How To Avoid Arguments

[veronica sophia]

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Communication between relationship partners should be loving and respectful; verbal attacks by contrast are highly destructive. It is often not so much what is said that causes the damage, but the tone of voice and body language which accompanies it.
Arguments thrive on men failing to pay sufficient attention to women’s feelings, and women being critically disapproving of men. Either one may be the initial trigger, because a man’s inattentiveness can cause a woman to get upset and express disapproval, and a woman’s disapproval can cause a man to get defensive and stop listening to how she is feeling.
When men make mistakes they become frustrated and angry, and are best left alone until they calm down. Men consider apologies to be admissions of guilt; women view apologies as expressions of compassion. This difference of perception is why men are generally much less willing to apologise than women.
When engaged in an argument, men use strong and aggressive words to ensure that they win the argument, and women are frequently forced to back down in the face of a totally determined and implacable opponent. Men then feel that they have won the argument, but it is a hollow victory as their partners have not changed their views, but merely buried them in order to avoid an ever-escalating conflict. Sometimes people prefer to evade arguments instead of engaging in them. Men tend to do so by withdrawing inside themselves and refusing to talk; women often just pretend that the disagreement has been forgotten. The resultant peace is a cold one, because the issues continue festering unresolved.
To stop communication degenerating into arguments, men should strive to listen without getting defensive, and women should try to express their feelings without criticising their partners.

[redjvshopnshop]

how to avoid?...

learn shinpo!

[Genocide]

how to avoid? undang lang sa ug uyab2 para way lalis/away && para way labad sa ulo.

[yiennahs]

why would you avoid arguments in a relationship when it's a good thing? you gotta have to learn to deal with it

[nakaigo]

ganahan kaayo nis veronica ug google...

[LeeLeePot]

KARYUUUU NO KENNNN!!!!!


learn that. mahilom imong nagger na partner pag mukalit lan kag shagit ana. tried and tested. clinically proven!

[princess_21]

hilum nalang para kapuyan sya yawyaw muhunong ra na kung di tubayan...

[Genocide]

@LeeLeePot: basin ma hilum kay nya ang imo partner kay mag nganga na mag tanga ba mahibong unsa imo gi yaw yaw. hahahaha!

[BLX90Six1]

Open your mind and be cool to understand... swallow your pride.

[mrvs19]

talk about it kung d namu hot tempered.