what can you say?

[highvoltage]

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i have gf, we've been in a relationship for a very long time, and now she suddenly said "i love you very much, napul-an ko, i need space i just need time para mawala ra ni dili ko makigbuwag nimu kay love tika.." i am very confused of what she said to me, and there is no third party involved and she is always busy on her work not knowing that i am always here to relieve her stress, i really love her so much and im afraid i might lose her, help istoryans, what should i do?

[brian joshua]

[t3nd3rb3ar]

then give her what she wants--- space.
wah mn kaha jud 3rd party bro??
maybe she needs time for her self or unsa pa dha.
trust mn kha jud ka nya?
ahw. ihatag unsa iya gusto.
if kamo, kamo jud.

[bojaxx24]

Ga.e time boss, everything will be clear man at the end. Yaw ra cge huna2 na nagbulag mo.

[Tristan25]

Taga.i ug space bai basig naa sad ka pirmi sumpot nya. bantayi lang paraa sure walay 3rd party

[highvoltage]

ako jud siya gipangutana nganu gipul-an siya and she told me "in every relationship naa jud tao mapul-an pero it doesn't mean na dili na tika love, nangayo ra ko og space kung nganu ingon ani ako gibati" unsay buot pasabot ani? wala man pud 3rd party nahitabo kay sa iyang work puros naman taken or married iya mga kauban.

[highvoltage]

need more advices please..........

[anix]

tagaig time. everybody needs some space to grow. maybe confused lang sya kung ano uunahin niya. cool off muna. but of course during that time, do not keep your hopes up, during the time na mag cool of mo, give yourself some time din. ing ana lang man na.

[quirkychinita]

good to be back here.....

hi!

here's what i see here. two sides.

on the negative side she's asking for space from you cuz she needs time to think if kaya pa ba nia to continue bisan she kinda feels that she's drifting apart from you. a woman in love tends to get needy for a knight in shining armour to save her from the stress crisis and troubles through you. unsa lugar? kung in love ko and i have problems? why would i want to be away from a prrson who would make me feel better?


on the positive side.
maybe she's got so many problems and di na nia makaya i handle and pag juggle sa work plus family plus friends plus something else plus lovelife. there are women na ingana. maybe di siya ganahan mutug an nimu unsa ang problem kay samukan ra xa sa interrogation. dont tell me if ingnan ka na naa problem imu uyab di ka musigi sigi ask for probing questions? sumtyms stressful mutubag ana kay the more maremind xa sa problem. pwede pud basig naa diay siya surprise nimu. gbutangan sa niag gamay na drama. diba? my ex did that to me and in the end abi nako magbuwag mi. nagprepaee man diay xag graduation party for me. pwede pud na sigi mug uban and she wants u too miss her. u know the feeling? that wonderful feeling na dugay mo wala nagkita and suddenly ur together? i think she wants that.


theres so many possibilities but u cant do a thing but do as what she said and trust her. if there aint no trust... there aint no love, bro.

all u can do for now is go back to ur friends and enjoy a breather from ur sweetheart.

i know ull be fine.

u will be!



good vibes bro!

[disenchanted]

TS, in order for a relationship to work, put your partner first in your life.. Now that she said napul-an na siya, give her space.. let her miss you.. Then that will be the only way ma measure nimu if she truly loves you coz she will come back..