Intimacy and communication

[goonting]

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Good day everyone!

My wife and I just recently overcome our 1st year of marriage. I love my wife and my kids. I'm a simple guy who tries to help my wife with taking care of our children and household chores. It's just that it's so difficult nowadays to make love with her. Always says she's tired, she's not into into or just a simple kiss and hug after a long day at work. I tried to talk to her and ask if there is something wrong or have i done something I didn't know. I'm a bit frustrated.. i love and care for her and somehow a little intimacy is hard to find now.. is there a marriage counselor we could talk to? Thanks guys for the time.

[argarso]

naay daghan diri. mo reply ra na sila.

ngita sa ug timing sa communication ninyu. ayaw sa huna huna.a ang uban...

i know you can find a good time ma istoryahan na ninyu. ayaw lang pagdali.

[want2binvolve]

Basig wa pud kai panutbrush TS... ask her, make it serious... I think she'll listen this time... then basin mao radyui rason....Jowkee

[Blackjellybean27]

Hi, TS!

Based on experience, you just need to talk to her. As in, sit down with her (make sure it's the right timing, when she's smiling and not pissed off about something....) and talk. Make her understand that you have your needs and ask her as well if there is a need for you to help out more to lessen her work, etc.

Good luck TS ♥

[Mrs Rodriguez]

Good day everyone!

My wife and I just recently overcome our 1st year of marriage. I love my wife and my kids. I'm a simple guy who tries to help my wife with taking care of our children and household chores. It's just that it's so difficult nowadays to make love with her. Always says she's tired, she's not into into or just a simple kiss and hug after a long day at work. I tried to talk to her and ask if there is something wrong or have i done something I didn't know. I'm a bit frustrated.. i love and care for her and somehow a little intimacy is hard to find now.. is there a marriage counselor we could talk to? Thanks guys for the time.

just how many kids do you have right now? 1st year of marriage and you already have more than 1 kid? just amazing.

[spike412]

basin mahadlok mabuntis na pud imong asawa or basin kaha nitambok na sya... mao di sya ganahan makig intimate nimo.

[bowee]

@TS

ana jud na bai basta naa nay musod mga bata sa inyong kaminyoon.. either usa sa inyo kapoy na, unlike sauna nga kamo pang duha kay ang inyong tagsa tagsa ka attention, sa inyong duha ra jud.. Karon nga naa nay mga bata.. mabahin na ang inyong attention ug pag atiman. Pag atiman sa mga bata ug pag atiman pud sa inyong personal nga kalipay.

I think imong buhaton bai sa is to talk to your wife ra jud. Walay bisan kinsa, including a marriage counselor can advise you, other than to have a smooth and steady flow of communication to your wife.

Isip asawa naman na nimo, angay ka musulti unsa may naa sa imong kasing kasing, kay imo man nang kapikas sa kinabuhi..

Mao btaw na gitawag ug 'kapikas sa kinabuhi' kay sa ingon pa sa pari pag minyo ninyo... sa kasakit ug kaayo, sa kalisod ug kaginhawaan, mag tinambayayong mong duha sa imong asawa...

pasabta lang cya pre.. kuwang ra na jud ug TLC ug storya ninyong duha aron mahilot imong mga frustrations sa imong kaugalingon...

[AshLeyann31905]

basin stress kau xa sa iyang work TS..

[walker]

just how many kids do you have right now? 1st year of marriage and you already have more than 1 kid? just amazing.

are you insinuating something mrs rodriguez?

first year of marriage but who knows, they have been making babies before marriage.

the guy is looking and asking for a resolution of his situation, he obviously does not need a superficial dissection of every word in his thread.

hmmmp.. amazing indeed !

[alekssandr]

basin kuwang ramo ug date2 TS.. hehehe.. treat her as if bag.o pamo uyab..