t_i_k_a]

na sobraan ra nimo TS.. wala naka nag bilin para imo........

na wala na cguro imng pag ka sexy TS.. og na pasagdaan na nimo imong figure .. kaka labada.... basin og maid naka para niya.... paets... ana klaseng taw oi.. mag mahay rana siya TS>...

hehe bitaw guilty ko ana.. i gained a few pounds jud. but not that huge oi. I am going to school baya
but i make sure na i dont get fat or too fat.. And i also made sure na i give him ample time..
hahayyy..

[muchacha00]

ok raman na mo LOVE pero... ayaw lang sad ipakita sa iyaha tanan.. na u cant live without him.... kay mag salig rana....

[justinblake]

Basin naa pod kay pagkuwang niya TS...mao naingon ana na siya.. Try to evaluate your self usa... Kong okay tanan after your evaluation, that's the time nga imo siya e confront, talk to him nga dili siya hubog, ask all those things nga sa tan-aw nimo nganong nausab siya.

Coz sometimes dili ta kabantay nga nakahimo nata ug sayop diay sa atong partner.

[Klave]

Kuyaw gyud kaayo na concept ang cohabiting para nako.
Para nako para ra gyud na sa minyo or couple nga naay baby.
Lisud man gyud kaayo kung uyab pa unya sayon ra kaayo ang access.
Dali ma-take-for-granted ang each other, kay kibaw ra inig uli naa na dayon.

I find you very mature for leaving when others find it impossible, kay love lagi daw.
You should always to love yourself first before others, that way you'll easily find that you are being mistreated.
Anyways, you just gave yourself a better chance in life, both in happiness and career-wise.

[l_a_t_i_k_a]

I know its not moral to live together before marriage, but for me i refer living first before marriage
to know your partner and VV. He has been courting me for a year and 2 months, he was the man
i thought he was. What if we got married first and all these things happened after the marriage, cguro
maghilak nlang ko forever regretting the decisions i made especially if wala na jud way para mo work
out and marriage. But thats just my OPV.

But Im glad i did lived with him first. Im glad i was hurt, sounds crazy but somehow im glad things
happened. Lisod jud kaayo pag move on, but i know i can. Time heals. Time has the antidote, i believe.