friends........ lang!

[yujjieo]

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guys, share lang ko ha and i wanna know your thoughts. few months ago, i shared about my relationship with my ex girlfriend and how we broke up. i was really torn then. i went through hell.

now, we're good friends. i've moved on. things are back to normal. naa na xa'y uyab. ako pd, naa nako'y ka.iring2 lain. we share to each other kung unsa na.. thing is, im starting to have this feelings again for her. but i just can't tell her. hadlok nako gd nga if i tell her, mawala najud xa. i can't risk our friendship for this stupid feeling cz i don't want to lose her..

naa naman pd xa'y uyab. then ako, i have somebody special naman sd. barkada man gd mi, so mgkakita jd mi. i thought i was okay na. pero ahak ui, naa man jud koi ma.feel no matter how i try to deny it.

five years pd mi atong bayhana before mi nagbuwag. we shared a lot of things together so its really hard to break the contact. back then, (katong wa pami nagkauyab), i hesitated to make a move cz i don't want to risk the friendship. now, im having this feeling again..

i wanna know your thoughts about this matter guys. thanks!


also, we consider each other as 'special friends' ky suod kau mi tungod ky 5 years baya mi. dghan na kau mi'g nahibaw-an sa usag usa.

[brian joshua]

nagmuni2 ra ka TS....
ayaw lng ilahos ug "special friends with benefits"
panggaa lng na imo ka iring2
ayaw pada sa kainit TS, be a good "special friend" ha....

[nakaigo]

sakto imong thread title TS...
friends lang!!!...
mag sakit2x na pud ka?
ganahan gyud ka balik2x sa impyerno...tsk tsk tsk

[Missmary]

Ex-lovers to friends? Nah. It never works. You'd either end up lovers again or drift away. Get over her and be done with it especially as you both have other lovers now. You are only punishing yourself and not being fair to your current GF.

[cuteboy_kahoy]

TS maka relate jud ko nimo subra wahahaha...barakada mo kami childhood friend, silingan og barkada sa akong mga sister...we been lovers pag highschool then break up for 4 years then lovers again pag college for 3 years and 1 year buwag till now..naa na sya uyab, ako dili sa ko..hehe what makes it sad we decide to treat each other as strangers again pra dili mag selos iyang new.....

bitaw TS sa dili jud lalim sa part sa lalaki usahay...."Denying your Feelings for her is the best Defense Mechanism" ...

[yujjieo]

nagmuni2 ra ka TS....
ayaw lng ilahos ug "special friends with benefits"
panggaa lng na imo ka iring2
ayaw pada sa kainit TS, be a good "special friend" ha....

dili lang kai nagmunimuni ni akua brad. ok naman mi. tinud.anai jd amung pgka.amigu.. kaso lang, kbw man mi unsai tnuod gd. kanang iyang uyab karon, nadala raman na sa sungog sa iyang mga kauban sa duty bah. then i admit, naa jd koi pagkukulang nya. lain rajud amung relationship gd sa una. but still, deny to death jd nga naa pako'y feelings nya ky kapui na magbalikbalik.

sakto imong thread title TS...
friends lang!!!...
mag sakit2x na pud ka?
ganahan gyud ka balik2x sa impyerno...tsk tsk tsk

its not like impyerno tong sa una gd brad. our relationship was full of good memories and that's one of the reasons why we treasured each other. friends raman jd. dili nasad ko mubalik.

Ex-lovers to friends? Nah. It never works. You'd either end up lovers again or drift away. Get over her and be done with it especially as you both have other lovers now. You are only punishing yourself and not being fair to your current GF.

missmary, maybe wala paka kasuway nga grabe imung attachments sa imung ex. its like u know nga everything was so good between you two. we weren't just lovers man gd. its like the whole world knows nga buy one take one mong duha. mu nah, we maintained our friendship til now. we're very close. actually, na.ok najud unta ko. kaso, sa ka close nuon namu, i started to like her again. hahaaai. by the way, wa ko'y uyab run. ka.iring2 lang. d paman sd ko ready. serious type of guy ko. if naa ko sa relationship, seryoso jd ko.

TS maka relate jud ko nimo subra wahahaha...barakada mo kami childhood friend, silingan og barkada sa akong mga sister...we been lovers pag highschool then break up for 4 years then lovers again pag college for 3 years and 1 year buwag till now..naa na sya uyab, ako dili sa ko..hehe what makes it sad we decide to treat each other as strangers again pra dili mag selos iyang new.....

bitaw TS sa dili jud lalim sa part sa lalaki usahay...."Denying your Feelings for her is the best Defense Mechanism" ...

im thankful brad nga kasabot ka. kbw man cguro ka sa feeling nga murag nindot na kaayo makigbalik pero d jud pwede. u know u still have that chance and that flame pero something's holding you back. sakit pero at the same time, happy ka.


thanks sa inyung responses. to be honest, right now, its not only friendship ang naa namung duha run. she's really special to me and she told me im special to her too. but wa lang jud ko kasabot.

[brackitz]

unsy hinundan sa inyong break up sa imung ex ts?

[brian joshua]

dili lang kai nagmunimuni ni akua brad. ok naman mi. tinud.anai jd amung pgka.amigu.. kaso lang, kbw man mi unsai tnuod gd. kanang iyang uyab karon, nadala raman na sa sungog sa iyang mga kauban sa duty bah. then i admit, naa jd koi pagkukulang nya. lain rajud amung relationship gd sa una. but still, deny to death jd nga naa pako'y feelings nya ky kapui na magbalikbalik.

pero kung magkasinabot mo brad, why not dba? pero kung di na jd pwede makigbalik...sakto rman tingali na imo gbuhat hehe

[rockyroad2346]

pro lisod sad na TS kay tabla ra'g giilad nimo imong kaugalingon. magkasumpaki kanunay imong utok ug kasing2x ana.

[yiennahs]

it's not good to be friends with your ex kay makahindum rata sa di dapat mahinumduman lols