Help me PLEASE...

[bleedinglove]

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i have a bf for years na. a year ago, he started working in one of the biggest call centers in IT park. when he started, it was all fine. he wants to spend most of his time wiith me and everything was ok. then he got transferred to another account where he got to meet new people dat turned out to be a bad influence to him. liman ka ingnon xa na "cge man kkag uyab2x oi." it was then that he started to change. i admit that i'm possessive, jealous and paranoid. there was this certain girl sa iya fb friend na murag "special" btaw nya, lami kaau xag mga comments, etc. i asked him and he said wa ra daw na. but his officemates are teasing him towards that girl. "crush" daw sa akong uyab ang girl and when i asked him about it, ana xa natrippan ra daw xa sa iya officemates. i told him that of all the single guys sa iyang account, ikaw jud ang ingon ana-an. then he said to just drop the issue and i did. his attitude change for the worst. kung unsa xa ka patient and understanding before, karn dali na kaau xa masuko nako. before he would say that being with me is enough for me but now he would say that i am isolating him from his friends. he changed his fb password for me not to gain access when before iya ra ng ihatag nako without asking him. he would let me hold his fone but karn always bantay sirado kay kung mtan-aw ko. he told me na ako na daw iya i-marry and even asked if ok ra bah ma-engage but dugy pa ang kasal nya karon ingnon lng ko na "nganong mag-ingn ana ka, minyo d i ta?" he changed 360 degrees. nag-studio2x ra pd nako xa while stalking the girl. then i found out na daghan na au xag gppamakak nako. i would want to talk to him in a civil way but i know it's either he will avoid the issue or get mad at me. napuno nako mao tong ako xang gconfront if he is hiding something from me. nasuko xag maau, he told me i'm so paranoid and selfish. he keeps saying i don''t trust him but how could i trust him if he gives me a reason not to. actions would speak louder. naghilak nako and iyang gsulti ra kay "ayaw cgeg drama dinha". he is never that mean to me before. i asked him ngano ka and he said nga na-bato daw xa tungod nako. i gave him everything. i blew my chances to work abroad para lng to stay and be with him. i may have locked him down, but i had a reason to. i was protecting our relationship. either way, nagpatintal man ghapon xa. he was too blinded na sa kalingaw nya sa iyang trabaho, sa iyang bag-ong mga kaila, or possibly sa iyang bag-ong babae na na forget na jud nya and pila ka-years namong relationship. he completely forgot his love for me.

sakit kaau karon pra nako iyang gbuhat. worst pa jud ky nna-happen ni xa befoore sa akong ex before nya and he was even the one who comforted me. siya pay ga-ingon2x na kalimtan nako akong ex kay wa xay kwenta, maypa xa nlng daw akong i-love. nya mao na ni iyang nabuhat nako karon. everyone tells me na pasagdii xa. let him be and give him space. as much as i would want to, gimingaw kaau ko nya. i want to be with him but i am stopping myself coz i know wala na jud xa nako. i have friends man saying na ok ra daw na, he'll come around. but akong fear is, what if he doesnt? i don''t know what to do now. everytime i'm out with friends i'd forget the pain i'm feeling but when i get home, mohilak na sad ko. ma-feel nsad nako ang sakit.

now he doesnt talk to me. i dont even know what we are ryt now, if buwag na bah mi or cool off. i just found out that he made another fb account and invited only his offiicemates and that girl. he even blocked me so that i wouldnt see it. we just work across each other pa jd, atbang ra mig building. naa juy chance magkakita mi. i don't know what to do na jud. wala miy closure. love pa jud nako cya, but khbw ko d na ko nya love as much as before. they say na stupid ra jud kaayo ko if mo-give in pako nya but i think na naa man pd koy sala. i just wanted a chance to start over but d nman xa. he had succumb to the temptation of bachelorhood that is poisoning BPO companies. i had been a viictim of it before but he said that he'll never be as weak as me and that he is better. but wala ra ghapon, na-tintal jud xa.

i dont know what to do now. unsa man, mo-let go ko or mo-fyt? mo-huwat ko or mo-move on? mobalik pa kha xa nako?

thanks in advance guys...

[THE LAST CLONE]

sus buanga jud aning call center uy, maka pa usab ug taw.. lol

let go na miss.. move on.. di natu mu balik.. ug mu balik mn gani, PAGAMIT LNG, in love mn jud kaha ka niya.? lmao

nagka layu siya nmu, nagka samuk mn pud ka niya, ma.o cguru mu palayu pajud siyag maau.. lol

aku pa nmu, ari nlng ka nku.. back to basic ka with me.. ill take care of u, di jud tika pasakitan, di jud tika byaan, di ku parihas ana imung mga ex nga nag ayu lng sturya.. i swear, i promise, u'll be happy with me jud.. maka settle najud kag tarung kung ari ka naku..

sus buanga jud aning call center uy, mura mag magic, 1 snap, usab dayun ang taw.. lmao

[yiennahs]

pagmata na dai
wa naky pag-asa ana niya
geh lang kay ang buhay ay parang gulong ^^

[stealthghost]

@THE LAST CLONE, call center was not the reason why he changed.. ang friends sa lalaki..

@TS, try to talk to him, and tell him how you feel. If di siya maminaw nimo, then kaw mag initiate nga break na mu.. Although, I think mao na'y ampay sa lalaki, but save yourself from further pain, and break up with him.

[browniies]

if ganahan ka makig-talk,
unya ang guy dili,
wala na gyud na TS..
don't even bother to let him know ky para niya,
wala namo..


been there...

[hanybee]

aku pa nmu, ari nlng ka nku.. back to basic ka with me.. ill take care of u, di jud tika pasakitan, di jud tika byaan, di ku parihas ana imung mga ex nga nag ayu lng sturya.. i swear, i promise, u'll be happy with me jud.. maka settle najud kag tarung kung ari ka naku..

pytera kaau nimu brad ui..

[baloy]

be strong lang and decide with your mind above your heart

[ches1091]

move on and let go . in the end siya ray magmahay .

[raaachel]

i know your mind tells you to move on... all the signs point out that he's obviously cheating.... but the soundest advice is easier said than done.. especially if imong heart dili pa jud gusto mo let go.

[JeaneleneJimenez]

hmmp i feel you
all your friends keep on telling you na you should let him go , naa pay daghan diha but your heart says the opposite thing .
" It's hard to accept the TRUTH when the lies were exactly what you wanted to hear

i know how hard it is gurl but you should bear this saying into your mind "IF HE'S THE RIGHT GUY, HE WON'T LEAVE"