if u were to be asked

[yvonne6]

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now that the case has been filed for my ex (estafa and theft), after 7 years, he finally added me on his fb account that does not even contain a picture of our son. he made this on his attempt to convince me to drop the charges. on his fb wall, he posted that he is sorry for everything, mentioned me and our son's name, that he admitted he is screwed up. in my heart, he would not do this if not for the cases that i filed against him. kung kamoy pangutan on, do u really think nga sincere ni siya sa iyang pag mahay? i will answer my own question to start with, my answer would be, no. i mean, if i drop these charges, he will still go back to what he has been doing. na baranggay nami sa una, wala man gani motagam.

[wanderingsoul]

what's the use of this thread if you have the answer? where is this leading to?
I still believe that it isn't cool to be washing your dirty linen in public especially when it comes to your family even if he's your ex. Sorry just my two cents.

[istoryamember]

^^ ladlad ra kaayo?

@yvonne6: padayon

[ulyssa_marie]

Just my opinion...

"You can't teach an old dog new tricks".

Unless a miracle did happen, most people dont change ... sure, mistakes can be learned from. but if it was in his character to do what he did, then it can be assumed that he won't change after you drop the charges.

Second... if he was really that sincere about his apology, he could have done it to your face.. and not on facebook.

[yvonne6]

what's the use of this thread if you have the answer? where is this leading to?
I still believe that it isn't cool to be washing your dirty line n in public especially when it comes to your family even if he's your ex. Sorry just my two cents.

one's judgement may not be the same as others. its your
opinion i u think its washing dirty linens in public. im just trying to see if others see things differently as i do. if i keep this things to myself, doesnt make any difference, the person committed a crime against me. this is a free country and like my teacher said, there are no stupid questions. if others dont like to comment, then dont. respetaay lang ta diri.

[THE KID]

my answer is no....maau ng patagmon...........

[yvonne6]

^^mao jud bro. ug wala masakpi iyang gibuhat, i bet magpadayun pa jud. ug wala lang mag himo ug illegal, wala man untay problema bah.

[jom22488]

ayaw oi... abig ladlaray kaau na xa sa fb doesn't mean nausab nana... kataas pd atong deadline niya saona... pdaun na aron mo tagam..

[miokz]

TS, you said NO and it's the bravest thing that I have ever heard from a woman.
You did it right, and doing what is right is always the hardest way in any option there is.
Just keep on praying. Been subscribing to your threads, and I feel that this isn't easy.

[yvonne6]

^^thanks kaau bro. nice man sad d i ni nga feeling nga hatagan nimo ug justice imong kaugalingon. its not easy jud bro. stressful and gasto kaau. balik2 sa police station, ang mga documents, pag adtu2 ug asa para ma recover imong butang, pagdala sa imong witness, paghimo sa mga affidavit, sangkatutak na photocopy, filing fee sa prosecutor's office. nabiya biyaan pa gani nako among anak nga 5 years old nga gi asthma para lang ma trabaho ko ni. ugly but this will leave a mark in his life. ambot lang ug dili pa siya makat on. mao ni uban, ayaw intawn ninyo dauta ang inyong lives, ayaw palabia ang barkada ug ayaw mog sulay sa dili maayu nga bisyo, basig mao nay hinungdan maguba ang inyong kaugmaon ug maguba ang inyong maayong relasyon sa inyong pamilya