to spank or not?

[ederlyf]

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beating children doesn't mean you are just angry with them. It is simply discipline. you spank your kid to tell them that they commit mistakes, or they did something wrong that should not happen again.Beating means loving ang caring for them.They will misinterpret it unless you explain why you did this kind of discipline. Communication to your child is the best way learn and understand.

[ederlyf]

big check_/

[THE LAST CLONE]

nag istorya.net na c Shakespeare.. ipa.nabi kunis clouds.!

[THE KID]

i was excited, i thought porn......

[unagikabayaki]

Not for me, im not a spanking person, sometimes though i do shout at my kid, then talk to him in a very caring manner about what he did wrong then i-laag dayon, kasuway ko spank niya one time pero ako may nasakitan (emotionally) that is why so far wala nako naka spank niya...

[mrvs19]

Spankin means discipline mn, naa na mga kids krn dgko na ug ulo, salig d bunalan. Ako sa una, nbunalan rko maihap ra, dha rmn nimu ma distinguish sayop jd im gbuhat. Mao d na nimu buhaton usob. Mhdlok nko mgbnuang2x ky agi sa bakos or tukog.

[mang_erning]

Kun sa america, believe dyud ko sa akong mga uncles, titas ug cousins nako na naay anak. Di nila bunalan ilang anak.. Magstorya ra sila unya makasabot ra dyud ang mga bata na sayop.. kasab-an lang sila unya muhilak pa dyud..

Mudepend ra dyud na unsaon pagdala ninyo sa bata oi.. Dapat naa moi connection and unya inyo etreat ang bata na makasabot pud, na rational pud ng mga bata or just make the kid understand. Di man dapat dapatan kai matraumatize nya.. Unya todlo-an ug fear which means di maayo. maka affect na sa paggrow up sa bata as a person. Maka affect na sa mental state ug confidence sa bata.

dont limit the kids brain kai malimit pud na iyang mga dreams or capacity.

Dili mana maayo na idea kai tungog love nimo ang bata imong bunalan. Gi hatag baya na sa ginoo kai gihimo na out of love. Kun kita maka sala sugot mo kuhaon dayon mo sa Ginoo kai love ta sa Ginoo?

[xinevirtucio]

<ngdako sa bunal...bakus ug uban pa...

Turned out fine. Finished college with no setbacks...took the board exam and passed....no retakes...

Traumatized? I should be in a mental institution right now...with the type of discipline that was implemented in our house...

I excel in what I do. I may not be a board top notcher...but I am not a mediocre person....

discipline...bunal and all...kept me in the top 10 since primary school to highschool.

bunal and all kept me straight during college...and even when I was rebellious it never got out of control...

bunal and all...taught me at an early age that life is unfair...it taught me that people will lie to get you punished...

it taught me that life is not a bed of roses...

bunal and all...showed me the reality...my parents never trapped me in a fairy tale world...

yes I am an only child...but i never grew up spoiled...I had to earn the things that I want to have...

my mother kept a perfect balance between love...and discipline...and I never hated her..for raising her hand at me...

i never hated her..for spanking me with a leather belt...i never hated her for making me kneel for a couple of hours...

i also had to eat sili for talking back to her...

my mother and i had the worst fights...and I never hated her..for having such an iron fist around my neck...true...my mother is a control freak...but i wouldn;t be where I am now if not for the iron fist of hers.

The last time I had myself check..my mental state is perfect...and my confidence...is within the appropriate limits...

in other words...spank accordingly..

leniency....has its limits...look at the kids around you...

do you want your kids..to spend the wee hours of the night drinking...getting drunk with some random guy?

do you want your kids...to spend all your hard earned money on alcohol and cigarettes?

do you want your kids...to come up to you one day and tell you..she's pregnant and she has no idea who the father is..because she was too drunk to even remember?

with the society's influence on children..talking some sense to them..may be an uphill battle...

I am old school..and I believe in corporal punishment...(as long as it is done accordingly)...because that is how I was raised...

responsibility for your actions...should be taught at an early age..

sometimes...children don't listen anymore because that is what they see on TV...that is their influence...

sometimes...you need to be imposing..to emphasize your point..sometimes..being imposing may involve...spanking...

this is my own opinion..because again..that is how I grew up...I may be an only child..but I did not grew up in a bed of roses...

I do not talk about my personal problems with my mother because she already has too many problems to think about...

so..at an age where teenagers are gushing about boys...I learned to handle all the emotions myself...

we never had that S*x talk..parents should give their children..I had to learn it on my own...

sometimes...fear..keeps you straight!

[dv1000]

God says, "Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him." (Proverbs 22:15) "He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes." (Proverbs 13:24)

Man says, "Spanking will cause low self-esteem and even traumatize kids."

Now you choose....

[Saickiek]

naa ranas bata if mgpadala cya sa kasaba. nganu gud tawn kasab.an ug bunalan kung wala sila nabuhat na daotan. ako gali sauna permi ko mabunalan kay laagan kiatan ug uban pang dili mao na buhaton sa bata ako nabuhat. pero karun natarung njud tawn ko tungod kay gibunalan ko permi sako mama sauna.