to married people: kung ikaw ang papilion..

[iamU]

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wat if naay indifferences ang inyong hinigugma ug ang inyong pamilya?

kinsa inyong pilion, inyong ginikanan or inyong asawa/bana?

[J.Abz]

let me throw you back this question...

asa man imong permi dugan igka gabii?? -- imong ginikanan or imong bana or asawa??

your answer would be the answer to your question whom to choose.....

[iamU]

ang bana/asawa jud syempre.. kay mao mn sad mupahalipay nato. pero syempre, dba.. naa mn sad jud situations nga u will be ask to choose between the two..

[J.Abz]

its a situational answer that I would say to you..

it all depends on what situation you are called for.... If your the only child and your parents needs you most.. then you can explain your wife/husband that your parents need you sa...

if your not the only child and you have brothers and sisters and your parents is in an emergency situation... then im sure one or the other of your brothers or sister would rise up to the occasion and help your parents.. it doesn't need to be only you to help them....

bottomline, it depends ra na giunsa nimo pagpasabot nila or sa imong wife or husband...

communication and understanding is all there is

[brian joshua]

asawa..........

[THE KID]

try to merge the gaps.................

[reginakrys]

bana.. kay pagminyo pa lang daan, mura naman nag declaration nga mao na na imong immediate family, not anymore your parents and siblings..

[zener_101]

asawa sab ako.....

[malditah]

yeah..lisod jud nih.pero ako i.choose kai ako husband,the moment na gi.allow ta sa ato parent magminyo ila npud na gi.ainticipate na there are times we have to be in our family which is ang atong bana/asawa ug anak.

Good thing wala ko ani nga problema, i was the only child of a single mom. I don't want to leave my mother alone, maayo ra pud nisugot ako husband na ari xa namu puyo. It's just a matter of sabot-sabot ra jud. hehehe

[joylove]

matud pas akong mama ang anak hinuwam lang daw na, ig dako sa mga anak mo separate napd ug mo build ug family.

kani sia na situation lisud naa kaau mo pili between the two. if by chance ma in ani man gani ang situation before ko mo choose timbang timbangun sa nako.. unya nako mag huna2x if nana ko sa diha na situation