Guy's Intention

[melmusic23]

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Hello fellow Istoryans... I am just a bit confused nowadays because there is this guy who keeps on flattering me... He would always say like... I look good sa akong dress, nice daw akong hair, etc. Looking at him, murag sincere man iyang appreciation and yeah it's nice if naay mo-admire sa imo...but he keeps on doing it. I mean I am no longer a high school student para mag-flatteran nalang and I am not sure what he implies. I don't wanna assume and take things the wrong way... I don't want nga ma misinterpret iyang moves lol... Shall I confront him what his intentions are? Would it be all right for a girl to ask a man his intentions? If so, when is the right time? I mean just don't wanna guess and I want a clear-cut answer because I am a very busy person and this is bothering me already...I mean affected kog gamay coz this man as per our few conversations, I'd say resembles the one I have been praying for... I am starting to like his personality...

Please let me know on what I should do...oh maybe I think too much but I am confused

[aridoasis]

You probably don't want to confront him head-on as it may lead you to an awkward position. It's possible that he might just be trying to establish rapport (assuming you work in the same place, or attend the same classes). You might want to try inviting him to lunch or merienda as a friendly gesture, allowing you to engage in casual conversation. Though you are busy, there are just some things that can't be rushed. Take his compliments as they are for now - just compliments. If he is indeed wanting a relationship, it has to come from his mouth without you asking him.

[Le'rei]

I have been there in your situation, same ato nah feel, it really bothers jud if ang guy mg cgeg tell sumthing mka flattered then buotan pa jud sya nmo, and u think mao imong ideal guy nga u prayed for...
wat I did wen tyms nga naglibog jud ko sa iya binuhatan towards me kay ako jud sya g.ask nga y he is doing that things to me, sumhow nagkaclose nuon mi ato mao ako sya g.ask...then he told me nga he likes me, lingaw ako personality daw, comfy sya nako...mao to we go out with my friends and his friends...
but months later, wa same ra among status, he never court but he told me nga he had a plan...til wa ghpon nahtabo, no courting...til i quit kay i dont understand his point on why he would not go on courting, so it came up my mind he dont like commitmens!

So, if i where you, talk with him (if close mo) nlng nga y he always do dat, be vocal nga it bothers you...
Mas nice if imo nah ma voice out...at least d pa au tantong taas and na control pa nimo imong feeling...d pa au tantong sakit...unlike min en take jud ug almost year....so go girl!

[melmusic23]

Thanks kaau sa inyong advice... sakto ka aridoasis... if he wants to have a relationship with me, then he will pursue... yeah I'll just take his compliments lang for now... I just have to be strong mentally... I forgot that there is a time for everything... One day, my questions would be answered...

[juck401]

ayaw lang pa affect ana oi.. if type nimo xa... then go daun

[prestige]

Gwapahan tingali siya nimu TS..

[melmusic23]

lol prestige... unya balik balikon jud diay? i mean... di ko gusto hatagan og meaning kay mogawas ko nga assuming...aw!

[handurawan]

You might want to try inviting him to lunch or merienda as a friendly gesture

IMHO if ur the one who will do the inviting thingy isn't a good idea for me.... perhaps, giving him an idea or hint that prompted him to invite you to have merienda,,,that's the best... but never initiate the first move...

remember: DO NOT ASSUME....

[rejiel]

wala ko kaexperience sa imong situation TS but murag ani guro tong nafeel sa usa ka girl nga akong gikaganahan then i thought ganahan pud siya nako, then it turned out nga confuse lang daw siya adto nga time...although friends pa mi karon but lahi na jud ang treatment niya nako...

[666satan]

ayaw lang rush..ky padung LUST..dli na LOVE....