mas concern pa siya kaysa tinuod nga amahan

[yvonne6]

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hi guys, im not sure who of u have followed my threads here in istorya. i found a new love and im amazed that this new guy is concern with my son that my son's real father. my new guy said, let his (my son) father visit and see him. unsaon man intawn nako nga dili gani manawag diri ang amahan? ang parents ra sa akong ex ang mo ari or manawag para kamustaon ang bata. my new guy even volunteered to call and talk to my ex about the kid and i told him, ayaw jud. pasangin lang nasad kos akong ex nga nang gamit ug laing taw or ang bata para maduol or magka communicate mig balik. feeler kaau to the highest level. ug ingon ana mang lang, bahala siya oi. mas na appreciate nuon nako ug samot akong new bf sa iyang gi suggest, but hell i wont call my ex. wala gani siya financial support sa bata, checking on the kid is the least he can do. my new bf said, dili nasad siguro ka pasanginlan nga nag hope pa kay naa naman mo. ay bb, bait mo talaga. kung kamo, mag unsa man mo? tawagan ninyo c ex about sa among anak or padayun sa life? im fine jud na dili na sila magkita sa bata, but sa ako pang bf karon, luoy man pud ang bata

[jntio]

pag dili mangita ang bata sa iya father ayaw pod igkita usik² lang mo sa oras. kung responsable pa siya pagka amahan dili unta niya matiis dili makita iya anak inana rana sis. maypa ilubong nyo nalang siya sa limot

[reginakrys]

mas luoy ang bata kung maka-feel cya nga ang only reason gitagad cyas iyang amahan kay tungod gipugos/hangyo nimo.. pasagdie nalang na ang biological father oi.. napay daghan diha nga maka-stand as a better example to your kids..

[jntio]

tanan baya nako ma partner sis kay "buotan" ko sa una unya ma devil lang kalit.
so tambag inamigo hinay² lang pod pag yag² sa imong gibati

[ulyssa_marie]

I think your current BF is just being sensitive to your son's feelings. Sure, you dont want to talk to ur ex or see him.. but u never know.. your son may be asking himself before he sleeps , "who's my real father?" .

Your current BF is just trying to teach you how to put away your personal grudge against your ex and look at things on the side of your son.. who may be emotionally searching for a father. I know you believe that your ex can never be a good father, but let your son be the judge of that.

Eventually, ur son will realize that ur current BF is the father he idolizes and will soon forget about his biological father.

Rather than wondering , "who's my real dad? .. i can never see who he is coz mommy hates him" -- you, as his mother.. that may be a little too selfish.

[yvonne6]

^^let me correct you with that. for 5 long years, gi share nako ang bata sa akong ex. even when i was still pregnant, gitalikdan nako sa amahan sa akong 5 year old angel. pero wala ko ni give up kay para nako my son has the right to know and experienced being love by his father. that was never enough. everytime akong i reason ang among anak needs to grow up with mom and dad, pasanginlan kos akong ex nga ginagamit ang bata para magkabalik mi, baga kaau ug nawong. now that i have a new guy and i think he knows, dili sad siguro siya puede mamasangil nga gusto ko makig balik niya. yet, he has not called to check his son out. why would i call him again? para pasanginlan ko nga gusto ko makig balik? in the first place, its not worth it to talk to someone with clouded mind, doesnt even know how to be a father. sayang lang unya ang effort nako

[joulekelvin]

kanus-a mo last nagstorya sa imong ex? basig this time nausab na iyang huna2x.... give him a chance to be a father of your son.... and so what if mo ingon xa "gigamit nmu ang bata para lang makigbalik nako" if kibaw ka nga dili na tinuod. Buhata lang na para sa imng anak. pero I think angay na nmu buhaton if mangita ang bata sa tinuod niya nga father.

[yvonne6]

^^my ex knows that i want the best for our son. if he would only try to get in touch (we are just a phone call away) i would definitely want to talk about our son. but wala jud na niya himua. its always been like this for years now. dili ko makalimut (never) when i told him, mura man nimog gipalimus ang bata sa imong gugma when that shouldnt be the case, imo baya nang dugo ug unod. his first born. his only son (for now). wala man jud siyay amor sa bata. buntis pa lang ko sugot lang gani siya ipa abort ang bata. i did a lot of sacrifice para sa among anak, exactly the reason why i chew everything for almost 7 years, pero instead nga maka amgo akong ex nga amahan na siya, nisamot naman hinuon pagka walay kuwenta, wala nay trabaho, sige pag barkada anang mga adik niyang mga friends, ug nag binuang pa jud sa lain nga girl. kapoy na jud kaau, ako na lang tanan, from the time i was pregnant until now, wala jud na siya naka provide sa iyang anak. never gani naka throw ug birthday party sa iyang anak. he doesnt have the patience of being with me and our kid sa church to teach the kid good values but then makit an nimo sa fb nga naabot ug diin nga probinsiya ga overnight kauban ang mga barkadang walay au. sakit kaau oi and he does not even understand why i was so hurt. paet

[ilovedogs]

go on nlng sis! sometimes gud it brings more bad than good kng muasa ka sa tao nga walay klaro. bacn maapektuhan lng imong anak, kay madisappoint lng sa iyang papa. pro syempre, if ang father ang mumake ug effort nga gnahan xa part sa life sa imong anak, then much better! pro if dili xa interested, ayw nlng ipugos kay sakitan lng imong anak. i think your love is enough. and now nga naa naka prospect nga mufill in sa role as father, then so much the merrier!

[yvonne6]

^^nanawag daw gabii murag hubog, nangita sa bata. dili man akoy nakatubag