too bad we cant choose our parents, but can we change them?

[kabirhirayu]

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[tamse]

true. parents do make mistakes and some are stuff that you cant take anymore. back then i really hate my parents. since year 2000 our living is going down because of some traitors and backstabbers. My parents then got busy of taking care of A LOT OF PROBLEMS and i dont want to be another problem. but there are times nga sapoton sila tungod sa problems nila, wa koy gibuhat ila ko awayon.

year 2004 i continue my studies here in cebu and was really excited that im going to be away from them. away from problems and being scolded because of nothing. but hey, 16 years of my life i spent it with them so i call my mom every now and then because i MISS them.. and she just said "ngano nanawag man ka?wa kay kwarta?"... gosh! i only ask money from them when i need allowance and tuition fees but never for nonsense like party2x or outing. and as far as i know, i never have a vacation even just for some few days ever since i've been here in cebu till now.

so anyway, there are a lot of things happen back then na maglagot ko. if i can curse them i would...

april 2011 my sister from the US came home... all we planned that month was vacation, tour, trip, enjoy, celebration, bonding, be pampered... but 15 days after my sister arrive our Daddy died... it was a nightmare.. it was supposed to be fun but it turn out it is days of crying.. to think 3 days after it's my mama's birthday and few weeks after it's going to be my birthday... and it's ......

now, i realize no matter what they have done those years and think of it now.. now matter how brutal it is, i regret of talking back to them.. of thinking of cursing them.. or making them mad... i would be willing eat that all just to see my Daddy again... since he left, every day i am so scared of losing another one... scared when my mother say "gusto nako mo apas..."

i now remember nga gi bunalan ko sa ako Daddy ug LEATHER nga bakos tungod kay ni labay ko sa atubangan sa TV while nag tan-aw siya... even though that hurts a lot i would do anything to feel that again just to see and feel that my Daddy is still with us

but anyway, i would just like to share this to everyone. i haven't even write this on my blog or even publish a blog post about. im sharing this here because i just hope and just tell you that grab your chance to forgive and hold on to them while you can... hug them... hold them... because we'll never know what will be there tomorrow...

connection sa topic? errrr.. di nako feel or i cant stand people hating their parents or saying this towards them.. i understand you guys but one day you'll be able to understand me.

PAKAPIN:
the last words my father told me was "buang ka..." because i showed him a picture of my sister sleeping (while nag tulo laway) ...

just sharing...

[kiamoy918]

Sus masuya jud ko aning pamilya nga intact uy and would end up hating their parents... Ako I grew up on my own bilin sa yaya sa mga relatives nga mga ngil.ad batasan, parents separated since 4 years old, used to hate my mom A LOT jud! Wa mi ni dako naa siya or naa akong papa kay he went abroad para samong needs but wala jud ko nalipay sa among situation. Ni dako ko nga ako2 ra, I had my siblings older than me pero kanya2 lakaw mi, we never found love at home. Karon dagko nami puro kasabot nami kalimtan na tnan. Uu wala lagi sila pag dagko namo but they have their share of sacrifices mabuhi lang mi. Akong papa nagger kaau until now sometimes maka lagot na but ako nalang huna2on ang pabalik2 niya sulti unsa ka lisud iya gi agian para namo. Im supposed to hate my mom, kay naa siya lain pamilya mao naka buwag sila sako papa but I LOVE her to death. Usually parents dont admit nga sayop sila coz mauwaw jud na sila. Love your mom bro, its payback time. Ayaw huna2a iyang sayop instead huna-hunaa sa pagpanganak daan pwede na niya ika matay. We cant change them just be thankful you have them afterall, sila nagbutang nimo kung asa ka karon.

[kabirhirayu]

i guess isog ra kaau ako title, and i over reacted. but to put it simply, shes a repeat offender. pero bcan pa, u have a big point kiamoy918, thank u..

[kiamoy918]

Bro, kasabot jud ko nimo. We're just humans nga maka feel ug pain ug kakapoy and all. I didn't mention unsa pa akong papa sa@ believe me, daghan pud siya bati. As in. Sugarol pa. But kahibaw ka, ako nalang pasagdaan unsa iyang buhaton like what I said, it's payback time. Probably mao nalang na kalipay sako papa. Sauna ugtas jud ko niya karon sabot nalang jud, yawyawan pa kaayo akong papa. Bear in mind kwarta makit.an ra, imong parents usa ra na sila dili na ma ilisan. Love them any possible way you can bro

[momoi]

im happy with mine. but its better man ts if you will talk it with your mama and papa if you have a problem with them

[gamay03]

i never regret having my parents... they are so cool..

[THE KID]

but u can choose your life..........

[s3thk]

bitter man ka....dili ka ganahan sa imong parents......kung wala imng parents wala ka

[kit_cebu]

i guess your father should've placed you in your mom's mouth or as$ instead of the other hole...
ungrateful prick...

sorry...but even if i haven't read your article or your experience...this is my reaction to the thread title...